Blaming Tech for Teen Troubles
Jonathan Haidt’s clever, insufficient case against smartphones.

The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness, by Jonathan Haidt, Penguin Press, 400 pages, $30
Jonathan Haidt opens The Anxious Generation with what is supposed to be an analogy for kids' use of smartphones and social media: Would you let your child travel to Mars, he asks, if some Silicon Valley CEO said it was safe? It's an absurd comparison: Whatever harms may or may not befall minors with iPhones, they're light-years less apparent, substantial, or universal than those facing kids shuttling through outer space to a desert planet with an atmosphere mainly made of carbon dioxide.
Happily, most of this volume is far less hysterical than that opening might lead you to believe. Yes, this book is filled with unwarranted pessimism, unjustified conclusions, and unsavory solutions. But as he lays out his case that a "phone-based childhood" is replacing a "play-based childhood," Haidt makes many points that even the most ardent opponents of tech panic and state intervention should be able to appreciate. Unfortunately, he can't keep the spirit of that opening analogy from periodically seeping back in.
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Haidt, a social psychologist at New York University, believes that young people's rising use of screens and rising rates of emotional fragility both stem from our overprotection of kids in nondigital spaces. He rails against policies that punish parents for letting children have some independence, and against the mindset that tries to shield the young from every possible emotional harm. Parts of the book were even written with Free-Range Kids author (and regular Reason contributor) Lenore Skenazy, with whom Haidt helped found Let Grow, a nonprofit that pushes back against helicopter parenting.
Haidt also stresses that many of his ideas for curbing teen tech use shouldn't be legislated, though he does favor a number of new regulations too. He recognizes the guidelines he offers parents are not one-size-fits-all—that activities OK for most minors might be problematic for some and that things that are generally bad at a certain stage of development may be OK for individual kids.
He also marshalls a lot of data as he tries to tie the recent rises in youthful depression, anxiety, suicide, and learning loss to phone-based childhoods. But here we run into trouble. Haidt seems convinced there is one right way to interpret this data: the way that implicates technology.
Pointing to Jean Twenge's research, for example, Haidt reports that "teens who spend more time using social media are more likely to suffer from depression, anxiety, and other disorders, while teens who spend more time with groups of young people (such as playing team sports or participating in religious activities) have better mental health." But what does this really tell us? Not that these platforms are causing these problems. That's possible. But it's also possible that teenagers use more social media and avoid more group activities because of their depression or social anxiety—or that some third factor triggers both mental health difficulties and problematic internet use.
Haidt points to data showing rates of depression and anxiety in young people rose at the same time that smartphone and social media adoption skyrocketed among the same age group. But this was also a time period in which awareness of those conditions increased and the stigma around them decreased. And it was a period in which identity politics and a sort of victimhood cache began to permeate places where many young people gravitated online. If phones and social media play a role here, it might not be as a direct trigger—perhaps the veneration of various psychological diagnoses in certain online spaces led more kids to embrace those labels.
Haidt responds to the awareness/destigmatization theories by pointing out that we have been seeing more suicides and self harm in young people. Kids aren't just saying they're struggling, he argues; they're taking action that shows it. But the suicide picture is complicated. Yes, U.S. suicides have been rising. But the rate among older adults—the group least likely to be heavy social media users—has also increased sharply and in fact is much higher than for the youngest cohort. (In 2021, the rate for Americans ages 65 and up was 17.3 suicides for every 100,000 people. For 12- to 17-year-olds, it was 6.5 per 100,000.) In 2022, suicide rates actually went down among younger Americans while increasing among men over 34 and women over 24. (Depression, too, is up across American age groups, even preceding the pandemic.)
