Students Had BDSM Sex. Male Says He Obeyed Safe Word. GMU Agreed, Expelled Him Anyway.
Student expelled for sexual misconduct prevails in lawsuit against George Mason University.


George Mason University expelled a male student engaged in a BDSM relationship with a young woman—even though the panel agreed their disputed sexual encounter was consensual because he stopped when he heard the safe word.
That outcome didn't satisfy an assistant dean of students, so the administrator improperly granted an appeal and then reversed the panel's decision himself. That administrator, Brent Ericson, conceded that he "had already prejudged the appeal and decided to find plaintiff responsible for sexual assault." He did so, and the student was expelled.
Also notable: the expelled student, identified as "John Doe," was found guilty of misconduct relating to other encounters with his then-girlfriend "Jane Roe," who was not a student at GMU. But he was never informed that these encounters were in dispute, and thus never had an opportunity to prove his innocence.
Doe filed suit against GMU. Last week, a Virginia district court sided with Doe, and is giving his lawyers an opportunity to make the case for an appropriate remedy to his situation.
The case is a complicated one, given the nature of Doe and Roe's relationship. They were engaged in BDSM, which means the usual consent standards don't apply in quite the same way. They had a preexisting agreement that saying the word "stop," for instance, did not mean that either party was withdrawing consent. Instead, their safe word was "red." If Roe used the word "red," Doe was supposed to cease the activity.
On October 27, 2013, the two were engaged in such activity when Roe pushed Doe away. He asked whether she wanted to continue. She replied, "I don't know," and he continued anyway, since she didn't use the safe word.
Doe, it should be noted, perpetrated several disciplinary infractions at GMU, which included disrupting class and possessing lighter fluid in his dorm room. After the couple broke up, Doe continued to contact Roe, which led her to inform her university that he was harassing her. She eventually contacted GMU's police department, which put her in touch with Ericson, the assistant dean of students.
Doe was tried before a three-person GMU panel for violating the university's sexual misconduct policy during the encounter on October 27. Both parties were interviewed at the hearing, which lasted 10 hours. The panel eventually cleared Doe of wrongdoing.
This decision infuriated Roe, who filed an appeal on the grounds that the verdict represented a "substantial procedural irregularity." In context, the "irregularity" was that the panel didn't agree with Roe.
But Ericson did, and so he granted the appeal and assigned it to himself.
What happened from that point on was a farce. Ericson had no intention of giving Doe a fair hearing, since he had already predetermined the student's guilt. Doe was expelled.
All these details come from the judge's decision, which is favorable to Doe. Even just based on this perspective, it seems like Doe is at the very least a troubled student with some behavioral issues.
But even troubled students are entitled to due process. Doe wasn't even aware his conduct on dates other than October 27, 2013 was an issue. The university didn't give him proper notice of the charges against him, and permitted a biased administrator to retry his case. The Foundation for Individual Rights in Education's Samantha Harris writes, "Generally speaking, students in public university disciplinary proceedings are constitutionally entitled, at a minimum, to notice and an opportunity to be heard. In this case, the federal district court ruled that the notice given to the plaintiff was constitutionally inadequate."
The judge's decision is a win for civil libertarians: it asserts that people don't lose their due process rights when they become public university students.
I would add that the dispute itself presents a compelling argument that university administrators should be divorced from the process of adjudicating sexual assault. Who thinks campus bureaucrats can competently navigate the consent issues at stake in a BDSM relationship?
Updated at 1:30 p.m. on March 2: Doe's attorney Justin Dillon tells me he's thrilled with the verdict. "As far as I know, our client is the first plaintiff in the country to win summary judgment in a campus sexual assault case. We are extremely pleased with the result and look forward to seeing the judge craft a just remedy."
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Last week, a Virginia district court sided with Doe, and is giving his lawyers an opportunity to make the case for an appropriate remedy to his situation.
Hopefully the school has its safe word ready.
This isn't lynx, Fist.
This. Is. SPARTA!
We don't need no stinking safe words.
"John Doe, Ph.D., Constitutional Studies."
Pics?
I'll take more pics in exchange for the lynx.
John Doe and Jane Roe.
What are the odds?
Jane Roe Doe will simply be a horrible married name.
Roe Buck would be better.
Also, WHER MAH LINKS AT?
^This.
No Links No Peace!
Everyone is crying out for peace. No one is crying out for eveninglinks.
We want equal rights. And eveninglinks.
ROBBY QUIT RUNNING YOUR FINGERS THROUGH YOUR HAIR AND GIVE US LINKS
As I have already stated, after what you people have done today you do not deserve your links.
what did I miss?
I like that when links are late we assume Soave is at fault...
Aaaand the best is that it's consistently borne out.
Here! Here are your stupid links! http://reason.com/blog/2016/03.....uesday-rub
They are such a bunch of whiny little girls.
