Massachusetts Ex-Cop Charged With Strangling Pregnant Woman and Staging Her Death as a Suicide
Matthew Farwell allegedly murdered a 23-year-old woman who was pregnant with his child. Their relationship is said to have began when she was 15. He was 27.

On Tuesday, a former Massachusetts police officer was charged with murdering a pregnant woman and staging her death to look like a suicide to prevent her from revealing that he had groomed her starting when she was just 15.
Matthew Farwell, now 38, allegedly strangled 23-year-old Sandra Birchmore in 2021. According to prosecutors, Farwell killed Birchmore weeks after she told him she was pregnant with his child. Farwell was allegedly worried that Birchmore would tell other Stoughton, Massachusetts, police officers about their relationship.
"Birchmore was a vulnerable person," Stoughton Police Chief Donna McNamara said in 2022, after an investigation revealed Farwell's relationship with Birchmore. "One constant in her life since childhood: her unwavering admiration of police officers….The admiration led her to form relationships with men who were willing to take advantage of her."
According to court documents, Birchmore applied to the Stoughton Police Explorers Academy, a police department program aimed at youth interested in working in law enforcement, when she was 12. There, she met Farwell, who allegedly groomed her and eventually had sex with her when she was 15 and he was 27. Their relationship continued for years, with the pair eventually agreeing in 2020 that Farwell would help Birchmore become pregnant, in exchange for her keeping their relationship a secret.
According to a Wednesday press conference, after Birchmore informed Farwell she had conceived his child in December 2020, he became increasingly violent and controlling, pushing her, shoving her, and putting her in a chokehold.
"Mr. Farwell was losing control in late 2020, early 2021, and the information that Sandra Birchmore possessed about his illegal conduct was in danger of slipping out," acting U.S. Attorney Joshua Levy said on Wednesday. "In fact, word started to get out about their relationship. Less than two weeks before she was found dead, someone called the Stoughton Police Department and disclosed that Matthew Farwell had had a relationship with Sandra Birchmore. When Mr. Farwell learned about that, that call, he became visibly angry."
Prosecutors claim that, after killing Birchmore, Farwell staged her death to look like a suicide—a tactic that originally fooled investigators, who ruled her death a suicide after a 2021 autopsy.
In 2022, 10 Boston, a local news station, reported that four former Stoughton Police Department employees—including Farwell and his twin brother William—had also had "inappropriate" relationships with Birchmore. All four officers resigned before the 2022 investigation.
"Giving voice to the voiceless, ensuring that no one is above the law, protecting the vulnerable people of Massachusetts, that's the highest calling of people in law enforcement," Levy said on Wednesday. "Mr. Farwell violated those principles, and now he faces very grave consequences."
Farwell has pled not guilty to the charges. If convicted, he faces a minimum sentence of life in prison.
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This is me breathing a sigh of relief that a baby wasn't born.
Let me be sure I'm understanding you: you're glad that a baby, one who had nothing to do with anything going on between its mother and father, is dead?
Are there other times you celebrate dead babies?
Lemme guess... Trumpanzee Christian National Socialist republican girl-bullier on government payroll bullies a girl to death?
Send Matthew Farwell up! Farewell to Farwell!
(And I sure hope that shit doesn't cost the taxpayer ten bazillion dollars to do so. Get 'er DONE! WELL done; not "rare"! Take this steak back to the burn-'em-at-the-stake, and "rare" it once again!!!)
On Tuesday, a former Massachusetts police officer was charged with murdering a pregnant woman and staging her death to look like a suicide to prevent her from revealing that he had groomed her starting when she was just 15.
'Groomed'
I've been told... repeatedly that this is all mythologicalisms.
Just the one and he got caught? It's like amateur hour around this place.
It's only mythical when Muslims are accused of doing it.
He waited till she was 15. So that makes him a good cop.
Let's play good cop, bad cop? Holy BeJesus, I do SNOT want to meet "bad cop" in this case!!!
... and her a dead girl. This is why Republicans have a lot of trouble getting dates. Trump wants to give them gubmint subsidies so they can get it up when the chance to rape arises.
Wasn't that long ago they could have gotten legally married in most states.
