Will Florida Teens With Sexually Transmitted Diseases Have To Tell Their Parents Before They Can Get Treatment?
These bills would require exactly that—and a lot more.

In an ideal world, teenagers would not be engaging in risky sexual activity and would not be catching sexually transmitted infections (STIs). But we do not live in an ideal world. And young people are often dumb. The best we can hope for is that when some young people make bad decisions, these will not result in dire or lifelong consequences.
If, say, some 16-year-old has unprotected sex and catches chlamydia, we should hope that the teen will get treated—even if that means telling a parent what is going on. But, is this likely? Given an option between telling a parent they're sexually active and simply shutting up and hoping for the best, it doesn't seem unreasonable to worry that teens may choose the latter.
That's why it's probably a good idea not to condition STI treatment on parental consent. You risk stopping young people from seeking testing and treatment in the first place.
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But Americans—especially in states like Florida and Texas—seem to be in the midst of a panic about parental approval. And it doesn't seem to hinge so much on stopping risky or dangerous behavior as giving parents ultimate control over all aspects of their children's lives, even when these children are adolescents or on the cusp of adulthood. We want parents to have to approve the books and ideas they're exposed to in school, the apps they can download, and the social media platforms they join.
Now, Florida wants to require parental consent before a minor can be treated for an STI.
STI Treatment Consent: What About Minors' Rights?
Notably, no one seems to even pretend that this is about helping minors—some of whom surely have good reason not to tell their parents if they're sexually active and may refrain from treatment rather than doing so.
No, proponents of the bill keep talking about parental rights.
Of course, rights are important, especially when it comes to areas where the state is trying to substitute its judgment for that of parents.
But children also have rights and should be granted increasing autonomy in exercising these rights as they approach adulthood. And consenting to sensitive but nonrisky medical treatment to stop dangerous complications and further spreading of disease seems like a prime area for allowing older minors some autonomy.
Florida lawmakers do not see it this way, apparently. A pair of bills—House Bill 1505 and Senate Bill 1288—that would ban minors getting treated for STIs without parental consent "have cleared all of their committee stops in both chambers," the Florida Phoenix reports.
If this becomes law, Florida would become the first state to deny minors the right to consent to STI services, according to the Kaiser Family Foundation.
Requiring Consent for Mental Health Care, Substance Abuse Treatment, and School Surveys
The House version of the bill would also let parents opt kids of all ages out of taking not just mental health surveys or health screenings at school but any survey or questionnaire that may reveal things such as political beliefs, religious beliefs, "sexual behavior or attitudes," or "critical appraisals" of any family member.
It would remove language allowing doctors to provide contraceptive services to minors without their parent's consent when the minor would, "in the opinion of the physician, suffer probably health hazards if such services are not provided."
And it would remove language allowing minors to "voluntarily apply for and obtain substance abuse treatment" on their own.
The bill would furthermore remove language allowing doctors to treat minors "seeking outpatient crisis intervention services" without parental consent. And it would repeal a section of Florida code that says minors ages 13 or above who are experiencing "emotional crisis" can "request, consent to, and receive mental health diagnostic and evaluative services" or "outpatient crisis intervention services including individual psychotherapy, group therapy, counseling, or other forms of verbal therapy provided by a licensed mental health professional."
Again, one hopes kids would be able to talk to their parents about mental health problems or substance abuse issues, and that parents would respond by helping them get treatment and not with extreme forms of punishment. But in reality, not all parents are going to respond well in such situations. And we should hope that kids might seek help even when they don't want to get a parent involved or when a parent has refused to let them seek outside help.
This isn't all bad—the bits about allowing parents to opt kids out of health screenings and various surveys could stop schools from intruding in things they have no business intruding in. After all, students themselves probably are not allowed to opt out of such screenings and surveys, so at least giving their parents that option is good. And it's not like a kid with trouble at home couldn't talk to teachers or administrators without the survey. (Though I can also see enforcement of this plank going too far and being used to try and limit classroom discussions or assignments in weird ways, as Florida seems wont to do.)