It's also notable that youth suicide rates in the U.S. started rising before the advent of smartphones and social media (something Haidt acknowledges) and that their rise over time has not been linear. (The same goes for the general population, with the 2022 suicide death toll about equal to what it was in 1950.) It's also much higher in some states than others, something we'd be less likely to see if a nationwide phenomenon like social media was a leading cause. The rise has not been consistent around the world, even in countries with similar phone and social media adoption patterns. In many places with widespread phone use—France and Russia, for example—teen and young adult suicide rates have fallen, sometimes precipitously.
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Haidt argues that no single thing other than "the great rewiring of childhood" can explain the breadth of data suggesting young people are faring worse than before on an array of measures. Maybe no single thing can do this. Yet for each data point, a variety of nontech explanations could work.
For instance: Haidt cites a 2023 survey in which 68 percent of college students said they felt anxious at least half of the time. Social media could be a culprit, but so could doom coming from professional media and gloom coming from politicians. So could the anxiety emanating from adults around them. So could shifting sexual norms, fears of another pandemic, or a lifetime of what Haidt calls "modern overprotective parenting."
Or take the rise in 12- to 17-year-olds who answered national survey questions in ways suggesting they've suffered a major depressive episode. This rise started in the early 2010s and continued throughout the decade (from 8 percent in 2010 to 11.4 percent in 2014, 14.4 percent in 2018, and 19.5 percent in 2022)—a time period that corresponds with increasing smartphone adoption and the introduction of platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, and TikTok. But this was also a time of economic downturn, a pandemic, unrest in the streets, and extreme turbulence in U.S. politics. Surely some of this could also explain self-reports of hopelessness, sadness, etc. Maybe other health issues, such as rising obesity rates, had a role. Maybe shifts in academic expectations played a part. Or maybe the depression isn't related to events that took place during this period at all; it could stem from something in the way kids coming of age during this period were raised in the preceding decade, or even from genetic factors. Plenty of counterevidence and rival interpretations are available.
That doesn't mean we should simply throw up our hands and declare unlimited screen time to be fine at any age. Parents who look at the evidence may deem it wise to adopt some or all of Haidt's agenda—measures like limiting phone or laptop use to certain times of day, or waiting until your kids are a certain age before letting them own a phone or participate on social media. Tech companies could offer more options—including device-based options—for parents who want to prevent their kids from creating social media accounts or visiting certain sites. Individual schools or school districts could experiment with tough-on-phone policies. Of course, there's the other half of Haidt's prescription: more time for unsupervised play, more play at school, and more autonomy in general for kids.
But the data just aren't strong enough to unequivocally back up Haidt's claims about what smartphones and social media are doing to kids, which seems like a good reason to hold off on government mandates, and not just out of first-principles libertarianism.
Even if we could somehow overcome the privacy and First Amendment concerns that something like a minimum age for social media would pose for adult users (and that's a big if), we still don't know what sort of unintended consequences it might have for young people. Could a lack of online community lead to worse mental health outcomes? Would kids turn to more private methods of communication that make it harder to prevent harm or punish perpetrators? Separated from their digital distractions, would teens start drinking more and having more unintended pregnancies—both of which have decreased in recent decades?
Haidt says that if we wouldn't send our kids to Mars without having all the evidence and knowing all the risks, we shouldn't give them unfettered access to the digital world either. That goes for cutting off their connections to the digital world too.
This article originally appeared in print under the headline "74."
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If we take away the cell phones, they will just go back to watching TV.
No wait, playing video games.
No wait, reading comic books.
No wait, playing pinball.
No wait, listening to rock and roll.
No wait, smoking cigarettes.
You use that too much., okay.
And it doesn't make the point anyway. You act as if all the world ever offered to kids was your list of wastes of time. There is Goodness,Truth , and Beauty and if they had a real family , incl for many a father that would be the key
According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 17.8 million children, nearly 1 in 4,
live without a biological, step, or adoptive father in the home.*
That’s enough children to fill New York City twice or Los Angeles four times over.
Research shows that a father's absence affects children in numerous unfortunate ways,
while a father's presence makes a positive difference in the lives of both children and mothers.
