Alexandra Hudson: How Civility Can Save America—and the World
We don't need better manners, we need a commitment to mutual respect and tolerance, and space to live our lives as we see fit.

Beyond obvious political polarization and the rancor that generates, Alexandra Hudson says that contemporary America—and the world—is "otherizing" people in a way that makes us all worse off by threatening our ability to peacefully coexist. In her new book The Soul of Civility: Timeless Principles To Heal Society and Ourselves, Hudson draws on the writings of figures from antiquity through Henry David Thoreau and Martin Luther King Jr. to show how to reawaken classical liberal virtues of mutual respect and tolerance in a world seemingly hell-bent on putting politics at the center of human meaning.
We talked about the difference between civility and manners, the need for and limits of civil disobedience, Hamas terrorism and the rules of war, and whether the decline of religion, family, and traditional forms of community spell the end of self-governance. Hudson publishes a Substack called Civic Renaissance, "a newsletter and community dedicated to ennobling our public discourse with the wisdom of the past."
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Being oppressed with nice words is still oppression.
This whole niceties and never fight back mantra needs to stop.
Poor, poor JesseBahnFarter-Fuhrer is SOOOOO oppressed, and JesseBahnFarter-Fuhrer NEVER acts unkindly or uncivilly towards others!!! NOT FAIR!!!! WAAAAAASSA MEEESSA!!!!
You really should actually read what was written before sperging out, shithead.
So shit was written, and so must shit be done!!!
The Meeting of the Right Rightist Minds will now come to Odor!
Years ago by now, Our Dear Leader announced to us, that He may commit murder in broad daylight, and we shall still support Him! So He Has Commanded, and So Must it be Done!
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/jan/24/donald-trump-says-he-could-shoot-somebody-and-still-not-lose-voters
And now, oh ye Faithful of the Republican Church, It Has Become Known Unto us, that it is also in His Power and Privilege Ass Well, to murder the USA Constitution in broad daylight. Thus He Has Spoken, and Thus Must It Be Done! Thou shalt Render Unto Trump, and simply REND the USA Constitution, and wipe thine wise asses with it! Do NOT render unto some moldering old scrap of bathroom tissue! Lest we be called fools, or worse!
https://www.cnn.com/2022/12/03/politics/trump-constitution-truth-social/index.html
Proud Boys, STAND with TRUMP, and stand by! And if ye don’t agree 110%, then we don’t need you polluting our world, because all who disagree with us in ANY way are LEFTISTS!!!
There, I think that’s a wrap! I’ve covered it ALL! You can take the rest of the day off now.
(You’re welcome!)
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Nobody read that, sarcasmic.
Dude, everyone knows he’s a liar.
Sarc is still upset at me for exposing him as a lair. So following me around with his sqrsly sock lol.
It's funny because all you do 16 hours a day, 7 days a week, every week of your pathetic fucking life, is whinge and cry about what a persecuted poor little bitch you are, sarcasmic. I wonder if your total inability to ever accept any responsibility for anything has anything to do with why your wife left you? Nah, couldn't be. She's just a "cunt" and a Mean Girl, just like everybody else.
Civility is what’s killing us. If we treated all Marxist democrats the way we treat Sarc, Shreek, and the rest of the leftist morons here this country would never have gotten this bad.
I would be unemployed if I did that.
"We don't need better manners, we need a commitment to mutual respect and tolerance, and space to live our lives as we see fit."
Sure, agreed! EXCEPT for the RINOs and the dreaded LEFTISTS!!! And ALL who disagree with MEEEEE, even slightly, are RINOs and-or LEFTISTS!!!
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It's well established that there are real Republicans who want LIMITED government and "mutual respect and tolerance, and space to live our lives as we see fit."
...And there are Democrats and RINO'S (Democrats pretending to be Republican) who just can't seem to want to live with that phrase above.
One definition of better manners IS mutual respect and tolerance and living our lives as we see fit.