There's also a bit about using biofeedback devices on kids outside of a health care facility. To the extent that this is a thing that's actually happening or could happen, requiring parental consent doesn't seem like a bad idea here.
But overall, the Florida bills seem like yet another sign of lawmakers and advocates taking parental rights too far. We're moving beyond protecting parents from unfair and unwarranted governmental incursions on their authority and starting to use the phrase to deny even basic bodily autonomy and decision making rights to anyone under 18.
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"The testimony has underscored the government's steep challenge in bringing a case, Federal Trade Commission v. Meta Platforms, against a fast-moving modern tech giant," notes The New York Times:
By the time the five-year-old lawsuit reached trial last week, Silicon Valley had moved on from battling over social networking to battling over artificial intelligence, quantum computing and driverless cars — so much so that it was sometimes hard to relate to what was discussed in court.
Social media has evolved, too. At the trial, government lawyers have tried to define Meta's social networking market as one that is about connecting with friends and family. That's because more than a decade ago, Facebook had a distinct advantage with its "friend graph," which is the group of friends, family and personal connections a user is linked with on the social network. That graph made it more difficult for users to pack up and easily go elsewhere.
But a decade is a long time in internet years, and somewhere along the way, social media became less about social and more about media. People now post fewer status updates and photos. Scrolling through apps is less about sharing with friends and more about letting strangers entertain you.
Essentially, the government is bringing a case against a company that no longer exists for dominating a tech landscape that no longer exists.
The Gen Z lifestyle subsidy? "In the 2010s, Millennials got cheap Ubers. Today's young people are getting free SuperGrok," notes The Atlantic. "It's reminiscent of the 2010s, when a generation of start-ups fought to win users over by offering cheap access to their services."
Babies by Trump? The White House is reportedly considering menstrual education as one way to boost U.S. fertility rates.
European Union cracks down on U.S. tech companies. "The European Commission issued the first fines under its Digital Markets Act on Wednesday, slapping tech giants Apple and Meta with penalties for breaching the EU's new digital rulebook," reports Politico. "Apple faces a €500 million fine for breaching the regulation's rules for app stores, while Meta drew a penalty of €200 million for its 'pay or consent' advertising model, which requires that European Union users pay to access ad-free versions of Facebook and Instagram."
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Minors should never be given medical treatments behind their parents' backs. Why is this even controversial?
Because many teens don't have the relationship with their parents to be supported. It is more important to give the teens treatment than deny it.
Also I have a big problem with parents preventing their children to get health care. If a teen is able and willing to seek treatment, they should get it.
Healthcare = mutilation
Only in your fucked up warped mind.
No, only in the fucked up warped minds of progressives. Restating the equation for them: Mutilation = health care.
Fuck you. I have a bigger problem with other people assuming parental responsibility for minors without, what's that current leftist fad, due process.
The legal concept of a minor is that they do not have authority to make most significant decisions for themselves.
You’re objectively evil.
OK, AIDS is an STI. So if you take ENB's "Children should be able to get treated for STIs without their parents' permission (or having to inform anyone)." and do a simple search/replace AIDS for STI it becomes "Children should be able to get treated for AIDS without their parents' permission (or having to inform anyone)."
If the State showed up to take her kids away I don't know that I would/could/should contribute more than [shrug]. It's more insane, irresponsible/dangerous, and verisimilitudinous (internally consistent, or I/we believe that she believes what she's saying) than anything Alex Jones has said (AFAIK).
If she ever divorces, as long as her husband isn't hanging out in a bell tower taking rifle shots at passers by, it should be like a slam dunk on one of those Fisher Price Lil Tyke basketball goals.
Deviant sex cult is more important than parental rights.
Not just deviant sex, self-destructive sex.
"Should teens be forced to disclose unusual piercings, chapped ass cheeks, or why their nipples are sore to their parents?" would be deviant. "Should teens be forced to disclose syphilis, HIV, or the primary cause of cervical, anal, and throat cancer to their parents?" is just ENB manifesting her inner Tuskegee/Guatemalan Syphilis Experimenter.
