Cathy Young | April 18, 2005
University of Michigan law professor Catharine MacKinnon, the surviving half of MacDworkin, gave a speech at Stanford University the other day about how every day is Sept. 11 for women in America (or should that be "Amerika"?). Noting that "the number of people who died at [the terrorists'] hands is the same as the number of women who die at men's hands--every year," MacKinnon asserted, "A kind of war is being fought, but there is no name for this war in which men are the aggressors and women the victims."
It's true that about 3,000 American women and girls are murdered every year (about 10% of them by other women). Of course, that number is dwarfed by the roughly 10,000 males who are also murdered every year, but never mind: "Just like terrorist attacks, acts of violence against women are carefully planned, targeted at civilians and driven by ideology." This is, of course, nuts. There may be a few woman-killers who are driven by misogyny, but MacKinnon's broader claim is akin to the notion that every interracial violent crime is part of a race war. This analogy brings to mind another point. Anyone who blamed African-Americans as a group for violent crimes committed by black perpetrators, or Arabs or Muslims as a group for radical Islamic terrorism, would be branded a bigot -- and rightly so. Yet MacKinnon can say things like, "half of society is attacking the other half" -- and it's "incisive" and "thought-provoking," according to one female law student who attended the talk.
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It's always incisive and thought provoking to be told you're the
victim of a vast conspiracy. Makes a person nod and feel righteous
indignation. It's somewhat less thought provoking to be accused of
one.
The truly sad part about Ms. MacKinnon and the late Ms. Dworkin, is
that the nuggets of truth the uncover get lost in their
overgeneralizations and angry rherotic.
It's this kind of frothing at the mouth that obscures the real problems that need solutions. People like her are their own worst enemy.
As outrageous as MacKinnon is and Dworkin was, I still think the
worst is the woman who referred to Newtonian physics as "Newton's
rape manual."
Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go solve the wave equation
in a heteronormative manner before oppressing some lesbians of
color.
However, it would actually be nice if the government prosecuted the war on rape as vigorously as the war on drugs. But, the "man" is more interested in what you put in your body as opposed to what someone forces into another's body.
Jon, you're presuming that MacKinnon genuinely cares about solving the problems she professes to be concerned about. It's more likely that her chief interest is the advancement of her career - and in that endeavour she's quite successful.
"...the lecture, which was sponsored by the Women of Stanford
Law, a student group, and the Institute for Research on Women and
Gender."
Wonder how much her (tax dollars and student fees supplied)
honorarium was for this. Oh, and the reimbursement for travel
expenses.
As I've pointed out before, generalizing about all men and all
women as MacKinnon does fails to realize that only individuals
oppress or are oppressed. To call all of a group guilty, or
innocent, or victims or villains, should be considered speech that
is beneath the minimum level required for debate.
How foolish that it is considered worthy of publication, praise and
dissemination as serious discourse.
I know I'm not the only one who is sick of "x causes a 9/11
every day/week/month/year." Like saying "look at the monkey" when
making an argument.
�This is a real war that has gone on for millennia.�
Indeed it has, and it has been pretty outrageous. Yet, wouldn't one
think that at this moment in history, more women exercise more
freedom and have better quality of lives than ever before IN HUMAN
HISTORY??? Yes, there are far too many cases of disgusting violence
against women around the globe as well as in the States. But any
rational discussion of the issue should at least acknowledge that
the glass is 7/8 full instead of claiming that the 1/8 of the glass
that's empty is some kind of calculated, planned armageddon.
She also leaves out the incredible abuse many many men experience from women. Yes, it's not physical abuse, but that doesn't make it much better.
Anyone else ever tell a woman in bed that you were "not in the
mood."
Men, you do not have the right to expect sex from a woman, but
you'll soon find out that they expect sex on demand.
Men, Arise! Don't be used as a sex toy any longer.
Uh, wait. Strike that.
Men, Stay flacid. Frustrate them until they beg for it.
It's not like a racial claim at all. It's what Wittgenstein
called ``grammatical,'' concerning the relations between men and
women.
Take it as poetical violence, rather than literal violence. Her
literal violence is figurative for it.
Men violently reduce unsettled situations to facts, boil things
down, resolve problems. Women synthesize and relate in complex
situations.
The man brings that to an end.
There is no such difference between races.
Man, that's really shallow. Either you are acting for the purpose of advancing a political cause, or your actions are completely bereft of ideological meaning?
And Cathy, on behalf of the men, you can stop leaping up to
defend our honor from "hate speech" like this any time now.
Really. We've got it from here. Thanks.
joe,
You seem to be implying that, because she's a woman, Cathy
shouldn't be bothered by misandry. If I'm white, should I not be
bothered by racism?
"Heartbreak," was the title of Dworkin's memoir..."Heartbreak,"
just think about it, when they were the fungus on the most radical
and effective movement of the 20th century.
I guess because of the terrible proliferation of porn! Boo-hoo,
women can pay their way through college and men can masturbate
efficiently...boo-hoo-hoo, rape.
Should gay men be allowed porn? Can they photograph themselves for
this purpose? Should other men merely rely on their memories of
naked women? Are they allowed to draw tits for themselves?
Dworkin's fat head explodes like Captain Kirk taking out a computer
with a logical quandary. Rot, you obfuscater, you sullier of the
great freethinking heroes of humanity, rot.
And Cathy, on behalf of the men, you can stop leaping up to
defend our honor from "hate speech" like this any time
now.
Heh. You just don't get it, joe. This isn't about women defending
men. This is about most women being frustrated with the fact that
idiots like MacKinnon and Dworkin appointed themselves defenders of
womanhood.
If you think Cathy is writing to defend men, you really need to pay
closer attention.
Actually, Steve, what I was implying is that Ms. Young shouldn't
be bothered by misandry because it is about as important and
harmful a problem in our society, measured by the harm it causes,
as a drug store running out of press-on nails.
So, is anyone else going to offer an opinion that it is "nuts" to
claim that there is an ideological dimension to husbands and
boyfriends using violence agains their wives and girlfriends?
Joe's supposedly pro-feminist comments are just a form of macho
posturing in disguise. "We're men! We're strong! We're powerful! No
amount of sniping from these pathetic little women could possibly
hurt us!" Personally, as a woman, I find this attitude insufferably
condescending. I think equality demands that women be held equally
accountable for hate speech as men.
And by the way, Dan, this is partly about defending men.