Yes, indeed, and kudos to you! "Treat others the way you want to be treated" might best be regarded as some sort of compromise between...
'A) Don't push others around with TOO much Government Almighty force (even when vote-driven), assuming that all of the voters and bigwigs are morally superior to the peons. Don't DOOO that! You don't like it done to YOU, right?
'B) Acknowledge that we'd be better off with a smaller Government Almighty and more personal freedoms, sure, but also that others see the split between the "tribe-nation" and "individuals and others, voluntary associations", on the other hand, differently that us Good Libertarians do. They are our friends, neighbors, and relatives. We'd be wise to live in peace with them, as best as we can. Wars are NEVER "civil"... They are ALWAYS evil!
Ironically you always champion the gov-gun packer tribe while projecting it onto anyone else in sight.
What we really need is Nuremburg-style courts tackling all the corruption and tyranny attempts before we worry about being nice.
Again, to paraphrase the late, great Norm McDonald, "Yeah, I don't think the lack of civility is the worst thing.
...
Wait a sec, I remember. I know, I'll call for help. Incivility! Someone's being uncivil to me."
"What we really need is Nuremburg-style courts tackling..."
Tackling THIS?
Der TrumpfenFuhrer ***IS*** responsible for agitating for democracy to be replaced by mobocracy!
https://www.cnn.com/2020/09/24/politics/trump-election-warnings-leaving-office/index.html
A list of the times Trump has said he won’t accept the election results or leave office if he loses.
Essential heart and core of the LIE by Trump: “ANY election results not confirming MEEE as Your Emperor, MUST be fraudulent!”
September 13 rally: “The Democrats are trying to rig this election because that’s the only way they’re going to win,” he said.
Trump’s constant re-telling and supporting the Big Lie (any election not electing Trump is “stolen”) set up the environment for this (insurrection riot) to happen. He shares the blame. Boys will be boys? Insurrectionists will be insurrectionists, trumpanzees gone apeshit will be trumpanzees gone apeshit, so let’s forgive and forget? Poor Trump was misunderstood? Does that sound good and right and true?
It really should immediately make us think of Krystallnacht. Hitler and the NAZIs set up for this by constantly blaming Jews for all things bad. Jew-haters will be Jew-haters, so let’s forgive and forget? Poor Hitler was misunderstood? Does that sound good and right and true?
See... Self-Projection 101. You blaming [Na]tional So[zi]alist support on Trump? RU F'En retarded?
All you have are almost four-year-old propaganda that was debunked as lies and out-of-context hot takes years ago, huh.
Scott M. Peck would punch you in the face if he were still alive.
Hillary Clinton still doesn't accept her election loss from 7 and a half years ago and has called for reeducation camps for the supporters of her opponent, but Trump, who left office right on schedule, is still your biggest concern.
See sarcasmic, this is why you're called a leftist retard. Because you're a leftist, and also a retard.
HillaryPanzees went apeshit and threatened to devour democracy? I didn't KNOW that, thanks!
READ the below and hang your tiny brainless, power-lusting shit-head in SHAME for always taking the side of Trumpanzees, power-luster-pig!
https://www.jpost.com/international/kill-him-with-his-own-gun-dc-cop-talks-about-the-riot-655709 also https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2021/04/28/michael-fanone-trump-gop-riots/
‘Kill him with his own gun’ – DC cop talks about Capitol riot
DC Police officer Michael Fanone: I had a choice to make: Use deadly force, which would likely result with the mob ending his life, or trying something else.
“Pro-law-and-order” Trumpturds take the side of trumpanzees going apeshit, making cops beg for their lives! For trying to defend democracy against mobocracy! Can you slime-wads sink ANY lower?!?!
intrigued whether she'd waltz down Main Street in Gaza ... or Dearborn
She's moist certainly encouraged to waltz around ANYWHERE near where I live! Rather her than Spermy Daniels, for sure!
In the heading, replace "can" with "could".