Right!
Why the fuck wouldn't they have to be informed?
Many reasons. Some parents will abuse their children if the think they are gay, sexually active, or need mental health treatment.
Please stop sharing your sexual fantasies.
Abusive parents come in a zillion flavors. What about the practical problems -- payment, medical history, medical secrets?
Yeah, yeah, I know -- consequences are the least of your worries. You'll fix them tomorrow.
From practically the dawn of civilization up until 2015 it was widely understood that biological parents generally had more invested in their kids and were therefor more caring for them than non-biological parents. Even if they failed, they were more honest about their failures in order to advocate a future for their children and/or their children's families. This was seen across civilizations and throughout history and can even be somewhat obliquely observed in lots of mammals' and other vertebrates' social behavior.
Then, suddenly, in 2015 you became a monstrous bigot to even suggest that two Moms or two Dads, one of whom is inherently non-biological, was in any way inferior to one Mom and one Dad. Around the same time, the administration had people openly professing that peoples' kids belonged to the village, not the parents, and every parent became a de facto suspect.
For a couple years, we were "all in this together." and if people had to be contact traced and their infectious status shared around to flatten the curve, with MOAR TESTING... so be it. You, of course, were still presumed to be an abusive bigot for not vaccinating your kids, even if there was no indication of anyone having it or the vaccine benefiting them in any way.
Now it would seem that if your kid and all their friends start bleeding from their genitals and complaining about a burning sensation when they pee anyone asking any questions of the medical community is a de facto suspect for child abuse *WITHOUT DUE PROCESS!!!!!*
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There is seemingly no limit to the abjectly dysfunctional, retarded, and incoherent positions the left *will* pinball between.
How about if they come out as MAGA?
And some people will abuse children if they believe they can convince a child that keeping secrets from their parents is good and necessary, especially if those secrets are related to sex.
When the treatment fails and complications lead to an emergency I guess the parents will find out then?
I'm allergic to amoxicillan. If a third party gave me some for gonorrhea when I was a teen then who is held responsible when my throat closes up and I die?
There's very good reasons for parental consent when it comes to anything medical involving a minor.
At least penicillin just makes me vomit profusely.
What a stupid short-sighted take! Of course children should talk to their parents before getting medical treatment! Besides the concept of "he who pays the piper calls the tune", let's just play this scenario out and see how well it goes.
* 16-year old shows up at doctor's office.
* "I want to see the doctor."
* "Where are your parents?"
Well, that didn't work. Let's try something different. Let's assume the admissions nurse is corrupt and stupid and takes a $20 to send her to the doctor.
* "Nurse, you stay with us to make sure I don't do anything shady."
* "No! This is a private matter!"
* Nurse, leave us alone."
* ... days later, when the parents find out ...
* Parents scream at the kid. She lies, says it was the doctor's idea.
* "What did he do to you?"
* "He looked at my ..."
* Parents call cops and their lawyer.
NOPE, not gonna happen. Can you imagine any doctor opening himself up to malpractice claims for child abuse?
Criminy! Doctors want a patient history. Is this kid going to say she has no family doctor? It's sure as shit that her family doctor won't see her alone without telling her parents. It's sure as shit that parents who found out would call their lawyer for a malpractice suit.
This is even dumber than making it illegal for teachers, counselors, and other school staff to tell parents what names and pronouns they have brainwashed children into "preferring". Idiocy, idiocy squared.
God, the level of naiveté here, the ignorance, the inability to think past the headline ... ENB.
Providing proper treatment is not malpractice.
Proper treatment = cutting off a girl’s breasts because she’s going through a tomboy phase, in your sick world.
That is not relevant to this topic. And also a MAGA lie.
Maybe you haven't noticed, but most malpractice lawsuits have little to do with malpractice.
You should get a lobotomy.
God, the level of naiveté here, the ignorance, the inability to think past the headline ... ENB.