Unintentionally funny headline of the week:
Trump’s vow to fire thousands of ‘crooked’ federal workers prompts alarm
Politicians and police like to use their particular status to take advantage of young women. May these abusers all rot in hell.
Oops. Shouldn’t have been a reply.
Like Bill Clinton.....
Didn't Stephanie Slade just explain that firing federal employees would be the end of liberty? Or something? WTF?
Depends on who does it. If Biden was to purge the federal government of conservatives, that would be pure evil. But if Trump was to purge the federal government of Democrats, that would be justice. Principles shminciples. All that matters is political affiliation. Right?
If Biden was to purge the federal government of conservatives, that would be pure evil.
Lol. Sometimes in your desperation to troll you end up owning yourself, Sarckles.
Aside from the fact Biden has obviously been doing exactly that, as did Barry with the military circa 2014, you've just said that ‘crooked federal workers' Rick mentioned are 'Democrats'.
When did Barry purge the military of conservatives?
2014. It's right there. Read more carefully.
That and the fraction of the sinecure paycheck that goes into the partisan tithing campaign chest. This is why Plunkitt understood the importance of votes, plums and patronage, and Nixon passed the anti-libertarian election-buying law. https://libertariantranslator.wordpress.com/2015/09/05/nixons-anti-libertarian-law/
Really? I know Slade has a lot of retarded takes, but that's exceptionally dumb.
https://reason.com/2024/08/29/only-the-best-people/
'Crooked' is just an euphemism for 'Democrat.'
Being that most federal workers are evil Democrats, and not loyal to Trump (that's what makes them 'crooked'), if he were to purge the federal government of his enemies then there wouldn't be enough federal employees for it to function.
If that's the only way to cut the size and scope of the government, then I'm fine with it.
Democrat is just a euphemism for crooked.
‘Crooked’ is just an euphemism for ‘Democrat.’
Everyone note that this Sarcasmic saying this.
Our "Totally Not A Democrat" Democrat apologist Sarcasmic.
Better than Article II federal employees who outright oppose and undermine the President.
This is why Brandon and the Dems are filling justice department slots as fast as possible, changing their status of employment and devising new rules to try and Trump Proof the federal government so they can keep stabbing Trump in the back if he is elected.
How the heck does having a baby contribute to keeping there relationship secret?
On the one hand, teenage girls get knocked up often, and do not always say who the father is. So this is plausible- "Give me a baby and I'll continue seeing you on the down low". On the other hand, 20-something girls who have been abused for the better part of a decade aren't known for their Machiavellian 4D Chess prowess.
Are they both white? Straight? In a heterosexual relationship?
Nothing to see here.
white? Straight? In a heterosexual relationship?
Sounds suspicious to me...
Aren't cops allowed qualified impunity to do as they please? After all, they represent the long arm of the law or is that a short dick and the need to rape women to feel manly.
How much time will he get? Life? twenty? Ten years? or probation and back out onto the streets in some other unwitting town that has the bad luck of hiring this pig.
As for the other pigs who resigned, they of course , can find another cop job in another state and do it all over again.
Just remember, the police are NOT for YOUR protection. They are for code enforcement.
How much time will he get? Life? twenty? Ten years? or probation and back out onto the streets in some other unwitting town that has the bad luck of hiring this pig.
The article says the minimum sentence is life. If he’s smart he’ll request a bench trial with a judge instead of a jury trial. The government in Mass is corrupt from top to bottom. I bet $20 he’ll be quietly acquitted by a sympathetic judge and rehired with back pay after the media fuss dies down.
The law says immunity. The adjectival modifier doesn't change that. Looters make force-initiating laws so their cops can try to procreate by force-initiating rape. How else but with test tubes can hideous mystical whackjobs reproduce?
Despite your sarcastic post you hit the nail on the head. That murderer and rapist will probably see jail time but those other 3 cops that resigned before the investigation are free to move 1 town over and get hired by a different agency. This type of department shopping ahead of discipline needs to be curtailed.
This is a pathetic story but I'm not sure it qualifies as "police abuse". Yeah this asshole was a cop but this girl had a thing for cops. If she was hot for football players would it be "football player abuse"? Young women get horny. It's a fact of life. This girl made bad choices and I'm totally cool with this motherfucker hanging from a gallows. But I'm not sure his cop costume should make a difference.