Well, looking at that image of Alexandra Hudson, for me, personally... I would replace "could" with "would"... Or maybe, "wood"... Or both! Would wood!
(Butt, me being old and over the hill, I bet that she would wound my would wood, and leave my would-be-partying, smarting heart bleeding!)
Hahahahahhahahahahahhaha
Great comedic timing for this piece!
Just bring back dueling.
Bring back dueling, my SWEET ass!!!
Have ye LOOKED at the image of Alexandra Hudson?!?!
Bring back DROOLING!!!!
PS, PLEASE do NOT tell my Loverly Wife that I wrote that! Or she might devour the forest! Or four-dwarves me! Or file for divorce! Or SOMETHING along those lines! (Things may clarify for me soon; I need a few more drinks! Hold on for further, more-clear notice on all of that them thar thingamobobs here pronto, if snot sooner...)
I thought your Loverly Wife was a "cunt" who got custody of your kids after credibly accusing you of child molestation, sarcasmic? Oh whoopsie, that's right, your SQRSLY wife is still dying of cancer 3 years after she was nearly killed by maskless nurses at the hospital during COVID.
Hi Tulpa!
“Dear Abby” is a personal friend of mine. She gets some VERY strange letters! For my amusement, she forwards some of them to me from time to time. Here is a relevant one:
Dear Abby, Dear Abby,
My life is a mess,
Even Bill Clinton won’t stain my dress,
I whinny seductively for the horses,
They tell me my picnic is short a few courses,
My real name is Mary Stack,
NO ONE wants my hairy crack!
On disability, I live all alone,
Spend desperate nights by the phone,
I found a man named Richard (Dick) Decker,
But he won’t give me his hairy pecker!
Dick Decker’s pecker is reserved for farm beasts,
I am beastly, yes! But my crack’s full of yeasts!
So Dear Abby, that’s just a poetic summary… You can read about the Love of my Life, Richard Decker, here:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2019/10/11/farmers-kept-refusing-let-him-have-sex-with-their-animals-so-he-sought-revenge-authorities-say/ and https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/sex-animals-bestiality-farm-cows-horses-richard-decker-new-jersey-a9152136.html
Farmers kept refusing to let him have sex with their animals. So he sought revenge, authorities say.
Decker the hairy pecker told me a summary of his story as below:
Decker: “Can I have sex with your horse?”
Farmer: “Lemme go ask the horse.”
Pause…
Farmer: “My horse says ‘neigh’!”
And THAT was straight from the horse’s mouth! I’m not horsin’ around, here, no mare!
So Richard Decker the hairy pecker told me that, apparently never even realizing just HOW DEEPLY it hurt me, that he was all interested in farm beasts, while totally ignoring MEEE!!
So I thought maybe I could at least liven up my lonely-heart social life, by refining my common interests that I share with Richard Decker… I, too, like to have sex with horses!
But Dear Abby, the horses ALL keep on saying “neigh” to my whinnying sexual advances!
Some tell me that my whinnying is too whiny… Abby, I don’t know how to fix it!
Dear Abby, please don’t tell me “get therapy”… I can’t afford it on my disability check!
Now, along with my crack full of yeasts… I am developing anorexia! Some are calling me a “quarter pounder with cheese”, but they are NOT interested at ALL, in eating me!!! They will NOT snack on my crack!
What will I DO, Dear Abby?!?!?
-Desperately Seeking Horses, Men, or ANYTHING, in Fort Worth,
Yours Truly,
R Mac / Mary Stack / Tulpa / Mary’s Period / “.” / Satan
Either way, no one would ever breed with him/them. Not willingly.
Cmon internet tough guy. You wouldn't say that to anyones face - sarc
Good idea.
If by "civility" she means "non-violent" then I agree. I "attack" potentially dangerous arguments/memes, e.g., irrational statements that are presented as irrefutable, common sense, e.g., "the enemy of my enemy is my friend". Sometimes common sense is stupid nonsense, if you stop to analyze.
