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If You're Suing Just Me, You Can't Get An Injunction Against My Wife
From yesterday's decision in Jacoby v. Jacoby (Pa. Super. Ct.), written by Judge Carolyn Nichols and joined by Judges Mary Jane Bowes and James Gardner Colins:
Richard G. Jacoby, Jr. (Father) appeals from the trial court's order that restricted the speech of his spouse, non-party Brena Jacoby (Stepmother). Father contends that the trial court's order improperly restricted non-party Stepmother's speech on a social media site. We vacate the order to the extent the order affects Stepmother….
Mother sought to enforce the court's modified custody order, remove Child from Stepmother's home, and place Child with Berks County Children and Youth Services (CYS). The trial court held a telephone hearing on June 17, 2021. At the hearing, Mother's counsel notified the court for the first time about a post that Stepmother had made on Facebook. Specifically, Mother's counsel explained: "Your Honor, there was a Facebook post by [Stepmother] basically saying that they've complied with all these orders, that this [c]ourt has gone rogue, that she keeps saying 'our child.' I mean, this is pure alienation. She should not be involved in this at all." In contrast, Father's counsel asserted that the post did not contain any information that was material to the custody dispute.
{We quote the Facebook post as follows:
OK…. I'm going to lay everything out for ppl to know. My husband [Father] is currently in BCP on indirect civil contempt pertaining to child custody. The judge won't release [Father] until our minor child attends four days of this out of state program with Linda Gottlieb. The judge did not set a monetary value. Our minor child is afraid of her Mother (she lives out of state) and has been fighting not to go to this out-of-state program with her Mother to fix their relationship. There have been many attempts to have our minor child attend this program, to no avail. Her Mother had her attorney request that our child's Father be incarcerated until our child attends at least 4 days of this out of state program. This happened on Monday. On Monday my husband was incarcerated. On Monday, CYS came to my house, and the State Troopers. Our minor child is still with me as she fought not to go. How much emotionally [sic] and mental abuse can a child go through. I cooperated 100%. This has been going on for years (2016). Our minor child has not been alone with her Mother in over 5 years. She is terrified to go with her. At this point, we have a biased Judge. He basically went rogue. I need help. I have 2 great attorneys, but no matter what we do the judge sides with the other side. They are claiming parental alienation. There is no legal record of parental alienation. Now anyone that knows me or my husband knows we aren't those ppl. We have encouraged, positive affirmations etc.. [sic] this doesn't matter to our minor child because the child is in fear. As some know I co-parent with my ex. We don't have a court order or a child support order. We get along great. This has been a nightmare for us all, but especially for our child who has never been without [Father] in all of our child's life. We have been accused of interfering with our child going to this program. We aren't interfering. Our child is fighting it. How much more abuse can we all take, especially our child.
My husband owns a law firm and it is taking a hit because he is incarcerated for no reason.
We need help. We need help immediately.}
[T]he trial court issued an order that granted Mother's petition and stated, in part, as follows:
… [Father] and [Stepmother] shall NOT use online or web-based communications to discuss this matter…. [Father] or [Stepmother] shall remove the Facebook post which contains information related to [Child] and shall not post any discussion or information regarding [Child's] custody or other information regarding [Child]….
Father raises one issue on appeal: "May a trial court issue an order censoring speech of non-party Stepmother on social media relating to criticism of the trial court judge in the action[?]" …
[T]he instant trial court sua sponte pulled non-party Stepmother into this court proceeding by issuing an order against her without addressing the absence of original service of process for Stepmother….. Stepmother was not a party to the suit between Father and Mother, she was not served with process, and she had no notice or opportunity to challenge the communications restriction order.
Although personal jurisdiction is a waivable issue, non-party Stepmother did not have notice nor an opportunity to challenge the order, and the parties did not address the trial court's exercise of personal jurisdiction over her…. [W]e … hold that the instant trial court had no personal jurisdiction over non-party Stepmother and therefore no authority to impose a communications restriction order against her. For these reasons, because the trial court committed legal error, we vacate the order to the extent the order identifies Stepmother, and because Father withdrew all of his other claims as discussed herein, we affirm in all other respects….
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I thought the scumbag lawyer system was totally biased against the male parent. It is not, after speaking to a female doctor about her divorce ordeal getting rid of her ne'er do well scumbag lawyer husband. She was raked over the coals. After the hearings, the female scumbag judge propositioned her ex-husband for a date. She liked his articulate speech. Scammer love, I guess.
The scumbag lawyer profession is totally biased against the productive spouse to plunder its assets.