And even if the kid doesn't say it was the doctor's idea; suppose the kid got the STI from a teacher, an adult caregiver, or a collegiate-level personal trainer that predominantly
treatsgrooms up-and-coming gymnasts... do you really think the doctor/nurse/practice/clinic/hospital is gonna get on the stands and say, "We didn't tell the parents about the STI because it didn't really seem pertinent at the time."?Suppose the kid's teammate gets it from a teacher and suddenly parents who aren't as abjectly retarded as ENB put 2 and 2 together about why their kid had to go see a urologist for no particular reason at all a few months ago.
Whose insurance is this going on?
You exist as a totem of what not be.
Insurance? MEDICAL TREATMENT FOR STDS IS A HUMAN RIGHT!
What if your parent, the person whose insurance you're on, IS YOUR ABUSER and the person who gave you the STD? This happens a lot in these inbred right-wing families.
Cite?
Will Florida teens with STD's have to tell their parents before treatment
I'm sure legislators had to struggle re what to do in cases of incest.
Because they aren’t sick enough to think that would be a common thing?
17% of 15 year old girls have experienced some form of sexual abuse. 30% of it by someone in their family.
Probably a higher % in those families, like yours, who want to excuse it and cover it up.
So 30% of 17% is commplace to you?
95% of statistics about sexual assault are bullshit.
As indicated above, from the dawn of civilization well into the modern era and independently in mammalian and vertebrate social structures, biological parents and children generally share a preferred social symbiosis. It's neither flawless nor exclusive but other similar social structures are far less preserved and break down far more frequently.
If sexual assaults from incest are a problem it's virtually always a derivative of a more broad and worse social situation.
But again, these are frequently the people who will tell you that biological sex is a social construct, women are stronger, better athletes than men, and if you see a male gorilla beating and forcibly raping a female gorilla after killing her offspring, you're just falsely projecting your human social norms onto animals.
STI's? Why are taxpayers funding sex education?
Are you trying to tell me that ONCE AGAIN the public school system cannot teach?
Could it possibly be that learning how to out a condom on a cucumber is not enough?
Does the bill state that all relevant medical expenses will be covered by the campaign funds of those who vote for it?
Sex education in schools leads to lower STDs, lower teen pregnancies, and less risky behavior.
the school nurse has to get the parent's permission to give a kid tylenol but sure, keep everything about sex and abortion secret from the parents. That makes perfect sense.
That specific example is annoying to me. The school won't let me give blanket permission to give my kid common otc drugs as needed. At the same time my kid could get in trouble for having midol in her bag.
Once again, Elizabeth, you're not living in a movie -- in this case "Footloose (The Medical Reboot)."
>to deny even basic bodily autonomy and decision making rights to anyone under 18.
One endpoint of that kind of thinking is that children of any age should be allowed to be "sex workers." Is that what you want, Elizabeth? Do I really have to put up links about the plasticity and unformed nature of child and adolescent brains? If the only role for parents were to feed kids, why not just turn the kids over to the supermarket? Or McDonald's? Another endpoint of your kind of thinking is that children get taken away from their parents at birth and get put into government creches. Is that what you want, Elizabeth?
Yes, 5 year old sex workers is exactly what she wants. And yes, State absolute control over you kids is exactly what she wants. And when it all goes to shit it will be everybody else's fault for stopping her and the rest of her nihilistic, child sacrificing cult from pushing these things through.
That's why it's probably a good idea not to condition STI treatment on parental consent. You risk stopping young people from seeking testing and treatment in the first place.
This is probably the worst way to tell your parents you're suffering from tertiary neurosyphilis, but once the dementia sets in you probably don't get much of a choice.
I know you were around for the 10 yr. old that needed an abortion because her Mom's illegal immigrant boyfriend was raping her. And I know you were around for the teachers illegally vaccinating students while we fired actual medical health professionals and soldiers for not getting vaccinated against a disease for which many were at low or no risk. So, the most likely explanation for the absurd take, in context would be that you're advocating for yourself here.