I let silly mistakes, harmless bad jokes go, but not fundamental life principles rebuked. Saying nothing is not wise nor brave.
Sure! Good men doing nothing, leads to the victory of evil!
OK, https://www.openculture.com/2016/03/edmund-burkeon-in-action.html
“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing,” a Quote Falsely Attributed to Edmund Burke
Thanks, agreed!
Calls to civility are generally used as calls to silence. See the who trans movement. The forced use if pronouns. It is a way to shut up someone who disagrees with you.
Hoppe actually discussed this quite a number of years back, about how modifying ones argument to be civil or appease actually hurts ones initial argument as youre giving up ground at the forefront of a discussion. Who sets the baseline rules for civility after all.
https://mises.org/wire/primer-hoppes-argumentation-ethics
That's the problem. It is the "we" here. When "we" really just means me, and antisocial nihilists who have learned to weaponize their opponents' civility keep advancing their demands, well... there's a limit. And we are quite a ways past that limit.
I remember the late eighties/early nineties PC and Sexual Harassment era, the late 90s were a massive reaction to that. Comedy lambasted the politically correct. Jimmy Kimmel and Adam Corolla did the Man Show, to great acclaim. Alas. media and academia have been captured by the uncivil this time around.
^^^ BINGO ^^^.... The [WE] gang of gov-gun packing power-mad monsters.
Civility requires separating ideas from people. That's something you can't do.
Civility requires benevolence and humility... Some things sadly, totally lacking in JesseBahnFarter-Fuhrer!
I honestly pity his family and coworkers. He must be an absolute shit in person.
The thing here sarc is that nobody gives a shit about your ignorant opinions and thoughts. That's true of the opinions from most alcoholics.
"I honestly pity his family and coworkers."
What if Jesse was a child of divorce whose parents shuffled him back and forth?
What if he was homeless for a bit?
What if he had an acrimonious divorce with charges of abuse?
What if he were an alcoholic who boasted about drinking and driving?
What if CPS was called on Jesse for "laying his hands on his daughter in a concerning way"?
What if he was a fry cook?
What if Jesse partied in a $500k house once?
What if everyone at the website he regularly trolled hated him, so he tried to buddy up to a pedophile, a racist, and a lunatic?
Jesse would be a real piece of shit then, wouldn't he, Sarcasmic? I'd definitely pity his family and coworkers.
Thanks for sharing with us, Mammary-Farter-Fuhrer, ALL about Your Perfect Life! I didn't KNOW about all these things, till now! Poor Baby!
Did he go straight to ‘Tim the Emchanter’?
Imagine being so shameless that you carry on lengthy conversations with your own sockpuppet that you've outed multiple times.
Then again. imagine being so shameless that you try to impugn someone else's familial relationships and character when you've drunk-posted the pathetic life story of how your "cunt" ex-wife got custody of your children after credibly accusing you of sexually abusing your own daughter.
Oh the irony of your post. Lol.
Civility is a "nice to have". Restraint from violence and other uses of power against those you disagree with is essential. If you want to act like a complete idiot in public, that's fine as long as I can publicly ridicule you.
Civility requires good faith and respect. Two things you won't find in these comments.
More irony.
You be civil to me, I’ll be civil to you.
You call me a Nazi, or racist, or whatever, because I don’t agree with you 100%, then we have a problem.
Marxists require more beatings.
Punk Boogers, like a zombie... Requires... BRAINS!!!!
But it's ok to call people leftists for disagreeing with Trump.
When does that happen here? You’re usually attacked for attacking the rest of us, or constantly defending democrats while exclusively attacking conservatives. Then you cry victim, because you’re a huge pussy that can dish it out but can’t take it.
Punk Boogers is a SHINING Example Upon the High Hill, of a SHIT-SHINING LIGHT shining upon the rest of us, when it comes to data-driven civility!
Shine on, Ye Shit-Shining Diamond of Superior Marxist Government-Almighty-Knows-Twat!!!