A federal staute should cut off federal funds to any state that does not prohibit prison time in custody disputes, the same as in debt collection. The vile judge putting him in jail in a family dispute should be removed, as biased. Failing that, a male rights, direct action group should just beat the ass of scumbag judges who are the enemy of the American family. To deter the scumbag lawyer pirates.
"On Monday, CYS came to my house, and the State Troopers. Our minor child is still with me as she fought not to go. How much emotionally [sic] and mental abuse can a child go through. I cooperated 100%. This has been going on for years (2016). Our minor child has not been alone with her Mother in over 5 years. She is terrified to go with her."
The male rights direct action group should visit the CYS workers and their lawyer thug state troopers, and their supervisors. To deter. We are sick of this toxic profession and of their thugs. Deter them.
If you want a divorce ... you're going to get lawyers.
What about those thugs coming to the house to tear your screaming child from you, and to put you in jail on the order of a little tyrant, feminist bitch scumbag on the bench?
The thing is, anytime custody is disputed, somebody is going to have to make a decision, and that somebody is the judge. And whomever loses is going to think the judge is a petty tyrant. This isn't business court in which the parties are fighting over money; these fights are deeply emotional and people aren't rational. So I really don't see an alternative way.
I once had a client tell a judge, in open court, that if her husband wanted the bedroom set he could have it and she hoped he would have a heart attack and die in it. The judge still gave her about 75% of what she wanted, but she then flew into a rage over the 25% she didn't get and is probably convinced to this day that the judge was biased. Some cases nobody wins.
And by the way, maybe we shouldn't just take stepmother's word for what happened:
https://www.leagle.com/decision/inpaco20211109433
KryKry. Do you think people should go to debtor's prison for not obeyng a court order to pay up? That is actually a form of brazen fraud and theft, to not pay a debt.
No, and I don't think people should lose their driver's licenses for failure to pay child support either, and I would require the Department of Revenue to cooperate in finding parents who flee the state with the children. When it comes to reforming the family law system, you're preaching to the choir.
But that's not what you said. You've said, repeatedly, that you want drastic steps taken against the legal profession, the judiciary, and those who carry out judicial orders. To which I respond that as long as there are domestic disputes, somebody is going to have to resolve them.
KryKry. I have repeatedly said the legal system and liability was a great invention from 8000 years ago, that permitted the formation of civilization. It replaced a practice of endless cyvle retaliatory vengenace and violence. It made it possible to do other thnings all day than personal security.
The criticism is about its bias. I thought it was against males. It is against the productive party. Its real bias is rent seeking and the plunder of the assets of the productive party to enrich the lawyer profession.
My proposed solution has been to have a separate judge profession. It would replace feminism and rent seeking as toxic indoctrination. It would inculcate application of the law, avoidance of law making. It would introduce critical thinking as supreme. It would end supernatural inculcations, requiring empirical validation. It would have development based on feedback about outcomes of decisions. It could have utility as a model of calculation and decision making. We can argue that last point. I am aware of the weaknesses of utility. Judges would be licensed. Their licensing boards would have majorities of consumers of the law, with insiders as advisers.
The idea that lawyers should be judges is ridiculous. It is just accepted from tradition, but is just crazy. The two professions are almost unrelated. The results have been catastrophic. The made up shit from the bench violating the plain and low reading level of the constitution is an outrage and a crime.
KryKry. The current system, plagiarized the Catechism. It was taught to English lawyers by French weasels and rent seekers. In the 13th Century, they were all Roberts style smooth talkers, except they could bullshit in three languages. Procedure was 10 times more rampant than today. Any lawyer allowing his case to get to substance was deeply ashamed. It was for rent seeking and enrichment.
I read the Sharia. If you set aside the 10% that is just 7th Century crap, it is 90% pretty good. It is less procedural. If you want to imitate a religious text, it is better than the Catechism.
Yet, the very idea of it is an outrage. It totally violates the Establishment Clause. So why is a Catechism based common law filled with supernatural crap doctrines any more acceptable?
No, you didn't, if for no other reason than that this is gibberish; there is no such thing as "the Sharia." It is not a text. (The other reason being that you can't read.)
Feminism is now the ideology of the entire scumbag lawyer profession. It is a denial of reality. It is a masking ideology by the lawyer profession to plunder the assets of the productive spouse.
All advances by females have come from the progress of mostly male developed technology.
The scamming lawyer profession is totally toxic. The Black familiy survived slavery, war, terrorism by genocidal maniac lawyer driven KKK, discrimination. It did not survive the American feminist lawyer that destroyed it with its 70% bastardy rate. All racial disparities are totally explained by this bastardy rate. Deeply black people from Africa outperformed whites in the 2010 Census. They come from intact patriarchal familes, are Christian, and love America. They are the new Koreans, and their black race now signals a top performer to employers and admissions officers.