*U.S. Census Bureau. (2023). Living arrangements of children under 18 years old: 1960 to present. Washington, D.C.: U.S. Census Bureau.
So twat's YOUR fix? When a freshly impregnated woman detects that she has been impregnated by LYING LOTHARIO who has been making false promises to 7 other babes ass well... To FORCE said deceived womb-slave to bring to term, an offspring into VERY iffy circumstances, and hope and pray that Lying Lothario will magically change, and become a responsible father? More prayers to the Sky-God... AND MORE LAWS AND MORE PUNISHMENTS FOR FARTILITY DOCTORS WHO "MURDER" FROZEN SACRED FARTILIZED EGG SMELLS? That will fix shit? How so? PLEASE explain!
Read http://www.churchofsqrls.com/Jesus_Validated/#_Toc117957741 for a data-driven analysis of WHY your "fix" is full of shit!!! "Lying Lothario" makes a good search string.
More like the list of excuses parents have used for why their kids are screwed up instead of taking blame for the failures.
If you back to the cave people I'm sure some cave dads were talking about how the invention of fire or the wheel is why their kids were lazy and broken.
you have your head in the sand if you think that kids today are just being kids and no worse than ever.
Parents are worse than they ever were. The kids are just living down to your expectations.
But no, blame Dungeons and Dragons... er... no that was the 80s... um Satan? Nope, early 90s... Rock and Roll! Nope.. mid 90s... Video Game violence! That's it. Um... no that was late 90s.
Fuck, what is it you want to blame now? I can't keep track. I'm getting too old for this shit.
IN Logic or Rhetoric class you are taught : Analyze a problem at the aprropriate level.Yes,it is true we should 'do good and avoid evil" but that is a level so general it doesn't help
Same with silly article. Smartphones, drugs , crime, doing poorly in school --- because most of those poor kids do not have a father.
So, let's elevate marriage and disparage perversion.
Let's give life more respect and not teach 'life is cheap' by aborting babies.
You only drive X out with something that replaces X, a better goal,a worthier object,a more desirable aim. Throw out your phone and your left with boredom and THERE is the teacher of all evils.
Your "better fix" is to worshit the Sacred HUMAN Fartilized Egg Smell! And you are SOOOO full of shit!!!
QUESTIONS THAT THE FANATICS WON’T EVER ANSWER: What do YOU think that the punishment should be for deliberately killing a fertilized human egg cell? Ditto the punishments for likewise killing a fertilized egg of an ape... A monkey... A rat... An insect... If your Righteous Punishments From on High are DIFFERENT in these cases, then WHY? WHERE do the differences come from? And what gives YOU (or the 51% of the voters) the right to punish the rest of us?
Never, ever, have I gotten any serious answers, when I pose these questions, about what the PUNISHMENTS should be! (Could it be that the fanatics don’t want us to focus on THEIR obsession, which is their smug and self-righteous “punishment boners”?). Also, the unwillingness to answer questions is strongly indicative of authoritarianism. At the root here is the unmistakable attitude of “Because I said so, peons! Do NOT question your Rulers!”
http://www.churchofsqrls.com/Jesus_Validated/#_Toc117957741
Sometimes I think the goal of young people is to be insufferably dumb.
Then what is ENB's excuse?
ENB's excuse is that she did SNOT amend the below post, properly!!!
Longtobefree
If we take away the cell phones, they will just go back to watching TV.
No wait, playing video games.
No wait, reading comic books.
No wait, playing pinball.
No wait, listening to rock and roll.
No wait, smoking cigarettes.
ENB should have added....
NO, wait! Shit is ENTIRELY TOO MUCH posting of treasonous social-media posts to Treason.cum!!!! ESPECIALLY those posts which do snit-snot Properly ADORE The Dear Orange Leader!
What is my excuse?
Haidt's horse left the barn decades ago.
Why decry the effect of cel phones on America's youth when they have already deranged the manners of adults who can no longer bring themselves to put the damn things down
Haidt is actually an excellent thinker and you are lost and confused if you don't see that.
