Nathan Rabin: Why Gen X Is Super Media-Literate
The Joy of Trash author talks about how D.A.R.E., bad TV, Weird Al Yankovic, and 9/11 created a generation of ironic idealists.

"I am a professional rememberer," writes Nathan Rabin in The Joy of Trash. "It is my duty to remember not just for my own but for society."
Rabin is really taking one for the team here, especially since his new book accurately bills itself as the "definitive guide to the very worst of everything." Among the godawful things he explicates are Academy Award-winning actress Joan Crawford's bizzare and patently false 1971 lifestyle guide, My Way of Life; the misbegotten Brady Bunch Variety Hour, which improbably included numerous "water ballet" routines along with endless dad jokes; cocaine-addicted movie producer Robert Evans' 1981 court-ordered, star-studded, anti-drug TV special Get High on Yourself; and the entirety of billionaire Mike Bloomberg's 2020 presidential candidacy.
Rabin was the headwriter for The A.V. Club for two decades and the inventor of the popular-but-controversial term "Manic Pixie Dreamgirl" to describe a recurring film character who "exists solely in the fevered imaginations of sensitive writer-directors to teach broodingly soulful young men to embrace life and its infinite mysteries and adventures." He now runs his own website, Nathan Rabin's Happy Place, where he sifts through all manner of cultural detritus with endless wit and energy. He also co-hosts Travolta/Cage, a podcast about "the greatest actors in history."
The 45-year-old Rabin talks with Nick Gillespie about how his Gen X roots inform his appreciation for and critique of consumer culture. Kids his age, he explains, learned early on through D.A.R.E. and transparently phony TV shows that adults and other authorities were often lying. Gen X came of age in the 1990s, he says, a time when the belief that technology would make everything perfect was widespread, an optimism severely tested both by the bursting of the tech bubble and the 9/11 attacks. "Irony and satire and comedy," he says, "can bring light to a very dark situation, and it can be very cathartic being able to laugh at things that you're not supposed to laugh about or being able to laugh about things that are incredibly dark."
Rabin also discusses how musician Grimes, who had a widely covered relationship and two children with billionaire Elon Musk, is reclaiming—or perhaps satirizing—the manic pixie dream girl trope and why Weird Al Yankovic, the subject of a good deal of his writing, has had a career far longer than most of the people he parodies.
Watch the video version of this interview here.
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Isn't he the creepy boss at New York Perks that secretly had a crush on Rachel?
Gen X might be Super Media-Literate but even stupid people can be literate.
Hey! As a member of Gen X, I resemble that remark!
I'm on the tail end of Gen-X too, but I get the impression that it's mostly Boomers here in the comments.
What I remember most from TV as a kid was that Michelle was a mouthy little bitch that needed a spanking from Danny, Urkel was just annoying as fuck, if you fighter plane or tank gets hit, you have more than adequate time to eject, if you have a stick of gum and a Swiss army knife, you have all the tools you need to disarm the most sophisticated security system ever designed, and if you lock Mr T in a building that has a welder and loose scrap, he will build a functional tank. And Theisman's leg was definitely not meant to bend that way.
ML...I am at the beginning of GenX. The article should be more precise, and define terms.
GenX: 1965-1980
Many Gen Xers came of age in the 80's. Gillespie totally missed that, it was sloppy reporting on his part.
You’ll never claim me as Gen X! Oregon Trail Generation FTW.
DesigNate has died of dysentery.
Deja vu or Groundhog Day?
I never here anybody but Gen X people talk about their generation all the fucking time.
"Why GenX is this, how GenX is that..."
Wtf is wrong with you people?
Why are you so fascinated with your collective selves?
It gets old bitching about boomers, millenials and gen z stupidity. At least ours is concentrated in Silicon Valley.
You hear it on Reason because Nick Gillespie.
Nick "Boomer" Gillespie
Welch is the Gen X half of the editors' emeritus
We're the libertarian generation. The latchkey kids, the product of neglect. Kind of the opposite of the Boomers and Millennials.
