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Social Institutions

Why So Many Men Feel Lost

Jon Ronson discusses why old social structures are breaking down, the rise of online identity, and what happens when people lose a sense of meaning.

Nick Gillespie | 9.9.2026 11:00 AM

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Today's guest is Jon Ronson, the bestselling author of The Psychopath Test and So You've Been Publicly Shamed, host of the podcast Things Fell Apart, and author of the new book The Castle: Adventures in a World of Unraveling Men.

Nick Gillespie talks with Ronson about what happens when the institutions and social structures that once gave people a sense of purpose begin to disappear. They discuss men who have dropped out of work and society, the strange incentives that push people to turn themselves into online brands, and how social media can reward outrage and extremism. They also discuss whether public shaming helped produce today's more disinhibited culture and why Ronson still believes there is an audience for curiosity, nuance, and genuinely open conversation.

 

0:00—Are men unraveling?

5:30—Chris Mark

14:49—Influencers, gatekeepers, and Greg Chism

22:24—Graham Linehan

32:50—Does public shaming no longer work?

37:55—The human need for meaning

44:19—Andrew Gold

50:22—Social media incentives

58:11—Things Fell Apart

NEXT: Why Public Schools Lost 1.4 Million Students

Nick Gillespie is an editor at large at Reason and host of The Reason Interview With Nick Gillespie.

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  1. Idaho-Bob   11 minutes ago

    Why So Many Men Feel Lost

    Because a woman can viciously murder her three kids, women will support her AND blame her husband, but a dude who looks a pair of mostly exposed tits is demonized.

    Let's not forget - dudes in dresses and make-up are more accepted in society than dudes in day-glow shirts and hard hats.

    1. SQRLSY   2 minutes ago

      So who gets paid and laid better on the cuntstruction sites... dudes in dresses and make-up or dudes in day-glow shirts and hard hats?

      Please show your work!

      (Which "society" are Ye PervFectly talking about, anyway? You might want to get out and about more often!)

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