The fix is for all of the right-wing wing-nuts to replace their tinfoil hate-hats with tinfoil Haidt-hate-hats!!! And THEN to faithfully get their tinfoil Haidt-hate-hats, per Government Almighty mandates, officially calibrated by degreed, credentialed, board-certified, and licensed Expertologists of the Expertology of Condemning FacePooo and Smell phones, instead of our inability or unwillingness to love our neighbors, or even OUR OWN KIDS!!! (And FUCK the Sacred Fartilized FROZEN tested-and-known-defective Egg Smells while we're at shit; To HELL with punishing the fartility doctors; How about LOVING THE ALREADY-BORN KIDS, including the kids of the "sub-human" illegals?).
Butt no, let's focus our hate using our tinfoil Haidt-hate-hats!!!
I'm not trying to excuse Haidt for everything that he has written. Butt ye hate-filled hypocritical right-wing wrong-nuts have a LOT more to answer for!
Government Almighty is NO fix twatsoever!!! Butt they CAN keep us safe from cheap plastic flutes!!!
To find precise details on what NOT to do, to avoid the flute police, please see http://www.churchofsqrls.com/DONT_DO_THIS/ … This has been a pubic service, courtesy of the Church of SQRLS!
Hey look, Government Almighty's go-to fix is always MORE LAWS!!!
If "more laws" was our fix, then, thousands of years ago by now, we'd have passed a law that says "Love thy neighbor" (with violators shot at dawn? Butt shot in a loving manner?), and all would be fixed by now! Maybe add the "Magic Phrase" of "make a reasonable effort" to "Love thy neighbor"? THEN shit will work right?
Libertarians and other benevolent open-minded folks already KNOW that persuasion, not coercion, is the better, more long-term fix! Yet we have legions and armies of shit-heads RIGHT HERE condemning Reason.com for not sucking on THEIR particular stupid axes to grind!
In Soviet Russia, big tech blame teens for troubles.
In Soviet Treason.com-commenters-Land-istanistanistan, The Faithful use their tinfoil Haidt-hate-hats, to blame big tech teens AND their smell phones, abortion, trannies, and Drag Queen Story Hours (Butt NOT Drag Queen Spermy Daniels Hours, for SHE is Dear-Leader-Approved!) for ALL the troubles of the world!
Excuse me ass I go start nuking a few bags of popcorn...
When you’re on you’re on. This isn’t one of those occasions.
Gimme your best Yakov Smirnoff. See what you can do.
OK, I will add my best Yakov Smirnoff to my few bags of popcorn… And see twat happens!
It's a simple enough formula. Don't even need a microwave.
Social media reflects the anxiety and reinforces it, but it is not the cause. Within an even moderately supportive group, social media can be very good for self esteem.
The anxiety comes from the constant bombardment of messaging that there is no hope. You are destroying the Earth just by being here. You are inherently racist. You are wrong if you think you know what is a boy and what is a girl. You are the problem. The public schools are flooded with this messaging. The teachers are the cause.
The teachers are the cause... Until such time ass they learn to wear their Magic Underwear! The RIGHTY-TIGHTY way, with the Proper Twist!!! THAT will fix shit ALL!!!
(Let's... Do... The Undies Twist Again!!! It's just a step to the Right... With your knees in tight... And FORGET the jump to the left!)
My son graduated in the middle of Covid. His first year of college was half remote. He and his friends describe their graduation from high school as jumping from the burning building.
His school has become a fucking dumpster fire in just a few years. Now they have a cop at the bathroom doors because kids are doing fucking Meth in the bathrooms. When he went there it was just using vapes, a new take on smokin' in the boys room I guess. Who'd have thunk sneaking a smoke in a school bathroom would be seen as quaint.