There are a lot of men who have suffered due to false or inflated
charges of sexual harassment, sexual assault, domestic violence,
etc. That doesn't negate the fact that other men have gotten away
with such offenses, of course. But I believe that misandry does
have consequences.
Is there an "ideological component" to men's assault on their wives
and girlfriends? Judging by the well-documented fact that domestic
abuse is no less prevalent among gay couples than among straight
ones (and that a lot of violence in heterosexual relationships is
initiated by women, though they generally don't do as much damage
because of the average differences in size and strength), I think
the ideological interpretation of domestic violence is profoundly
misguided. I'm sure that in some cases, abusive men believe it's
their "right" to control "their" woman, using force if necessary.
However, I believe research shows that domestic violence is far
more strongly correlated with various mental/emotional disorders
than with patriarchal attitudes.
In any case, MacKinnon is not simply saying that there is an
"ideological" component to male intimate violence against women.
She is saying that it is strategically planned and driven by a
conscious ideological agenda. Yep. Definitely nuts.
And by the way, Dan, this is partly about defending
men
Well then, I stand corrected. Do continue. :)
NoStar,
You got that right. Peg has been hounding me all day .. now excuse
me while I take a peek at 'Jugs' and head upstairs.
The latest figures from the National Institutes of Mental Health
show that in spousal abuse events, men are the victims in 51% of
the cases. Where "violent" spousal abuse is involved (serious
bodily injury or death), men are the victims in 59% of the
cases.
You don't hear men whining about this sort of stuff.
Gals, just suck it up an move on.
Cathy,
Feel free to take on any goddamned (would-be) tyrannical crazies
you come across, regardless of race, sex, creed, whatever. We love
you for it.
Joe, drop back ten yards and punt.
Todd,
It's physical abuse too. I don't know how many times I've seen
young women hit men. Playfully. And sometimes really hard. Ha, ha.
That's a pattern of abuse that is continued into adult life. You
piss her off and she hits you. You don't dare hit back, because
then you're a domestic abuser and the kids don't have a
daddy.
It's a one sided game, and it needs to be fixed, yesterday.
Charlie
Aside from the Roe v. Wade effect, do you suppose that right-thinking virtuous hostility between men and women might make leftists diminish in numbers? The left seems to be on the path to oblivion, like secular Shakers, since they are either unwilling or unable to reproduce. Godspeed to them! Conservatives should subsidize Dworkin's and MacKinnon's publications.
Check it out. MacKinnon doesn't understand the implications of
what she's saying...
MacKinnon:
"International law today doesn't capture the reality that half
of society is attacking the other half"..."This is a real war that
has gone on for millennia."
So if these men on women murders are to be seen as part of a war,
then this makes these crimes a more collective guilt and tends to
absolve the guilty *individuals*, the way that soldiers on both
sides of wars are absolved for their taking of lives. For MacKinnon
to make her point, she has to deny to the murders part of their
individual thought, and thus responsibility. And what are we to
make of women on women murders in MacKinnon's scheme? Are these
simply the actions of traitors who have switched sides in this
"war" that MacKinnon has concocted?
Also, all of us, men and women, need to defend our freedom of
speech against MacKinnon's obnoxious anti-porn proposals.
I wonder what the late Ms. Dworkin would have made of Attorney General Lockyer of California's comments about how he wanted Ken Lay to meet "bubba" in prison.
HeyBub:
The latest figures from the National Institutes of Mental
Health show that in spousal abuse events, men are the victims in
51% of the cases. Where "violent" spousal abuse is involved
(serious bodily injury or death), men are the victims in 59% of the
cases.
That sounds a bit fishy to me. What's the source?
(According to the National Violence
Against Women Study, men are victims in about 38% of domestic
assaults every year.)
To think, I've spent the last 10 years snooping through my
husband's things looking for his Patriarchy Membership Card, and
I've just realized that was the plan all along. Just imagine all
the time I wasted doing that instead of reinventing masculine
medicine and curing cancer. Which, you might note, when you say it
aloud, sounds a lot like Cans-Her. Damn that oppressor!
Charlie: Plenty of women are just as appalled by the behavior you
describe. Men are told, rightly, that they should control their
temper and not hit people just because they are angry, and some
women go slap-happy at the least provocation, and think that's
supposed to be okay. I told one young woman years ago that one of
these days she was going to smack a less well socialized male and
get punched for it.
Joe,
There is an ideological component to men on women violence.
It is well studied and well known. Some men spend years studying
its tennents.
The theory even has a well known name.
Islam.
M. Simon,
Lets distribute the accusations equitably. Fundamentalist Judaism
has a strong anti-women component. Does Hinduism? I'm thinking that
in India, violence against women by men has a pretty high degree of
social sanction.
Let me see here:
Orthodox Jews represent Oh say, maybe 5 million total men and
women. If you leave the fold you will be shunned.
Strict Moslems represent maybe 300 million, maybe 600 million.
Maybe more. If you get femminist ideas you can get "honor
killed".
So yeah. The Jews and Hindus (of which I am less familiar) are no
doubt the more serious threat to women.
Beside ask any Islamic. They defend the rights of women.
My point is: if you want to find opressors of women perhaps secular
America or even Judeo/Christian America is not the best place to
look. Perhaps a certain amout of cultural blindness is evidenced by
the current passions of the "movement woemen".
And yes, I do know how to spell. Occasionally. This may be one of
those occasions.
i wouldn't want to be born female in a conservative religious
house of any stripe, even in america.
but i look forward to the whole islam kerfluffle which will
ensue.
"International law today doesn't capture the reality that half
of society is attacking the other half"..."This is a real war that
has gone on for millennia."
And yet there are more women alive today than at any time in
history.
DAMN, we're LOSING!!!!
"MacKinnon's broader claim is akin to the notion that every
interracial violent crime is part of a race war..."
Since when is this not a leftist position? See "hate crime."
As for us men "losing," I'm not so sure. Ten thousand years ago we
tended to get killed a lot, and there were two women for every one
of us. Was that a good or bad thing? Hm.
MacKinnon asserted, "A kind of war is being fought, but
there is no name for this war in which men are the aggressors and
women the victims."
*raises hand, gingerly clears throat*
Perhaps women would be less likely to be victimized were there more
of them willing to purchase, practice, and carry a pistol or other
defensive arm.