It's because we are fucking awesome. Best decade of Hollywood movies, best TV shows, hair bands, Weird Al, grunge and alternative, plus let's not forget bangs, mouse, and mullets. I mean we turned fucking Bill Logan into the fucking chosen one who could fucking dodge bullets for fuck sake, and elevated the nerd to a hero who could turn a barbie into Kelly Lebrock with magic enough to turn Bill Paxton into a cross between a pile of shit and a frog.
And I fucking rocked a mullet between 5th grade and 10th grade.
Me too.
This could've been my grade 9 theme song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QnXiS4_KU3U
I clicked on the 'Dream Girl' link to see what that was about.
Rabin gives the vapid modern-day apology for being white and sexist by creating the term which was, even by the standards of March 30, ~430pm Pacific Time is perfectly safe and reasonable, whether or not you agree with the aesthetic or characterization.
Jesus cancel culture has ruined people's brains.
I just realized I was wrong, he's not apologizing, he's recognizing the trope (not his term for it) as the sexist creation of white men. So Rabin is even worse than I thought. He's accusing other people of sexism and whiteness, and he wants to be the first out the door to do so.
Holy fuck, does he half humblebrag in that piece and in the other piece he wrote about Grimes. He isn't only apologizing he also spends half of both pieces self fellating himself. Although, it does sound like Grimes is just a few beads off of the mark, as well.
On a side note I loved Zach Braff in Scrubs and have had a crush on Natalie Portman since Phantom Menace, but I've never had any desire to watch Garden State, have never heard of the Dunst movie he referenced, and can barely tolerate Zoe Deschanel without gouging my eyes out.
I also had never heard the term Manic Pixie Dream Girl until I read this article, but the trope he originally applied it to is fucking tiresome. And find it more misandry than misogyny.
On another note, are we still allowed to use Mary Sue? Or has that one been banned too?
Depends on what state you're in.
Or is that Mary Jane?
What!!
Natalie is great in this skit.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-A0iftflme4
Natalie is the bomb still doesn't make me interested in Garden State, despite admiring both actors in it.
“Holy fuck, does he half humblebrag in that piece and in the other piece he wrote about Grimes. He isn't only apologizing he also spends half of both pieces self fellating himself.”
Of course he does, he’s a Gen-Xer. 😛
Yep. My initial reaction was, "Oh, yay, a fellow Gen-Xer, maybe I'll listen to this interview." Made it to the fourth paragraph of that dopey article of his and realized I didn't want to hear another thing from him for the rest of my life.
IS TRUMP TO BLAME FOR WILL SMITH SLAPPING CHRIS ROCK?
Howard Stern, who thinks Trump created COVID, says Trump’s personality inspired Smith to hit someone.
That poor dinger didn’t have a chance……
Yeah. No one ever hit anyone else live before Trump was president. So far a reach.
I am permanently Jada-ed
Huh? Did The Donald pussy-grab Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith took it out on Chris Rock?
I unapologetically think of Dixie The Nick-At-Nite Pixìe, Rhonda Sher from U.S.A. Network's Up All Night, and Flo from Progressive as my own personal Manic Pixie Dream Girls.
You take back that apology, Nathan! Be the first in Cancel/Call-Out Culture to do that!
Then double down...assuming that Manic Pixie Dream Girls haven't been hunted down to extinction and made into trophies by the Zombie Reaver Horde of Strong Independent Wimmin What Don't Need No Men (except when the EBT card and WIC runs out, the tire goes flat, and something or somebody needs killing.)
Sure, "media literacy" is a good thing. You know what else are good things?
Computer literacy
Literary literacy
Political literacy
Economic literacy
Legal literacy
Science literacy
Human behavior literacy
Call us back when you want to claim abilities more than the modern equivalent of knowing how to watch TV.
You mean how they use Facebook, Twitter, TikTok, Instagram, et al, to make the world a better, safer, kindler, gentler place where everyone is welcome and howling mobs of leftists don't advocate killing, oh, say, Clarence Thomas or anyone else who steps off the party line? Is that the kind of media literacy you mean?