Some lawyer did you wrong on a personal level. Would you abolish the legal profession? Should criminal defendants handle their own cases? All your posts are about you hating lawyers, but never any alternatives.
I do not hate the lawyer profession. I love the lawyer profession. I would require a course in Critical Thinking and on the scientific method, as a pre-law requirement. Then go through the entire law and remove all religion based supernatural doctrines, that are delusional. All laws should be proven safe and effective and tested before enactment.
Historical experiments are sufficient to prove a law effective. Bail reform. Surge in murders. No testing of stricter bail is required.
Sentencing guidelines lower crime 40%. Proven effective.
Reverse mandatory guidelines. Surge murders 30%. No experiment is needed to prove the effectiveness of mandatory sentencing guidelines.
" Some lawyer did you wrong on a personal level. "
And I want to hand that lawyer a beer.
(I don't say 'buy that lawyer a beer' because I get all the beer I want -- and more -- for free. So why not make that 24 beers, not a beer.)
I have to admit looking forward to Behar's posts on this topic. He did not disappoint.
Thank you Daivd
Yeah, not a good look on the family courts behalf trying to censor the step mother. These cases are fraught with high emotions and high stakes, so I understand things aren't always what they seem. But it's still not a good look to censure criticism of your court proceedings.
It's true that things aren't always what they seem - but every so often, things are exactly what they seem. And based on the appeals court's decision, it looks like the stepmother was exactly right - that this is a rogue judge taking sides and imposing conditions that a judge is not supposed to make.
Judging by what's been coming out of the St Louis investigation of their family courts, this might not be a rogue judge - but more "business as normal" for these courts.
It is rigged against the man. A guy I went to college with was a former Police Officer. When he got divorced his ex-wife's lawyer advised her to get a PFA against him. It would favor her. So she made up a story about him coming to her house, drunk and waving his service weapon. She got the PFA and he was suspended. It was proven that at the time she said it happened he was out of town for training. Even though she acquired it fraudulently they wouldn't remove the PFA. They wouldn't prosecute her for lying because the DA's Office stated that they didn't want this to prevent another woman from coming forward. His Union wanted no part of it because of the possibility of publicity. He lost his State Certification to be a Police Officer and went back to school.
Each of the authorities you listed committed malpractice. There should be recourse in civil liability against their personal assets. In the absence of civil liabilities, men's right direct action arms should visit them.
Oh, sure, this made up anecdote is obviously true.
Since the court lacked personal jurisdiction, does that leave it without authority to punish contempt of its order?
Indeed.
Also, the dirty little secret is that many family courts never enforce child-related speech restrictions with traditional contempt sanctions. The restrictions are supposed to be conditions of being a good parent. So courts simply view violation of a speech restriction as a reason to hold that modification of custody or parenting time would be in the best interests of the child.
It is easy to imagine that this is why the family court failed to consider that it was technically issuing an order against a non-party.
I can sympathize with the parents, when a "child" is in their teens or late teens the custodial parent can't really be held hostage for the child's behavior or misbehavior.
My divorce was non-contested and I handled it myself, when the divorce was finalized my soon to be ex was out of the country and would not back in the US for at least 3-6 months, but she had signed all the papers a few months previously.
When I filled out the parenting plan, I did put any visitation schedule, list of holidays he spent with either parent. The judges clerk flagged that and told me that I'd have to fix that before the judge would finalize the divorce.
I asked to see the judge anyway and convince him to go ahead and finalize it. I explained that our only minor child was 17, already attending college, had a job, had his own vehicle, and it would be foolhardy for me to try to guarantee his appearance or non appearance anywhere he wanted to be. If he wanted to see his mother he could go in the car and drive to her house, if she wanted to drop by and see him go ahead and come by, but it wasn't up to me to manage how much time they spent together or when.
His clerk was still squaking when the judge said: I understand fully, and signed and approved the final judgement.
By the way my ex-wife left home at 15 and moved to California with her 20 year old sister in the mid 70's, moved in with me when she was 16 and I was 23. I was 45 and she was 39 when our youngest of 3 was born. So its not like she expected me to be able to make him mind by the time he was in his late teens either.
Did they at least order the stepmother to let her stepdaughter go to the ball?
The title of this post seems incorrect. The appelate court left open the possibility that the plaintiff potentially could indeed get an injunction against the wife. However, to do so, it would first have to provide notice and process sufficient to bring the wife under the trial court’s personal jurisdiction (and, the opinion suggests, an opportunity to be heard). That didn’t happen.
What is silly nit to pick! The process you describe here basically constitutes changing the case from "just suing me" to "including the wife among the defendants."