The girlfriend tells me that at the refugee center, they have to tell immigrants that they can't beat their wives here like they could back where they came from. There's a half-kernel of truth to what MacKinnon says, ie, that there has been an underlying assumption throughout most societies throughout most of history (and pre-history) that men were in charge and were largely allowed to do what they wanted with women. And that's why her message is so seductive, which in turn is why her absurd overreaching, fact warping and blindness to modernization's improvements are so maddening.
Strict Moslems represent maybe 300 million, maybe 600
million. Maybe more. If you get femminist ideas you can get "honor
killed".
Gee Simon, don't tell my mom (#3 in her bank in Egypt) or my aunt
(respected genetic researcher in Egypt, lest they get honor killed
in Egypt. Orthodox strains of all religions are pretty anti-women,
It's not a solely Muslim thing. At the same time, many of the
strong, independent women I knew were Muslim too and they claim
that strength came from that religion. I know that doesn't jibe
with your preconcieved notions, but it is, what it is.
It appears that the societal and familial orders that will win
out in the end are the ones that lead to the highest sustainable
rates of childbirth. In our time, the colonial momentum has
reversed: European, American, and Japanese women have been
exercising their "reproductive" freedom since the 1970s. Meanwhile,
the oppressed women of India, the muslim countries, and China have
spent the last several decades actually reproducing. One hears
tales that the population boom is slowing, but it seems altogether
too late for dwindling Europe and elderly Japan. The outcome in the
United States is doubtful, where men and women can still sometimes
be bothered to have babies. Some of you will no doubt hear an echo
of Mark Steyn when I say that I don't understand how we can count
our feminist order as such a fine thing when it appears it's not
even destined to last throughout our lifetime.
Never mind all this trimming back and forth as to who's the real
feminist, who's the real hater, etc., etc. The precise degrees and
kinds of our decency or indecency toward women scarcely matter if
we're just going to be overrun and killed or squeezed out, anyway.
I propose that the members of both the sexes drop this nonsense and
get busy doing the one thing that justified there being two sexes
in the first place.
Right on the money. I had 4 years of this at the liberal arts
college I attended. I can't believe they're still selling this to
young minds.
bohemian like you
Catharine MacKinnon to my knowledge never had any problems with Bill Clintons treatment of women. So, now I model my behavior the same as his.
What drives me nuts about these "men are evil" rants is that
even heroic men who would give anything--including their lives--to
protect a woman against rape are lumped into the same "male"
category with rapists/abusers.
Reminds me of when a college feminist group wanted to make a
statement by banning all men from campus certain evenings. They
were overruled on the grounds that with no men around they would be
creating the perfect rapist hunting grounds and the school would
have to pay for extra security.
"Perhaps women would be less likely to be victimized were there
more of them willing to purchase, practice, and carry a pistol or
other defensive arm."
You beat me to it. We are such a nation of pussies. We are totally
conditioned to expect government to watch over us like playground
moms and make sure everyone "plays nice". If one child gets
wronged, he/she is expected to go crying to the playground mom
instead of taking care of the problem themself.
Abused women have brothers, fathers, male cousins, etc.. where the
fuck are they?
Who cares what law students think?!
They only exist to perform menial research and write memos. The
princesses who've been told they're geniuses their whole lives make
the most memorable faces when you tell them how idiotic their ideas
are. That's right, princess, your "Motion to Stop the Thingy" is
ill-thought, childish, and no judge on earth would take me
seriously ever again if I signed it. Now, Super Lucky Happy
Cleaners closes at 7, so shake that pretty tush downstairs and get
my freaking shirts.
Mo, Rick Barton: that was stupid, no-one serious says that Islam
is in all forms incompatible with civilisation. But a quick google
suggests that honor killings are frequent and condoned in most
arab-sphere countries. This includes, I'm sorry to tell you, Egypt:
you might ask your friends about the law there!
Hindus do not seem much better off, in fact, but I did not, of
course, get any results for Jews or Christians of any stripe.
"Reminds me of when a college feminist group wanted to make
a statement by banning all men from campus certain evenings. They
were overruled on the grounds that with no men around they would be
creating the perfect rapist hunting grounds and the school would
have to pay for extra security."
Yeah, we had these "take back the night" rallies when I was in
college, which basically just reinforced this culture of
victimhood. Sure, it was laced with undertones of "we're mad as
hell, and we're not gonna take it", but in reality, it was merely a
capitulation to the collectivism of "victim" and "villain". Our
school newspaper was ridden, for weeks every year during "take back
the night" time, with women's editorials seeking harsher penalties
and the abolishment of due process in rape cases.
I went against the grain and wrote an editorial about my best
friend, who was currently at a college where there was female
majority and a large feminist presence. He and some girl got drunk
at a party, and they started going at it. About halfway through,
she got second thoughts, and took off. The next day, he was charged
with rape. They almost kicked him out (without any evidence), but
the girl rescinded her bullshit story at the last minute.
Oddly enough, I never got any editorial responses from the whole
"men are guilty until proven innocent" crowd. I'd hate to see them
in a real debate...
MacKinnon's wrong. She's off by about 600,000+ victims.
She can't see the hypocrisy of what she says about violence against
women and still support "women's rights" & "pro-choice".
Through 'choice' women violate themselves, and wonder why they are
victims of violence?
Where and how and with who a choice is made matters.
That's as much for men, as Evan Williams friend found out to his
surprise, as for woman, including the girl.
How can you have objective reality in front of your eyes and not
see?
Strict Moslems represent maybe 300 million, maybe 600
million. Maybe more. If you get femminist ideas you can get "honor
killed".
In the so-called muslim societies, women had the opportunity to
hold the highest political position in their countries (heads of
state, prime ministers, etc.). Tell me Mr. Simon, when was the last
time this happened in America?
Of course, "radicals" of this type never seem to have an unkind word for the Islamic world that sanctions "honor killing" of innocent girls and women, and ritual female mutilation. To intellectually bankrupt individuals such as MacKinnon, that doesn't count, since we have no right to impose a western concept of right and wrong on another culture. And yet, in true moonbat fashion, all heterosexual relations are deemed "rape." Really people, does anybody listen to this tripe for any reason other than to get a good laugh?
"Through 'choice' women violate themselves, and wonder why they
are victims of violence?"
indeed. it's why i don't go to the dentist. it just encourages
them.
Patrick: But a quick google suggests that honor killings are
frequent and condoned in most arab-sphere countries.
Since when google hits became a valid statistic to support an
argument? I'm curious, what key words did you use for your
search?