Because people who wear that costume take an oath, and are supposed to be held to a higher standard. On and off the clock. That and if this guy murdered a teenager that he was banging while off the clock, who knows what kind of shit he did while working. I bet the other cops who were also banging the chick know.
"One constant in her life since childhood: her unwavering admiration of police officers…"
Her parents dropped the ball and didn't teach her that the police are not her friends. Now they don't have a daughter.
The parents are idiots to leave their kid alone with adults. Your one sole duty as a parent is to keep your kids away from being alone with any adult other than you and your spouse. There’s should be a dmv test for parenting. Jesus fuck
That’s paranoid. Not allowing your children to have relationships with adults just because a tiny proportion of them are a threat to children causes children needless harm and deprivation. And it’s off-target—by far, most child abuse takes place in the home, at the hands of parents or household member. Statistically, your child is much safer fishing with Uncle Bob than at home.
If you don't have children yet, please don't.
There's a LOT of that going around... Violent laws breed violent cops. even Adam Smith pointed THAT out.
This was awful and the cover-up was worse. I recommend looking into the Karen Read case as well. This took place in Canton, Ma (next to Stoughton and the town Birchmore was killed) This case involved a lot of the incompetent and corrupt local and state police that hindered a murder investigation. Massachusetts local government and police departments are an incestuous cesspool.
I followed that case a bit. It's sure looks like there is some deep corruption going on.
Very dicey stuff was going on.
...he became increasingly violent and controlling...
When you train and then reinforce a culture of compliance or violence, it's not unreasonable to conclude (backed by ample evidence) some will let that bleed into their personal lives. My guess is this escalated but the menace was a constant in their relationship.
Immunity was what the victors got in an 80s sci-fi story. Instead of war they had soldier olympics with live ammo and the survivor who won the "war" got immunity and started raping underage girls. I can't recall who wrote it.
Right. Domestic abuse is very common in the homes of police officers.
All four cops were fucking her starting at age 13. The investigators weren’t fucking fooled - they’re corrupt af and covered the whole thing up. These are the same corrupt cops involved with Karen Reed - the lady whose cop boyfriend was killed by his fellow cops and then they framed his girlfriend Karen.
The only reason this is coming out is bc of tiktok people digging in to all the corruption surrounding Karen. The news keeps reporting it as “inappropriate” and calling her “a woman”. It’s total bullshit the news is so useless these days, nothing but lies and spin and propaganda and covering up and downplaying malfeasance. Fuck.
I was wondering why both halves of the looter Kleptocracy were down on TikTok. That, Faecebook, Trüth and Xitter target the huge majority of voters with below-normal intelligence.
How can the majority be below normal?
Did you read something that I didn't because I read that he waited till she was 15 and there was no indication as to what age the others waited till she was before they took a shot. She may have been 18 for all we know. Not justifying it as they took advantage of positions of power but if they waited till 18 then she was an adult. Most departments do have a code of conduct, though and they surely breeched it.
Massachusetts is the second most Democratic State. I'm willing to lay 3 to 2 odds the jury sends the Republican girl-killer cop somewhere there's no shortage of unconsenting violence and orange outfits.
Some people have to learn the hard way to never, ever, under any circumstances, talk to a cop.
You have the right to remain silent. Only an idiot does otherwise.
One of the best radio ads I've heard was from a lawyer.
"If I could give anyone some advice it would be to shut the fuck up. You have the right to remain silent, use it."
I was going to query as to how many of his fellow officers managed to get in on the fun, since men like this tend to share the goodies. Sure enough, the answer was answered in the article. Shocking, but not surprising in the least, given the moral atmosphere of today's police departments nationwide. It also make me wonder how he staged this fake suicide to fool the "investigators," and just how hard they really looked.
There is no punishment adequate for the crime in question, but I would put him in solitary confinement for life on a bread and water ration, with no access to communications of any kind, or reading materials, so that he can fully contemplate the effect of his crimes.
I would however, offer him the option of Hara-Kiri after a minimum of 20 years. There is no more sincere apology, after all.
-jcr