Trumps hair got to Robby's hair. It's all TRUMP!
Oh. My. GOD!
Someone needs to get him some enlighten fluid. Am I right, everyone?
Enlighten? Are you calling him FAT!?
Yes.
Because, not enough euphemism (in the article).
A can of chemical reagent often used in arson
"Arson? Who cares about arson? Lighter fluid is used in cigarette lighters, and those things are paraphernalia related to smoking tobacco!!!"
They were engaged in BDSM, which means the usual consent standards don't apply in quite the same way. They had a preexisting agreement that saying the word "stop," for instance, did not mean that either party was withdrawing consent. Instead, their safe word was "red."
From what I gather, the BDSM community is much, much more careful about consent issues than the general public. To me, what you describe isn't the usual consent standards, its a higher standard. And one John and Jane Doe managed to meet.
There may be an incest issue (since they both have the same last name and they aren't married), but that's a separate problem.
Cancel that last joke. Misread "Roe" as "Doe". Dammit.
You can ruin a joke almost as well as I can, RC.
"Incest issue." I LOL'd.
RC must have have an extravagant sex dungeon.
Actually, I've never gotten into BDSM. But I know a little about it, and from what I gather, the opening stages of a relationship or session involve a lot of clarity about boundaries that you don't get in your typical hookup.
Oh, Christ! Let's not even get into it! Due to the panoply of possible actions on the BDSM checklist, it's worse than trying to order a coffee at a Seattle coffeeshop!
Except, unlike Starbucks, you can get it delivered anally. Seriously, when is Starbucks gonna jump on the coffee enema hype train?
"Cool, is that a hookah? I didn't know Starbucks d.............[gasp].............um....one please"
"One maccchiato grande anale!"
You make a very good point, one only someone who has achieved a high level of expertise in BDSM play would be aware of.
It just makes sense.
I swear, I clicked on the wrong link in a Google search one time! I closed the window as fast as I could, but I guess I just wasn't fast enough.
What I don't get is why it took an hour and a half to get a free hand to close it.
Isn't R C Dean a character in the Gor series?
Short for Robert Clayton Dean. Google it, and it will all make sense.
So is he from Tarnsman of Gor or Assassin of Gor?
GOOGLE IT!
You perv. I bet you have the entire Gor series in a well-thumbed and slightly crusty row in your bedroom.
I'm sure he's not one of the Gay, Bejeweled, Nazi Bikers of Gor
Ah, you're secretly Will Smith. Gotcha.
the opening stages of a relationship or session involve a lot of clarity about boundaries that you don't get in your typical hookup.
I was actually of the mind that if any community has 'usual consent standards' it would be the BDSM community. At least, we didn't cover the "usual consent standards" in any of my sex ed. classes.
Just because standards exist doesn't mean people pay attention to them. Usually, experience ends up being he best teacher.
Unfortunately there are "sex-ed classes" where the usual consent standards are "don't do anything until you're married" without any discussion of what constitutes "doing things" because if you learn how to have sex it will "encourage" unmarried people to do it.
My typical hookup usually starts with her saying, "Get away from me, leave me alone, I'm calling 911". Those seem to be pretty clear boundaries.
None of which I would consider consent unless you were a 911 operator.
No lynx, and an article about BDSM instead. What *is* going on over at Reason HQ right now?
I guess they're all tied up.
The shame of having no lynx has them all in knots.
The lynx are held on a gag order
Red is such a terrible safe word.
"Chipmunk" would be a better choice. Err, I read on the internet, anyway.
Mine is "harder."
That actually means that no matter how softly she (or he) starts, it's already too much for you.
*** tries saying "Chipmunk" while wearing gag ***
What's that? "Im um"? You mean, "In-out"? OK, your the, err, not-boss.
"Kick junk? Again? Ok...."
Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!
Against the ball gag it just sounds like "smmmmmmmsmms!"
JINX!
https://xkcd.com/1039/
I never bothered with a safe word. Dangerous? Maybe.
When it gets too much, you just Hulk out and break the restraints?
Do you also turn green? Hmm...
Risk. Reward. I appreciate the consistency.
Risk. Reward.
I appreciate the consistency.
I usually just panic and flail. They stop in fear of actual medical conditions
Yeah, it's kind of lame. The first time I read about safewords, the example given was "pickle", but since then it always seems to be "red". It just lacks imagination.
As for lynx, wasn't that an old text-only browser?
It may lack imagination, but it is something of a scene-wide standard. The Stoplight Code is pretty common, with Red meaning stop, Yellow meaning you're getting dicey, and Green meaning go ahead. There is an old joke that there is a fourth color code. Beige means you're boring me to death. Where speech is inhibited, like when you're wearing a gag, a mechanical signal is often used, like a martial artist tapping out.
For any safe word, what you want is simple. Imagination is not a feature.