The reason I ask is because "Honor killing" is a term specifically
used for muslim societies. The general term might be "crimes of
passion". Any one who takes issue with "honor killings" in muslim
societies and ignores other "crimes of passion" isn't interested in
righting a wrong, but is ideological blind and only interested in
settling scores.
Check this
article for more info:
In India, for example, more than 5,000 brides die annually because
their dowries are considered insufficient, according to the United
Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF). Crimes of passion, which are
treated extremely leniently in Latin America, are the same thing
with a different name, some rights advocates say.
"In countries where Islam is practiced, they're called honor
killings, but dowry deaths and so-called crimes of passion have a
similar dynamic in that the women are killed by male family members
and the crimes are perceived as excusable or
understandable,"
a: I think the point M. Simon was trying to make is that, sure,
most "conservative" strains of religions tend to be
"non-women-friendly" to a greater or lesser degree. There is only
one, however, where the explicit penanlty for leaving said religion
is death - and I think we know which religion that is.
Mo: Sure Benazir Bhuto got to be the (highly corrupt) PM of
Pakistan, but does that make up for the numerous honor killings and
acid disfigurements that go on in that country. I'm sure all the
"sisters" were real proud of Benazir, but it doesn't make up for
getting a face full of sulphuric acid.
Mo: I'm happy for your aunt and all, but she is pretty
unrepresentative of female Egyptian society. It's great that some
upper-class women are managing to break out and secure positions of
influence. Tell me - what is the ratio of women to men at the top
Eqyptian universities?
In Jordan (you know, our moderate little buddy) the King has
repeatedly tried to implement a law that would more severely punish
honor killings - but it keeps getting rejected by the Parliament.
Just Muslim men expressing the democratic will of their
countrymen.
"Of course, "radicals" of this type never seem to have an unkind
word for the Islamic world that sanctions "honor killing" of
innocent girls and women, and ritual female mutilation."
And yet, American feminist groups were pretty much the only ones
calling attention to the depredations of the Taliban prior to
September 11. And they were thorougly ignored by the very same
politicans who spent 2002 falling all over themselves to work to
the word "burka" into every sentence.
Ms. Young, how does the fact that gay males commit domestic
violence upon their partners at roughly the same rate that straight
males commit violence against their partners lead you to conclude
that males are not socialized to consider violent, controlling
behavior towards their partners to be normal? That - the belief in
the rightness of using force within a relationship - is the
ideology at play here.
"I think equality demands that women be held equally accountable
for hate speech as men." And I think that Muslims ranting against
Jews are to be considered a great threat than Catholics ranting
against Freemasons. Muslim anti-semitism, misogyny = big problems.
Catholic anti-Masonism, misandry = not big problems. When the
number of men sent to the emergy room or the morgue by their
partners rises to, say, 25% of the number of women sent there by
their partners, this analysis might be revising. In the mean time,
insisting that woman-on-male violence is a serious problem that
should call into question large sections of feminist thought puts
you well into moonbat territory.
I ONCE got so frustrated with my former spouse that I punched a
wall, which did far more damage to my hand than it did to the wall.
She decided - contrary to five-plus years of experience - on the
basis of this one demonstration that I was dangerous. Next
argument, when I left the house to cool off, then returned, I found
a police cruiser in my driveway. I very much enjoyed listening to
her explain that the reason she called was what I had done to some
wallboard during a previous domestic disturbance.
Ms. MacKinnon, I suspect, graduated with my ex-wife.
Joe,
So now it's not a war against women but a war against all spouses
of males. I don't think that's what MacKinnon had in mind.
Personally I think there are more likely explanations for violent
reactions by men in relationships than that they were taught to
consider such behavior normal, but I imagine we could argue that
one back and forth forever. Regardless, if women aren't the target,
it would seem to be besides MacKinnon's point.
OTOH, you're probably right that radical feminists aren't as silent
about the treatment of women in fundamentalist Muslim societies as
some here have suggested. But I believe I've heard them talk like
the US is pretty much just as bad, and I suspect they mainly bring
up mistreatment of women in Muslim nations in order to claim that
the US is tacitly approving of such behavior, as your own post
seems to do. Aside from that stupid drug war payment we made to the
Taliban, I believe we hardly on good terms with them, and short of
invading them pre-9/11, there probably wasn't much we could do.
What did YOU do about it?
When the number of men sent to the emergy room or the morgue
by their partners rises to, say, 25% of the number of women sent
there by their partners, this analysis might be
revising.
I know a lot of men who would have been better of going to the
emergency room (or even possibly the morgue) than putting up with
some of the stuff their partners/ex-partners have put them through,
things that are in no way appropriate for a public forum. Some men
are needlessly violent as a response to their problems. Their
female counterparts are much more Machiavellian -- and they can
afford to be, with so much of the legal and (especially!) social
services field favoring them. THAT is why it's a problem that
moonbats like MacKinnon are speaking at law schools, because
innocent men are being victimized by theses institutions.
And is it just too obvious to point out the most obvious flaw in
MacKinnon's justification, that most women are killed for the same
reason as most men? For walking around in the wrong areas of our
great country after dark? For getting involved with the "wrong"
people, or having family members who do? She's not just accusing
abusers of being part of a conspiracy, she's accusing the drug
dealers who happen to catch a female in their crossfire of being in
a war against women.
fyodor, dagny, I don't think MacKinnon gets it exactly right
either. Nonetheless, there is a problem that she gets at. And for a
writen like Young to pick at the margins in order to declare the
entire line of inquiry out of bounds is wholly inappropriate.
What did I do about Afghanistan? Not much. Not nearly as much as
groups like NOW advocated.
The people who did the most for women's liberation are Samuel
Colt, who provided the first effective and lightweight means of
self defense, and Charles Kettering who invented the electric self
starter, so women could travel independently.
Self aggrandizing loudmouths like MacKinnon contributed not at
all.
My advice to women who do not want to be opressed: learn to shoot,
take your potential boyfriend to the range, and then marvel at how
his manners improve.
I too am a victim of attempted woman on man violence. My ex
wive, caught in an affair, responded by throwing dishes at me. Alas
for me, she throws like a girl, and missed. 20 minutes later she
had calmed down, and I agreed to put her through medical school
rather than pay her alimony. Her later perjurous charges of child
molestation against me were shown in court to have no merit. I have
not seen two of my children for over 5 years. The court was not
interested in enforcing the visitation order, since she was female,
and of course her perjury was never procecuted.
Family courts may have her statue above them, but they have little
other interest in Justice.
There is only one, however, where the explicit penanlty for
leaving said religion is death - and I think we know which religion
that is.