The Meeting of the Right Rightist Minds will now come to Odor!
Years ago by now, Our Dear Leader announced to us, that He may commit murder in broad daylight, and we shall still support Him! So He Has Commanded, and So Must shit be Done!
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/jan/24/donald-trump-says-he-could-shoot-somebody-and-still-not-lose-voters
And now, oh ye Faithful of the Republican Church, It Has Become Known Unto us, that it is also in His Power and Privilege Ass Well, to murder the USA Constitution in broad daylight. Thus He Has Spoken, and Thus Must Shit Be Done! Thou shalt Render Unto Trump, and simply REND the USA Constitution, and wipe thine wise asses with it! Do NOT render unto some moldering old scrap of bathroom tissue! Lest we be called fools, or worse!
https://www.cnn.com/2022/12/03/politics/trump-constitution-truth-social/index.html
Proud Boys, STAND with TRUMP, and stand by! And if ye don’t agree 110%, then we don’t need you polluting our world, because all who disagree with us in ANY way are LEFTISTS!!!
There, I think that’s a wrap! I’ve covered it ALL! You can take the rest of the day off now.
(You’re welcome!)
OK, sorry, posted that here TWICE today now, right here...
BIDEN AND THE LEFTIST LIZARD PEOPLE MADE ME DO IT!!!
(Not MY fault, honest!)
Don't worry sarcasmic, nobody read it either time.
Nobody read that, sarcasmic.
Youre called leftist for defending the left. Need the quotes again?
To the same extent it's OK to call people Trumpistas for disagreeing with the DNC national party platform, which is quite literally the only thing you've contributed to any comment thread at Reason.com for 7 and a half years now since Trump began occupying that vast, empty space in your skull rent-free.
I disagree. I don’t think the space in his head is empty. I’m convinced his head is full of calcified shit.
Isn't it generally those to the Left of the political spectrum who disagree with Trump?
If I see incivility dominating a comment section or posting thread, I avoid it. Don’t feed trolls and don’t mud wrestle with a pig.
Civility/Incivility isn’t the most or singularly accurate metric. Pigs wallow in mud to cool off, but all kinds of other creatures, and politically-motivated zealots, wallow in mud or civility and manners in order to obfuscate their presence and conceal their destructive or predatory nature.
Uncivil, socially abrasive conmen that everyone hates, pretty much by definition, are nowhere near as successful as the ones that everyone loves.
"we need a commitment to mutual respect and tolerance, and space to live our lives as we see fit."
That all exploded with Democratic [Na]tional So[zi]alist[s] decided their respect and tolerance included STEALING all your money for their 'poor' job habits. Socialism is 100% the opposite of Individual Liberty (to live our lives as we see fit).
This exact premise was established by the Supreme Law and literally conquered by Democratic Nazi's.
She is a culture war casualty trying to carve out safe spaces for bigots and special snowflakes privilege for superstition. Her idea of tolerance is respect for the bigotry of gay-bashers, white supremacists, immigrant-haters, misogynists, racists, etc. she may be popular with the Federalist Society, Trump fans, white nationalists, and the religious right, but I see little prospect mainstream America will be interested in her partisan bullshit.
It's probably for the best that you never actually read the articles or comments before you drop your copypasta replies. The only thing that makes you a tiny bit more fucking retarded than usual is when you actually try to philosophize.
This coming from the asshole who was nowhere to be found when Superstitious, Gay-bashing, Racist, Jew-Hating, Misogynist Islamofascists attacked Israel and Holocaust-Denier Nazi Rob Misek decided to stink up the Comments!
Carry on and flourish your cape near a running sports car drive shaft like Isadore Duncan, Klinger!
So much for "Society is courser but better, I guess. It's been hilariously fun watching soi-disant libertarian iconoclasts turn into pearl clutching church ladies on a dime because a middle of the road former Democrat turned populist Republican got elected to the presidency once.