You are not wrong about the doom and gloom from everything. I have spent a lot of effort trying to make sure his group of friends was inoculated against that kind of stupidity. I can't count the number of times I've countered some idiotic ecomentalist garbage with facts that were internally consistent and logical. Even then my son thinks I'm black pilled. I'm a god damned game show host of happiness compared to the teachers he dealt with.
If there's one thing I gave my son is an "I don't give a fuck about your issues" attitude. You need that today when so many people identify themselves with their issues instead of their contributions.
I never regulated his social media use. He saw it was bullshit and does everything he can to keep off of it. He demands people NOT post pictures of him on any of those sites. These days he spends more time with friends than his phone.
That's why I don't think the tech is the issue. If I can fuck up and raise a kid who sees through the bullshit then it can't be that hard. Hell, he's actually making some under the table money from some wackos homeopathic chick who can't handle her own social media presence. Now that's funny.
Globalist shills like ENB ignore reality, but I don't know why. By any objective measure the smartphone is making kids sick. How many studies do you need?
They said that about video games, before that computers, before that D&D and Ouija Boards, before that televisions, before that movies, before that radios, before that books…
Peter of Spain, in the 1200s, attributed it to drinking coffee and wearing turbans.
And at each stage, the technology for damaging young minds has gotten better and better.
they didn't have the data when they whined about video games. 11 year old girls self harming is absolutely a new phenomenon.
As are 11 year old girls with penises.
By any objective measure unsupported assertions of authoritarian dogma are making us all sick with Sacred Tribalism. Because I said so! How many studies and unsupported assertions do you need?
http://www.churchofsqrls.com/Do_Gooders_Bad/
http://www.churchofsqrls.com/Jesus_Validated/
I have links... Do YOU have any?
Parents are so desperate to not take responsibility that they will blame anything for why their kids are fucked up. It's never what the parents did, they were fucking perfect, raising their kids just like they were raised. Forgetting how fucked up they were as kids and all the excuses their parents used. If there is a universal cultural constant it's probably that.
Don't help lazy parents by giving them more excuses. They need to take responsibility for their kids. The good and the bad. If the school is filling the kids head full of crap the parents need to put down their own fucking phones and help their kids out. If they are being bullied by kids on social media again, mom and dad need to put down their own phones, log out of whatever social media they can't live without and help their kids.
Step One. Parent's put YOUR fucking phones down and be adults. Where the fuck do you think kids get the idea to spend all their time on the phone? They watch YOU! They learn these habits from YOU!
would teens start drinking more and having more unintended pregnancies
Not sure if teens drinking more and having more sex instead of having their faces in their phones would be better or worse.
Get the kid started on Warhammer 40K. They'll be broke all the time and too busy painting models to get the best army together to have sex or drink.
Works for my kid. He's getting a degree in Metalurgical Engineering and works a few part time jobs. He has to pay for his plastic model habit and understands he will need a lot of money, like what engineers make, to have all the models he wants.
We sent him to Utah for a paid jnternshop one summer. He was making better money than I was. He came back broke biut with twice the luggage he took down, all in more Warhammer Models.
Well, that sounds healthy and sure to lead to healthy adult relationships.
Oddly enough it does. You find a lot of college educated engineer types who play Warhammer 40K. The hobby isn't cheep so you don't get a lot of heavy drug users or blackout drunk drinkers. If you are playing 40K you don't have time for booze and you don't need drugs... the paint fumes are all you need. The women you find playing 40K are actually rational thinkers, not sluts looking to screw a guys life up. They are the kind you'd take home to meet the folks.
My sin has infected several others with the 40K bug and they are now getting their degrees and pursuing hard careers. Ones that will pay enough to fund a 5,000 point Armageddon Army.
Reason: Free range your kids! Let them go out and explore and find independence and autonomy! Let them experience nature and the majesty of the open world!
Also Reason: Addict them to technology! Make them never want to do anything except that! Tie it directly to their self-worth! Encourage them to give up all semblance of privacy.
Put it on, ENB.
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