Howzat? I don't remember reading anything in the Qu'ran about the
death penalty being acceptable punishment for leaving Islam. Care
to provide a source?
i remember talking with folks about the taliban in the late 90s,
and the only people who knew what they were was womens rights folk
and drug warriors.
the drug warriors were totally hot with them because "hey, they
don't like drugs! fuck yeah! if only we could execute drug
users!"
the womens rights folk were far more reserved in their
condemnation. mostly because i think they reasonably understood for
the most part that there was no solution as to how to change
cultural in foreign countries remotely. we can carpetbomb our
american taliban with porn and keep them occupied with the rule of
law and pointy sticks; no such luck elsewhere.
joe,
You'll (perhaps) notice that I granted that there's a half-kernel
of truth to MacKinnon's words. It's not anyone's fault but
MacKinnon's if she obscures what few good points she has with
mountains of bullshit.
Anyway, I would need more than assertion or the fact that men are
more violent than women in all relationships to believe that
vestiges of the traditional treatment of women as chattel plays any
more than a very minor and rare part in male violence towards women
in US society.
Catharine MacKinnon is always saying this kind of claptrap. She is the Ward Churchill of Feminist studies, the Louis Farrakan of women. People like her focus on a groups sadly real and often manufactured victimization and use it as a "justification" for assuming the persecutor role. It is all second rate drama. NEWS FLASH!!!! Hating men and blaming them for everything is not feminist ideology, it is just misandry.
I don't remember reading anything in the Qu'ran about the
death penalty being acceptable punishment for leaving Islam. Care
to provide a source?
That's a disingenuous question, since virtually all Muslims also
accept that Hadith as a source of religious instruction. It
contains numerous sayings of the Prophet, who most Muslims believe
never gave incorrect religious instruction. So even if it were true
that the Qu'ran itself does not demand the death of apostates (and
it is possible, though in my opinion not plausible, to read the
Qu'ran that way), the fact remains that the Hadith contains many
examples of the Prophet demanding the death of people guilty of
nothing more than inappropriate beliefs. This
page has a good roundup of some of them.
Commenting on Islam by focusing solely on the Qu'ran is like
commenting on Christianity by focusing solely on the four Gospels
and ignoring the Old Testament, the letters of Paul, and the
centuries of accumulated traditions.
holdfast:
"There is only one, however, where the explicit penanlty for
leaving said religion is death - and I think we know which religion
that is."
What does that have to do with violence against women?
holdfast:
"that make up for the numerous honor killings "
"Honor Killings" are not acceptable, but do you have any evidence
that they are more numerous than crimes of passion in Latin
American countires, for example?
"Tell me - what is the ratio of women to men at the top Eqyptian
universities?"
I'm not sure about Egypt, but in Arab Gulf countries (including
Saudi Arabia, the most conservative of the bunch), the ratio of
women in universities is more than 50% (i.e, there are more girls
than boys in universities). Source:
Joe:
Actually, I am not "picking at the margins." At the margins, I
think, is where MacKinnon has something of a valid point: yes,
violence against women is a serious problem. What I think is rotten
is the very core of her argument: that this violence represents a
conscious effort by men to oppress women.
Because remember, again, MacKinnon is not talking merely
about men being "socialized" to be violent. She's talking about a
conscious effort akin to terrorism. Note, too, that she is blaming
all 3,000 or so homicides of women and girls every year on
this patriarchal terrorist conspiracy, presumably including, as
Dagny points out, the drive-by shootings.
Ms. Young, how does the fact that gay males commit domestic
violence upon their partners at roughly the same rate that straight
males commit violence against their partners lead you to conclude
that males are not socialized to consider violent, controlling
behavior towards their partners to be normal? That - the belief in
the rightness of using force within a relationship - is the
ideology at play here.
I'm curious. Where did you see a reference to "gay males" in my
statement, Joe? I was referring to gay relationships. Last time I
checked, that term covers lesbians relationships as well.
I direct you to a 1994
article by University of British Columbia psychologist Donald
Dutton, a preeminent researcher on domestic violence:
The prevalence of violence in homosexual relationships, which also appear to go through abuse cycles is hard to explain in terms of men dominating women (see Bologna, Waterman and Dawson, 1987; Island and Letellier, 1991; Lie and Gentlewarrior). Bologna et al. (1987) surveyed 70 homosexual male and female college students about incidence of violence in the most recent relationship. Lesbian relationships were significantly more violent than gay relationships (56% vs. 25%). Lie and Gentlewarrior surveyed 1,099 lesbians, finding that 52% had been a victim of violence by their female partner, 52% said they had used violence against their female partner, and 30% said they had used violence against a non-violent female partner. Finally, Lie, Schilit, Bush, Montague and Reyes (1991) reported, in a survey of 350 lesbians, that rates of verbal, physical and sexual abuse were all significantly higher in lesbian relationships than in heterosexual relationships: 56.8% had been sexually victimized by a female, 45% had experienced physical aggression, and 64.5% experienced physical or emotional aggression. Of this sample of women, 78.2% had been in a prior relationship with a man. Reports of violence by men were all lower than reports of violence in prior relationships with women (sexual victimization, 41.9% (vs. 56.8% with women); physical victimization 32.4% (vs. 45%) and emotional victimization 55.1% (vs. 64.5%).
Most of the references, by the way, are to research by feminist
scholars.
Btw, some years ago there was a hilarious incident in Massachusetts
where a high-level staffer at a battered women's shelter was
arrested for beating up her girlfriend. You should have seen the
anti-DV activists twisting themselves into pretzels saying things
like "Oh, domestic quarrels can be a really complicated matter,"
etc. These are, of course, the same people who are usually up in
arms about domestic violence being dismissed as mere
"quarrels."
When the number of men sent to the emergy room or the morgue by
their partners rises to, say, 25% of the number of women sent there
by their partners, this analysis might be revising.
Oh, interesting, Joe. Can I hold you to that?
Victims of
murder and non-negligent manslaughter by intimates, 2002:
Female: 1,202
Male: 388
That's about 33%, actually.
"Intimates" is defined as current or former spouses or
partners.
And that's excluding "justifiable homicides," i.e.
self-defense.
Revising time, maybe? (Of course not -- I can see the next round of
excuses coming: But all those homicidal women are victims of male
abuse *sniffle* *sniffle* ... But all those violent
lesbians are victims of a misogynistic society *sniffle*
sniffle* *sob* ...)