Great timing with the article, when the Left is cheering on the murder and rape of Jews, your fellow "libertarians" at Reason are drawing moral equivalence between those cheering on genocide and people who think pronouns are silly or don't think gay marriage should be legal.
Sorry, but it's not just the "left" no matter how hard you try to make this a partisan issue. The left does not have an exclusive on "No one supports rape or terrorism, but ..." For example, try this one on for size and see if it fits you: "No one opposes legal immigration, but ..." Or perhaps: "No one opposes proper use of drugs, but ..." If you've ever said, "There oughta be a LAW against that!" you're just as morally unequivalent as they are.
Scenario: I'm living my life, minding my own business when a pressure group tries to demonize me and impose their political agenda on me by getting laws passed. So according to the mutual respect and civility principle I'm supposed to tolerate the pressure group's opinions and not resist the imposition of laws or fight back against their group? Sorry, but mutual respect requires all groups to respect or at least tolerate all of the other groups! Trying to impose your opinions on me using the power of government machinery does not indicate tolerance or respect, mutual or otherwise. I decline to tolerate the over four thousand Federal laws regulating everything from soup to nuts in America, not to mention the uncountable number of state and local laws and regulations that have nothing whatever to do with initiation of force against others; or the groups who advocated for them and got them implemented.
But they're not being civil to you, so there's no requirement that you be civil to them. Civility only works when both sides are civil. Of course, you can ask them to be civil, and act civil yourself as an example, but if they don't reply with civility, especially after repeated attempts, then give it u for a lost cause and do what you like.
I get it that the subject of this article is arguing against rampant "otherness" and not particularly against rudeness but it's hard for me to draw the line. I will very politely defend myself and my liberty with force as needed regardless of whether anyone thinks I'm rude.
Concerning the rules of war: how can there be rules for war? I can't think of a single example from history where a war was started by mutual agreement. Almost always one state - usually at the behest of the rulers of that state - declared war on and attacked another state or region. All of the alleged grievances claimed by those who initiate wars to justify their actions become irrelevant when you find yourself fighting for your life against the attackers. Morally speaking war does not ever justify criminal actions and it's silly to talk about international agreements, conventions and war crime tribunals despite their possible good intentions. The right to self-defense - during a war or under any other circumstances - is inviolable.
Americans have committed atrocities during wars (e.g. the fire-bombing of Dresden) illustrating that exceptionalism does not prevent the fallout from total war, even against unspeakable evil like German nazional socialism. The winners hold the war crimes trials after winning the total war. The people who commit atrocities should be charged and tried and, if found guilty under due process, punished for their crimes regardless of some technical state of war or some international treaty. If you don't like death and destruction, don't attack anyone else - nationally or personally. Don't let your leaders declare war to protect some national interest excuse or to make the world safe for democracy. And don't try to pretend that anyone desperately fighting for their lives is going to care about the Geneva Conventions!
There can be rules for anything. Whether they are obeyed is up to the competitors.
But better manners wouldn't hurt, either.
Funny how the calls for more civility are always from those experiencing pushback after calling everyone that disagrees with them Nazis, White Supremacists, bigots or "phobes" of some nature. Prove to me you're worth being civil towards and I'll have no issue with it, until then, fuck off. We've played this game and you leftists murder, lie, cheat and steal to get your way so I'm done being civil to monsters.
Courtesy for the Courteous!
Civility for the Civil!
Truth and Reconciliation means I live and let live if you live and let live! Such a deal!
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Isn't that kind of like Hamas slaughtering a thousand people and then claiming they want a ceasefire before a wholly justified retaliation comes?
contemporary America—and the world—is "otherizing" people in a way that makes us all worse off
Very true. And one reason for that is surely the rise of the mental health industry, and popular acceptance of the notion that large numbers of people around us have "mental disorders" of one kind or another. People then assume (consciously or not) that those who see the world differently than they do must have such disorders, and therefore their views aren't really worthy of respectful consideration or being taken seriously. That should not be the American way, but now it often is.