Otherwise, have you suffered any sharp blows to the head, falls, fainting, or dizzy spells? Maybe have someone read you a list of 5 words and come back 5-10 min. later and ask you to recall them. Because, STIs aside, the only adjectives I have to describe this take are "out of touch" and "brain damaged".
If you thought Obamacare was stupid, I present ENBCare.
Beyond parody.
Publish an article about teens and sex, and Molly G defends anything that allows kids and sex without parental involvement. Gov't involvement, but not parents.
Kinda groomy, ffs.
The article is about healthcare.
The article is about rights of parents, you cunt.
When the "rights" of the parent conflict with the rights of the minor, I will side with the minor every time.
All pedophiles would agree with you.
It’s about minors not legally allowed to make decisions. Like gun ownership.
"Your child has just been run over." Sure, I'd like there to be a parent notification obligation there.
"Your teen son/daughter has a STD." Hmm, I see where the problem comes in.
Where to draw lines, and why? If you can answer this question easily, there's something wrong with your premises.
If you can answer this question easily, there's something wrong with your premises.
I won't answer, then. Thanks for the warning.
Answering is fine. Answering and being very confident is a bad sign.
If you can answer this question easily, there's something wrong with your premises.
My premise is that the parents are implicitly, if not explicitly, the duly designated legal guardians and as designated guardians are owed full disclosure and medical power of attorney. Aside from or even in contradiction to that specific role, they are owed presumption of innocence and due process.
Further, failing the parents, next nearest proxies are broadly historically and generally regarded as poorer choices. To wit, the law already gives medical professionals, healthcare providers, and family services agents wide latitude to act under evidence indicating a reasonable suspicion of abuse. Latitude and reasonable suspicion that this magazine is notorious for lambasting as being "junk" or otherwise inadmissible or unfit to be presented in court.
Between those premises, I'm pretty sure my answer that you and ENB can go fuck yourselves is the correct one. Feel free to point out which premise is in error. Dumbass.
I don't know which premise is in error. I just know that if you're very confident that premise is correct, or that the opposite premise is correct, or that any premise is even better than none, that's a bad sign. This is a difficult question and probably unanswerable by any set of rules, like the trolley problem.
I know a lot of people here feel very good about deduction from a prioris, and therefore threatened by any suggestion that that sort of thinking will be unsatisfying.
No, there is something wrong with you trying to hide a child's well-being from their parents. But you're not about to take responsibility for anything are you.
If your objection to this law is "let us first assume the parents are terrible", then you may be an overly paranoid fool, or may be dishonestly pushing a libertine agenda.
This law is specifically tailored to allow terrible parents to hurt their children. If a teen has a normal, supporting parent, they would have no need to hide this.
It seems far more useful for ill-intentioned adults who are not the parents in positions of authority over the child to harm the child. Children should be taught to run, not walk, away from adults who tell them, "we won't tell your parents about this, OK?"
You are a sick fuck.
If your objection to this law is "let us first assume the parents are terrible"
MUH DEW PROCESS! MUH PREESUMPSHUN OF INNOSENSE!
Good thing they are giving young boys the HPV vaccine now, so you don't need to worry about them getting anus cancer.
Nope. Just like with the flu vaccine, the HPV vaccine is strain and population-specific and down-low, bear week, monkeypox-swapping "cultural norms" aren't exactly conducive to identifying, let alone developing comprehensive vaccinations. Routine screening a la pap smears is still recommended and, even then, what epidemiological statistics there are indicate it's still "holding back a flood". Which, to be clear, doesn't literally mean there are a "two weeks to flatten the curve" number of cases, even cervical cancer vis-a-vis HPV wasn't ever that sort of situation. Just that getting vaccinated is (once again) a poor substitute for just being less promiscuous and/or heterosexual.
It always seems like the people who think government needs to protect kids from the parents are the parents who are abusing their kids. Pro-government usually means kiddy diddler.
You know where you are going to get raped as a child? In the foster home the government put you in after you were taken away from your parents.