Finally, you say:
"I think equality demands that women be held equally
accountable for hate speech as men." And I think that Muslims
ranting against Jews are to be considered a great threat than
Catholics ranting against Freemasons. Muslim anti-semitism,
misogyny = big problems. Catholic anti-Masonism, misandry = not big
problems.
I think you're engaging in (probably intentional) sleight of hand
by choosing, as your hypothetical target of "unimportant" hate
spech, an obscure and almost mythical group like "the Freemasons."
How about Catholic anti-Semitism, Joe -- which, unlike the Muslim
kind, is not linked to terrorism? I agree that it does not pose as
much of a problem as Muslim anti-Semitism, but does that mean that
we should not condemn a Catholic anti-Semite as vigorously as we
would a Muslim one?
Finally, about feminsts and the Taliban. Yes, the National
Organization for Women did speak out about the plight of women in
Afghanistan. But it wasn't NOW or the feminists that liberated
Afghan women from the Taliban's rule. It was the United States
military. Quite a few prominent feminists, including, as I recall,
Gloria Steinem, opposed the intervention.
I was visiting a friend in Atlanta for his birthday. His wife
didn't like me (she actually didn't like him to have any contact
with friends or family), even though I am well-behaved and
courteous. Anyway, she comes home one day in a rage, a literal
rage, throwing serving dishes through windows and the like. She
says point blank to my friend that she's going to call the cops.
He, being innocent of any wrongdoing, says "go ahead."
Long story short...she beat herself up, pinned it on him, had him
thrown in jail on his birthday, in his slippers. My testimony was
not indulged...after all I'm a man. Thankfully they're divorced
(finally) now, but for at least a year afterward all she had to do
was threaten to call the cops and he would have been thrown in jail
for longer than a night.
So, sorry when I say that when you bring things to a level of "us
vs them", I just can't take you seriously.
Good thing that the courts understand that women abusing men
isn't as big a problem as men abusing women. Right joe? To me,
violence is violence, regardless of gender.
Oddly enough, having never hit a woman in my life - and never
having struck a man in anything other than self-defense - I have
very little patience for anyone who commits violent attacks,
regardless of gender. (Ok, there were a few times I smacked my
little sister when we were growing up - but she started it!)
But I also know several men who still carry physical scars from
bite marks and other attacks from their girlfriend/wife.
As fyodor mentions, other cultures have differing views of domestic
violence. A friend of mine's Central American wife recently
discovered this when she attacked him in the middle of an argument.
Luckily for her, they charged him with domestic violence (for
attempting to restrain her) at the same time they charged him
(though he was bleeding and she didn't have a mark on her). Due to
the cross-charges, both of their charges were downgraded to simple
assault. As the judge explained to my friend, he was lucky to get
away with a few stitches rather than jail time. (She paid a fine
and never saw the judge.)
My pet theory, based solely on anecdotal evidence is that women
actually tend to be violent more often than men. Some possible
reasons: 1) they're not conditioned to think of it as a last resort
and tend to let their emotions sweep them into "violence of the
moment." 2) Because they aren't as likely to be indoctrinated to be
stoic and rational. 3) They're taught that they aren't really
strong enough to hurt someone else, or that men are too tough to be
injured by them. (I'm sure that if I were the presidnet of a mjor
university someone would be calling for my dismissal for espousing
this theory...)
that last part makes sense, rob, at least in my limited
experience.
however, some people are just nuts. based on a sample set of one,
sicilian women are really crazy but surprisingly handy with a
frying pan. i wouldn't consider that incident domestic violence
(even if it was, technically) because i was smart enough to
duck.
Ms. Young,
"What I think is rotten is the very core of her argument: that this
violence represents a conscious effort by men to oppress women."
This is where you get slippery - the use of the term "conscious
effort." Is a "conscious effort" to keep your own wife from making
trouble a "conscious effort to oppress women?" I'm afraid it's not
enough to say that "violence against women is a serious problem."
Tornadoes are a serious problem, too. To describe the pheneomenon
as such while lashing out at all those who perceive any ideological
meaning is an act that goes well beyond discrediting a "global male
conspiracy." For someone who so doggedly defended the assertion
that Joshua Micah Marshall is a self-hating antisemite, you're
become extremely rigorous in your willingness to recognize
ideological underpinnings.
As for your mortality statistics, I'll be generous an assume there
are some language issues that led you to misconstrue the phrase
"the emergency room or the morgue" to refer entirely to homicides.
You are, of course, free to dig up comparative rates of hospital
visitations. I'm sure we'll be seeing those any minute now.
The Masons, mythical? We have a Masonic Hall across the street from
City Hall.
We most assuredly should condemn Catholic anti-semitism. What we
should not do is seize on the most repugnant anti-semitic ravings
of Father Coughlin as an excuse to demonize Catholicism in
general.
"But it wasn't NOW or the feminists that liberated Afghan women
from the Taliban's rule. It was the United States military. Quite a
few prominent feminists, including, as I recall, Gloria Steinem,
opposed the intervention." This is relevant because...?
"Cathy,
Feel free to take on any goddamned (would-be) tyrannical crazies
you come across, regardless of race, sex, creed, whatever. We love
you for it.".
Absolutely. CY is the meana' Xena of mental rage and cool
demeana'.
Joe, when you say 'we', you don't mean me.
And is "*sniffle* *sniffle* *sob*" considered an argument in some intellectua circles?
ok, Rob, if you feel that you need someone to protect you and your victimized brethren from those mean, scary feminsits with their, uh, word processors, then I agree: we probably shouldn't be lumped together.
Cathy,
Thank you for that last post. I was never caught up in the DV
INDUSTRY (thank you God!), but I've seen it
happen. My mother was a master (mistress?) of inflicting violence
or using humiliation, pushing buttons to GET a reaction, and other
"typically female" (men do it too!) ploys to GET a reaction, and
then acting as the victim.
What bothers me also about MacKinnons drivel, is that she makes no
mention of the rapes of men in prison (let alone gay
relationships).
The (from memory, so be kind) 2003/2004 Prison Rape Elimination Act
found that around 10% of all prisoners are raped. And this is not a
date-rape situation where the victim gets up, leaves, and can
easily seek out support (though it may be emotionally hard), no ...
these men are often gang-raped. And, in prison, once your status is
that of "bitch" (not being offensive, just using the slang he is
then called) ... that's pretty much it. And he will be raped
repeatedly, traded for commisary items or drugs, and has a HIGH
risk factor for AIDS.
