How a Teen Locker Room Butt Slap Triggered a 2-Year Investigation
The story shows what can happen when those accused of misconduct are subjected to opaque investigations with little due process.

A teenage swimmer is facing a Kafkaesque sexual misconduct investigation over allegations that he slapped another swimmer on the butt as a middle schooler.
According to a story in the Associated Press (A.P.), an organization designed to protect athletes from horrific abuse has devolved into a bureaucratic nightmare for others, who can find themselves dragged into opaque investigations over minor allegations of wrongdoing.
"I think the guilty-until-proven-innocent aspect is what bothers me the most, because right now, he's still [considered] guilty until the case is finalized," the teenager's mother told A.P.
The U.S. Center for SafeSport is a nonprofit organization established in 2017 after sports physician Larry Nassar's sexual abuse of hundreds of gymnasts sparked outrage over how the case was handled by athletic organizations. SafeSport now has the authority to investigate allegations of abuse and hand down sanctions in dozens of sports.
According to A.P., a 13-year-old competitive swimmer, who was not named in the story, received an email from SafeSport last year informing him that "between approximately 2019 and 2022, [he] allegedly engaged in a pattern of behavior which constitutes Sexual Misconduct." Despite the ominous email, the teenager wouldn't be informed of the actual allegations against him until three months later, eventually learning that he had been accused of slapping a teammate's behind in a locker room in June 2021, nearly a year earlier.
The teenager and his mother claimed that the boy and the teammates who accused him had a falling out, and had lobbied claims of bullying at each other. However, this apparent dispute had been seemingly resolved by the boys' school and coaches.
A.P. reports that the investigation has now dragged on for nearly two years, with little indication of ending soon. The family says they've reached out to SafeSport multiple times for updates on the investigation, only to receive vague responses. According to A.P., a glut of complaints may explain the delay. SafeSport has received 7,000 allegations as of 2023, and a spokesperson told A.P. that "the center needs more financial resources to support the growing number of reports," adding that SafeSport uses a "lower standard of proof … which at times allows it to act on cases law enforcement may not."
Another factor for the delay? The teenager denies the accusations against him. The boy says he was told that the easiest way to resolve the complaint would be to agree to an "informal resolution" that would allow him to go back to swimming after a six-month probation, provided he admitted guilt.
"We asked my son, 'Are you OK with this?'" the boy's mother told A.P. "And he said 'No, I'm not going to admit to something I didn't do.'"
In the meantime, the teenager says his budding swimming career has faced major setbacks. While under investigation, the teen was required to be chaperoned on the pool deck of several USA Swimming events. At one event in November, the teenager's mother "briefly turned away" from her son. As a result, the teenager was "approached by a meet referee who notified him he was breaking the rules and wouldn't be allowed to come back for the second day of the competition," according to A.P. "That deprived the teen of swimming in his best event, where he had previously swam times that could've qualified him for a key junior national meet in December."
While organizations like SafeSport exist to fulfill a noble goal—protecting athletes from horrific abuse at the hands of powerful individuals within elite sports—the case of this teenager shows what can happen when these systems become opaque and all-powerful, providing almost no due process for the accused. The result is nothing short of a bureaucratic nightmare with little hope of due process for those accused of wrongdoing, no matter how slight.
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A backstroke versus slapping boobies, a breast stroke. Thought interest in water sports is declining where participation had taken a dive.
This comment is swimming in sarcasm. Totally off the deep end.
I went to a Women's Paralympic Swimming Competition... the place was crawling with chicks. [sips coffee]
Their coach, a quadriplegic, is named Bob.
I went swimming in a lake in the woods. I had to get away from a bear in just my swimming trunks. I have no idea how he got into them. [sips coffee]
The quadriplegic in the woods hanging out in a pile of leaves is named Russel.
His brother Art says you can unhang him from the wall any time, meanwhile Russell claims to have won the hide-and-seek tournament by crouching (as if he can do anything else) in a pile of leaves.
Their quadriplegic dad was locked put of his house for hours. Just stayed there at the front door. His name is Matt.
While his one-armed and one-legged wife Eileen blocked one half of the doorway, and her one-armed and one-legged Asian servant* Ireen blocked the other.
*edit: they call them “personal assistants” now.
She would give her right arm to be ambidextrous.
But then she'd be unarmed!
And as a matter of solidarity, I just won't stand for that.
She’d be on disability and others would foot the bill.
