Showtime Comedy SMILF Offers Questionable Authenticity
A window into the life of a struggling actor or canny Hollywood calculation?

SMILF. Showtime. Sunday, November 5.
If you're making short films these days, it's all about vision and authenticity and postmodernism rather than the ancient and discredited concept of quality. So Showtime's SMILF (the first S is for "single"; you guess the rest), which originated as a popular film-festival short, has to be presented as a chronicle of the actual life of producer-star Frankie Shaw. This seems, well, unlikely.
SMILF's lead character, Bridgette, is a gritty South Boston actress wannabe who can hold her own in pickup basketball with the neighbor guys. She lives in a scruffy one-room apartment with her son by an amiable but utterly jobless recovering drunk. The only thing emptier than her fridge is the credit remaining on her charge cards.
This doesn't sound a great deal like Frankie Shaw, who went to Milton and Barnard and was already scoring roles in shows like Law & Order: Criminal Intent while she was a college student. I have no idea if Mark Webber, the father of her child, had a drinking problem, but he certainly hasn't had an employment problem: He's an actor with over 70 screen credits in the past 19 years.
A little resume puffery by Shaw is not a big deal. (Though only in Hollywood does it take the form of slumming down your actual life.) What makes it noteworthy in this case is there's so much else about SMILF that that doesn't add up. Beneath that indy-film facade of grainy candor is a big pile of canny Hollywood calculation.
Start with the title, which is supposed to be ironic, because no one is signing onto the "ILF" part of it—Bridgette's most intimate relationship is with a purple vibrator. Though Bridgette is lithe, pretty and—most importantly—singularly undiscriminating in her quest for a sexual partner, she hasn't hooked up once in the months since splitting with her boyfriend. Prospective pickups flee from the sight of her child as if he's a flea-infested vermin in a time of plague.
Which invites the question, "On which planet?" I understand male commitment phobia, but that fear's about commitment, not no-strings-attached offers of quickies from a delectably naked woman standing two feet away.
Then there's Bridgette's puzzling timeline. She acts like a new mom jittery about her sexual allure—her gynecologist's advice to do kegels triggers the panicked response, "Why? Did you see something up there?" But her little boy is a toddler, 2 or 3 years old. It seems like Shaw wanted some sexual paranoia wisecracks but not the fidgety concept of a horny mom barely removed from the delivery room.
But, despite these conceptual weaknesses—some of which may have been forced on Shaw by suits nervous the instincts of a young, first-time producer, SMILF has a considerable number of merits. Shaw has created a memorable set of characters and assembled an estimable cast to play them.
Chief among them is Connie Britton (Nashville, Friday Night Lights) as Ally, the wealthy mom who pays Bridgette to tutor her aimless teenagers. But the fact that Ally pretends to her family that she's going to yoga exercises, then hides out wolfing down prodigious piles of junk food punctuated by terrifying crying jags suggests her life is more complicated than it appears.
Another damaged-goods character is Tutu (startlingly well-played by Rosie O'Donnell), Bridgette's weatherbeaten mom, who appears to have taken a licking from life and is barely ticking. She listens to tape's of Frank McCourt's brutal memoir Angela's Ashes to cheer herself up.
The best of all is Bridgette, loving the daylights out of her child even as she resents the restrictions he's imposed on her life, affectionately shielding Ally's kids even as she winces at the knowledge of what she could do with their opportunities.
Shaw has previously demonstrated her ability to illuminate and even draw cheer from desolation, perhaps most vividly as a doomed junkie in Mr. Robot, but never on a canvas this big. She's an eyeful, even when she's scuffed up by Hollywood contrivance.
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White trash does not in any way preclude smoking hot.
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But it does preclude teeth - which often precludes hot, except when strippers are involved, then crazy trumps precludes, or hot; where was I going with this?
Your contention is that none of them are?
While I won't speak for "smoking hot" across the board, and I definitely won't allude to "white", there has been an interesting trend I've seen over the last 10 or 15 years: Reasonably attractive, smart, hard-working "working class" hourly wage women with long-term unemployed husbands. Lots of them.
The Golden Age of "Man-Child" - I was born far too early.
Which invites the question, "On which planet?" I understand male commitment phobia, but that fear's about commitment, not no-strings-attached offers of quickies from a delectably naked woman standing two feet away.
Will the slut-shaming of men never end? Shame on YOU Mr. Garvin. Shame on YOU!
Damn it, Glenn! Damn it! Don't be so fucking cute! What the FUCK does "MILF" mean? Do I have to go to college to read this site?
It means "Mom I'd Like to F*CK"
G*dammit.
I only got it first because I didn't bother spelling out Mother. In a way, that means you really won.
There are no winners when we're both replying to Anal Van-Man, but i appreciate the sentiment.
J*sus.
It's Mother I'd Like to F*ck, old man.
Showtime's SMILF (the first S is for "single"; you guess the rest),
Single Mothers In Laughably Fake situations?
LOL!
Yeah, we get what the title stands for. But it is also just one stroke of the pen away from spelling out the word SMILE. A broken or not-quite smile - deliberate or coincidence?
Why do I care about the relationship status of members of the Moro Islamic Liberation Front?
And why is Showtime making a show about the single ones?
In the season finale General Blackjack Pershing has them executed and their bodies sewn up inside of pig carcasses.
Allah Ak-bar-B-Q.
If they put out, why care? Make hay while the sun shines.
Probably the planet in which the number of women with kids who actually deliver "no-strings attached" sex to men is considerably smaller than the number who lie about it in order to trap guys into supporting them and their kid(s). I believe the natives like to refer to that planet as "Earth."
It is based *ON* not fucking based "off." A thing with a firm foundation is sitting on its base, while something clearly wrong is said to be "off base." The phrase "based off" is both ugly and nonsensical. Please stop using it. Especially when the phrase "based on" is both logical and has long been accepted colloquially.
BASE jumpers go off stuff all the time.
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She was in "Mixology" which was a great show but only lasted 13 episodes.
She was in "Mixology" which was a great show but only lasted 13 episodes.
She was in "Mixology" which was a great show but only lasted 13 episodes.
The best thing I ever did in my life was not marrying the hottest woman I ever dated, but marrying the smartest and most caring.
Looks are temporary, and if you base your marriage on that it will be temporary as well.
Nothing about this authentic. It's frightening in how deliberate it is.
Like you wrote, Shaw attended Milton and Barnard, and has been a working actress for years. She got knocked up by a white guy who is also a fairly successful actor, and has since married a writer/producer. There is nothing about her personal story that checks off any of the PC boxes her show is based on. A poor gorgeous white single mother with a mixed race baby who can play pick up ball with the local brothers and can't get laid?! If I want to see a fantasy story dragged down by PC cliches, I 'll watch Spiderman Homecoming again.