Ours is "Rickdiculous"
I'm old enough to remember when it was puritanical conservatives who wanted to sex-police everyone's bedrooms. Thank heavens for the progressives, who have brought an end to those repressive days!
"That outcome didn't satisfy an assistant dean of students, so the administrator improperly granted an appeal and then reversed the panel's decision himself. That administrator, Brent Ericson, conceded that he "had already prejudged the appeal and decided to find plaintiff responsible for sexual assault." He did so, and the student was expelled. "
This is one of those things you probably shouldn't say out loud, Brent.
"I find the defendant, John Doe, icky. Therefore he must be banned."
it seems like Doe is at the very least a troubled student with some behavioral issues
Based on what, pray tell? He's into kinky sex and had lighter fluid in his room? WTMFF?
Just fulfilling his signal quota.
Way to other the alternative sexuality crowd, amirite?
Since when is being into BDSM a sign that you are a troubled person, anyway?
Based on what, pray tell? He's into kinky sex and had lighter fluid in his room? WTMFF?
Next thing you know, he'll be supporting harsh sentences for child molesters that rape old women and mothers who murder their babies!
I'd say it's funny to watch the neo-puritans act like the don't really care what other people do if it weren't so sad.
Especially given that the lighter fluid may very well have been part of his BDSM play...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temperature_play
Robby hasn't come to completely accept that when you stand up for liberty, you stand up for the rights of some real creepy characters.
The Opinion has too much troubled behavior to summarize easily, but yes, the kid sounds pretty troubled.
https://d28htnjz2elwuj.cloudfront.net/ wp-content/uploads/2016/02/ 29131458/92.-Summary-Judgment-Opinion-GMU.pdf
Why did this woman go to the school?
Because she knew that the school would fuck him over.
This.
In a court of law she'd have needed actual proof that a crime was committed, in a school "hearing", she just needs proof that she considers herself to have been victimized to utterly screw him over.
Doesn't Havard already have a BDSM student club?
They just expel anyone who joins - saves time.
Haha.
Did the BDSM happen off-campus?
I like how Rico links to the Wikipedia page on BDSM.
Who thinks campus bureaucrats can competently navigate the consent issues at stake in a BDSM relationship?
No one, Robby. Everyone knows this is something only a judge or jury can do.
I don't think its that hard:
(1) What was your agreement?
(2) Did your partner live up to the agreement? If not, in what way?
"He said; she said."
That's not a consent issue. That's an evidence/credibility issue.
I thought bdsm was perhaps there one thing bureaucrats were experts on.
Somebody needs to whip the Reason writers into shape. It's pretty clear that they're all tied up right now; something's handcuffed them from being able to post the afternoon lynx. Maybe it's a server issue; they sometimes need to be spanked into submission.
Heh, even if I was first with the "tied up" joke.
Let me guess. Soave got caught looking at BDSM porn and not doing PM links so had to make up an article on the fly.
Research, Doc. He was doing research.
Is there another damn holiday in the USA or something? Where the fuck are the PM links?
/cheeks reddening.
Sheesh, Rufus -- Don't tell me you've forgotten this is Super Tuesday!
WHAT THE FUCK DO I CA...
Oh.
/goes back to slicing beets.
Where are the links !? I know I know, I'm just a Canadian lurker, but last time you pissed us off, we burned that White House down, just saying...
Could you... could you do it again?
+1 Thank you, sir. May we have another?
Sure, pledge allegiance to King Charles and we have a deal Chelsea.
John Doe and Jane Roe
Clever.
Rut Roe!
Calm down, Scooby.
Those are actually stock names used in legal proceedings when the parties are granted anonymity. Roe v Wade, for example.
Thanks, Capt. Obvious.
Don Ho. That would have gave Tiny Bubbles a whole new meaning.
It's too bad Roe wasn't involved in a dispute with a guy named Wade.
So Roe was never a student at GMU? Did she apply? I'm not sure what it is that extends the universities title IX jurisdiction to conduct that doesn't involve another (prospective) student. Any case law on that?
And how did she "appeal" a university ruling when she isn't connected to the university?
Excellent question. Administrative "law". Apparently universities now unite (broader) police (power) and jurisdiction.
Talk about an implied powers doctrine.
I think we all knew from the beginning that the schools would be ill-equipped to litigate sexual crimes like this.
Personally, I will admit that I didn't imagine they would be *this* ill-equipped. I mean, it's a law school,
A student can be disciplined for misconduct off campus, as it damages the reputation of the university. In this case, she complained to the campus cops that he was harassing or stalking her. I'm surprised he wasn't kicked out for that. That is a potential criminal issue.
That'd not be title IX. Yet it appears that this was handled as a title IX case, considering the process (including, but not limited to, the non-students "appeal").
What the hell is my school doing now? they have their positive moments, but this and the professors calling for climate skeptics to be fed to the lions has been disappointing.
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