The stroke victim couldn't stay in her lane and kept swimming in circles. I asked if she was OK. She said she was all right. [sips]
Ethel's boyfriend's mood has picked up since she was diagnosed with Parkinson's.
He changed his name to Skip after a great day waterskiing.
I found myself swimming in a forest lake, seeking refuge from a bear, wearing nothing but my swimming trunks. How the bear got into them remains a mystery.
Another joke about a dude who is confused as to how a bear got into his swimsuit? That joke is so Gay.
Reason's gone full Kultur war today. I guess the sidelines aren't looking so cool.
Kid should have just said he was a chick.
You can't expect to wield supreme executive power just 'cause some watery tart drew her sword at you! Strange women lying in ponds distributing swords is no basis for a system of government. Supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the masses, not from some farcical aquatic ceremony.
Another factor for the delay? The teenager denies the accusations against him. The boy says he was told that the easiest way to resolve the complaint would be to agree to an “informal resolution” that would allow him to go back to swimming after a six-month probation, provided he admitted guilt.
“We asked my son, ‘Are you OK with this?’” the boy’s mother told A.P. “And he said ‘No, I’m not going to admit to something I didn’t do.’”
Plea bargaining middle schoolers. Good for the kid telling them to FO.
Looks like the teen here is the only adult in this story.
Let him vote and engage in sex work!
As a result, the teenager was "approached by a meet referee who notified him he was breaking the rules and wouldn't be allowed to come back for the second day of the competition," according to A.P.
I'm going to need more clarity on why exactly this toadie's teeth haven't been caved in.
The fact that, apparently, everyone involved has, apparently, just accepted "I'm from the U.S. Center for SafeSport and I'm here to help." rather than replying with "Fuck off and don't come back without a badge or a warrant." is very disappointing.
It's because of nonsense like this that gay boys can't get laid at Scout camp anymore.
I sense missing details from this story. It sounds ridiculous and I fully believe dumb institutions with supposedly positive missions would abuse their power. Even so, the punishment is so divorced from the described crime that I'm left thinking the kid is presumed guilty of more and that there has to be more than a single accusation.
I think I found the missing link:
between approximately 2019 and 2022
Somewhat akin to your point, as I indicated, I was befuddled as to how someone shows up at any swim meet anywhere, says "He's being investigated by the US Center for Safesport.", someone in charge braces themselves on their fainting couch, and then proceeds to tell him "I'm sorry, you can't compete."...
Then I remembered that nobody has to cover up their shocked face because they're all a bunch of retards in masks being dicks and punitively enforcing senseless bullshit anyway.
Somewhat akin to your point, as I indicated, I was befuddled as to how someone shows up at any swim meet anywhere, says “He’s being investigated by the US Center for Safesport.”,
If he flashed a badge then it's legit.
Slap my butt and I'll buy you dinner.
Kafka is rolling over in his grave.
There's probably nothing but fine powder in Kafka's grave as a result of decades of high-speed spinning.
No material has sufficient tensile strength to resist that sort of centripetal acceleration. Let alone a human corpse.
Maybe his "victim" became aroused and is seeking revenge for his embarrassment.
There's no evidence the victim voted for Trump. Otherwise I'd say you have a point.
Zero pussies were grabbed.
If only they had waited another decade or two to lob these accusations at him, then Reason would be all for the investigation and punishment against such "credible" accusations, or would the kid also need to be Republixan for that?
"adding that SafeSport uses a "lower standard of proof … which at times allows it to act on cases law enforcement may not.""
If law enforcement can't act on it, does anything really need to be done?
I've been asking the same thing about colleges and universities adjudicating rape cases for years.
That kind of logic is basically setting up a quasi-governmental entity without the training of law enforcement, nor those pesky constitutional restraints. I mean, the entire justice system is set up for just this sort of thing, and adults are responsible for their actions.
Granted, college students are adults and these are children, but it still sets off the same BS detectors in my brain.
A big part of the issue is that "Adults in the room" and "Adult supervision" doesn't mean what it used to.
If a guy pretending to be a girl did it to a girl in the girl's locker room, he'd probably get his own television show and a medal of freedom.
While organizations like SafeSport exist to fulfill a noble goal
No, that's not why they exist.
If this really was about just one butt-slap rather than on-going bullying that school officials refused to take seriously, then a statute of limitations should apply.
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Did the kid refuse to take the plea (6-month suspension from sport) because absolutely nothing happened (and his accuser made it up), or because he thinks what happened has been blown way out of proportion?