The number of incarcerated men is (about) 2 million? So 200K men
are raped REPEATEDLY and the whole "every victim counts" crowd is
nowhere to be seen.
It is only recently that lesbian rape has been seriously studied,
and it turns out to be comparable with heterosexual rape.
Rapists, male or female, rely on fear, the victim keeping quiet
(homophobia - in prison of being a "snitch"), and keeping power
over their victims.
It's sad, truly and without sarcasm, it's sad, that after 2-3
DECADES of rape literature, rape prevention/recognition classes,
and changes in our penal system, that MacKinnon et al don't seem to
have a viable solution, nor a true desire to expost ALL
rapists.
Keeping women in fear and promoting false statistics to keep
herself in the limelight, and the victims rehashing their pain,
IMO, is just fine by her.
Nice.
There is a war between the rich and poor
A war between the man and the woman
There is a war between those who say there is a war
And those who say there isn't
You cannot stand what I've become
You much prefer the gentleman I was before
I was so easy to deceive, I was so easy to control
I didn't even know there was a war
Why don't you come on back to the war?
(Don't be a tourist!)
Why don't you come on back before
We all get nervous ...
My advice to women who do not want to be opressed: learn to
shoot, take your potential boyfriend to the range, and then marvel
at how his manners improve.
I have, on more than one occassion, had the opportunity to
introduce people to firearms for the first time, and without fail
women are always more willing to listen and learn.
Generally first time females will outshoot first time males by a
somewhat significant margin.
"What we should not do is seize on the most repugnant
anti-semitic ravings of Father Coughlin as an excuse to demonize
Catholicism in general."
ahh, that's a good point.
father coughlin = macdworkin
"ok, Rob, if you feel that you need someone to protect you and
your victimized brethren from those mean, scary feminsits with
their, uh, word processors, then I agree: we probably shouldn't be
lumped together." - joe
Gee, does that mean I won't get to come to your "He-Man Man-Haters
Club" meeting, joe? Darn... I'm all broken up by that. Is it still
held in the treehouse in your Mom's back yard? (Way to demonstrate
childish, by the way.)
For the record, it's not women with word processors who scare me
(unless they're throwing them at me). What does scare me is a
justice system that is unfairly biased against men who have been
attacked and women who get a free pass for attacking other people
because of their gender.
Here's a little more personal info than you paid for... My
girlfriend happens to weigh roughly half of what I weigh. But
considering how much time she spends in the gym and the dojo, she's
certainly more capable of hurting me than most men - especially
Sensitive, New Age Guys like you.
She'd never try to hurt me, but I suspect this comes from the
realization that the price for violently losing her temper is
considerably greater than that of the average woman. But I'm sure
you're such a BIG, STRONG, RUGGED HE-MAN that NO woman could ever
hurt YOU.
Just like I'm sure that women who can't be empowered without your
big, strong help think you're the Second Coming of Alan Alda. Time
for a reality check, joe: Your condenscension towards women comes
through so clearly it couldn't be cut with a chainsaw.
Mr. Sensitive New Age. That's me. Heh. Except when I'm condescending towards women, or think I'm a big strong he man that no woman could ever hurt. Hmm...you might want to work on that.
Very little work required - I certainly can't take the lion's share of the credit. You did all the heavy lifting for me as soon as you hit the "Post" key.
Joe, dear: get your left-of-center bloggers straight. It's not
Joshua Micah Marshall, of whom I've never had a bad thing to say.
It's Eric Alterman, who is utterly and completely irrelevant to
this discussion.
And is "*sniffle* *sniffle* *sob*" considered an argument in
some intellectua circles?
Well, I'm not sure, Joe. Probably no more so than snide comments
implying that your foreign-born opponent has problems with English
comprehension, or sneering at the masculinity of an opponent who's
afraid of (ha-ha!) women and, worse yet, doesn't mind
other little girls coming to his defense. These supposedly
"feminist" comments are oozing contempt for women.
As for the statistics: I made a reference to homicides because
MacKinnon was talking about murders, in the article I linked at the
start of this thread. If you're interested in nonfatal injuries,
according to the Centers for Disease Control about 15% of those
seeking emergency room aid for injuries inflicted by a spouse or
partner are males. It's reasonable to assume that this figure
understimates male injuries from domestic violence because (1) it's
a well-known phenomenon that men are less likely to seek medical
aid than women with comparable problems, and (2) a man would be far
less likely to disclose that he was injured by a female partner
than vice versa. Meanwhile, a
comprehensive analysis of domestic violence studies by British
researcher John Archer (published in Psychological
Bulletin in 2000) finds that about 38% of those injured in
heterosexual domestic violence are men.
(By the way, I notice that you chose to completely ignore the data
I presented on lesbian violence.)
I am not denying that domestic violence is a more serious problem
for women than for men because, on average, men are bigger
and stronger. (I'm sure the disparity in injuries would be greater
if men weren't held back by the Western cultural prohibition
against using force toward a woman.) On the other hand, men are far
more vulnerable than women to other forms of abuse, such as
false accusations.
I'm afraid it's not enough to say that "violence against women
is a serious problem." Tornadoes are a serious problem, too. To
describe the pheneomenon as such while lashing out at all those who
perceive any ideological meaning is an act that goes well beyond
discrediting a "global male conspiracy."
Not enough for what? To qualify as an enlightened human being in
the World According to Joe?
Incidentally, I don't "lash out" at everyone who believes that
male-chauvinist attitudes play a role in some or many male assaults
on women (a view shared by a number of researchers, such as Murray
Straus, who also take a larger and more nuanced view of domestic
violence that includes female aggression). I am "lashing out"
specifically at Catharine MacKinnon, who believes that, basically,
all men are waging a war against all women ("half of humanity is
waging war on the other half"). This despite the fact that severe
and chronic spousal violence happens in maybe 3% of heterosexual
couples.
Incidentally, a growing number of feminists are now recognizing
that the MacKinnonite model of domestic violence as patriarchal
oppression is false. Ellen Pence, a leading feminist battered
women's advocate and a founder of the Duluth, Minnesota Domestic
Abuse Intervention Project (DAIP), writes in a 1999 essay:
By determining that the need or desire for power was the motivating force behind battering, we created a conceptual framework that, in fact, did not fit the lived experience of many of the men and women we were working with. The DAIP staff ... remained undaunted by the difference in our theory and the actual experiences of those we were working with. ... It was the cases themselves that created the chink in each of our theoretical suits of armor. Speaking for myself, I found that many of the men I interviewed did not seem to articulate a desire for power over their partner. Although I relentlessly took every opportunity to point out to men in the groups that they were so motivated and merely in denial, the fact that few men ever articulated such a desire went unnoticed by me and many of my coworkers. Eventually, we realized that we were finding what we had already predetermined to find.
(In Melanie Shepard and Ellen Pence,
Coordinating Community Responses to Domestic Violence,
Sage 1999.)
In my view, the ideology of
domestic-violence-as-patriarchal-terrorism has done incalculable
harm to efforts to combat domestic violence, leading the "domestic
violence industry" to ignore not only female aggression but also
such crucial factors in male violence as mental illness and
substance abuse. (In many PC-dominated jurisdictions such as
Massachussets, state-certified domestic violence counseling
programs are actually forbidden to focus on substance
abuse or psychopathology because, well, that would go against the
dogma that battering is "ideological" male terrorism against women
and we can't have that, can we?)
So yes, I'm going to "lash" out at this insanity, because in my
view it's hurting both women and men (and children).
The Masons, mythical? We have a Masonic Hall across the street
from City Hall.
What I'm trying to say, Joe -- as you know full well -- is that
Masons are not really an identifiable social group in American
society. Men are.
We most assuredly should condemn Catholic anti-semitism. What
we should not do is seize on the most repugnant anti-semitic
ravings of Father Coughlin as an excuse to demonize Catholicism in
general.
I agree with that. However, if leading Catholic institutions
welcomed raving anti-Semites as their spokesmen (the equivalents of
Dworkin and MacKinnon), they would only have themselves to blame if
all Catholicism was "demonized" by association.
I bet she will not go even 1 step further and describe how babies/fetuses are 9/11'd by women everyday. Oh wait...killing babies is a choice that we women get to make. Excuse me.
Rob said:
"For the record, it's not women with word processors who scare
me (unless they're throwing them at me). What does scare me is a
justice system that is unfairly biased against men who have been
attacked and women who get a free pass for attacking other people
because of their gender."
I would second that.
(slight stereotyping here - full disclosure)
Since women are generally smaller they don't have
to hit you.
It's called Violence By Proxy (specifically using the state). Any
person can pick up the phone and make spurious allegations, with
full knowledge before-hand that they face little in the way of
recriminations if the allegations are proven false.
This applies in DV cases, to be sure, but the scary one is a false
allegation of rape.
I can hear the cry from MacKinnon et al now:
"They can be charged! But false allegations rarely
happen!"
Yea, sure, you betcha. Charging a false accuser of rape with
"filing a false police report" is like charging a rapist with
disorderly conduct: it's not much of a deterrent and it trivializes
the magnitude of the crime.
And as to the "rarely happens" idea: "The 2% of rape
allegations are false" comes NOT from a federal crime data
base, not from a national study, but from a single source.
In (from memory) 1974(?) Susan Brownmiller wrote a book about rape.
"Rape: against our will". In it she cited this now famous, but
eroneous, statistic.
Where did she get it? Well, for years she wouldn't say. But finally
she admitted that this was from the opinion on a
memo from one appealate (?sp?) judge in
one district in one city.
Brownmiller must have looked around good and hard and finally found
a "statistic" that supported her position.
In contrast there have been two actual studies (and if anyone knows
others - plz do chime in) concerning the false allegation of
rape.
The first was done by the USAF. In this **60%**
admitted lying just as a polygraph was to be administered. That's a
pretty rock hard floor. Notice I didn't say the
investigators determined if the charge was valid:
the accuser admitted lying.
The second was done by Eugene Kanin (often called the Kanin
Report). Short version: of the cases he included (all the cases
from one mid-sized city - full disclosure) he found that in just
over **40%** of the cases the woman admitted to
have falsely accused. No other criteria was allowed except her
confession as to make the case a "false
allegation".
Some could say: "but, maybe some confessed falsely"
to which I would reply: "yes, and many probably didn't confess
to lying".
The problem is one of a complete lack of deterrent to false
allegations.
Hope I added to the discussioin.
MacKinnon asserted, "A kind of war is being fought, but there is
no name for this war in which men are the aggressors and women the
victims."
Let's see. Arlington national cemetary is filled with hundred's of
thousands of men's bodies.
We live 7 years less. Are the target of violent crimes 80% of the
time. suffer 95% of the job-related deaths. More likely to get
prison time for the same crime & record. Can have our
children,homes & possessions stolen from us on one woman's
say-so. Have one-tenth the funding for our health issues. And have
to die on sinking ships when the life-boats run-out.
If there is a war men have lost it. And Catherine MacKinnon's
battle cry is:"NO MERCY! NO SURRENDER! SLAY ALL!"
Steven - Violence by Proxy sounds like when my aunt (Mom's
sister) threw herself against a few walls and then charged my uncle
with domestic violence.
That accusation was good enough to make sure she got everything in
the divorce settlement - kids, house, both cars, a big chunk of
alimony and child support. I STILL feel bad for the guy. Not as bad
as I do for my cousins, tho. They'd have been better off with the
stable, non-alcoholic, non-delusional parent.
I know I know... It's third-hand and anecdotal. But it was part of
my Mom's advice not to be alone in a room with my now ex-wife while
we were getting divorced. Advice I STILL appreciate her giving me,
tho I can't imagine my ex would have done anything so bizarre.
I'd always thought that in cases of deliberate false accusations (as opposed to honest cases of mistaken identity and such) the penalty should be equivalent to the penalty the accused would have suffered. So if I accuse one of you guys of raping me and this later turns out to be false, I should face the same sentence that YOU would have faced, had my lie remained hidden, and you found guilty.
Jennifer,
I completely agree with you as to appropriate punishment this this
heinous crime, but the rad-fems will fight it probably more rabidly
than on any other front.
IMO, their bread and butter is that "women don't lie", "women that
DO lie do so for a 'reason'" and that this crime (a false
allegation) is "not so bad".
It's a HUGE amount of power in any angry woman's hands. Now, don't
mistake me, most women won't use that power as it is inherently
evil. But, for them to admit that:
1) it happens more often than they admit
2) that the effects are life shattering and life altering
and
3) that the laws need to be reforms (in regards to DV allegations
and rape sheild laws)
If those were to be admitted (never happen by MacKinnon et al) then
their WHOLE IDEOLOGY of "patriarchy", "violence (even violence by
proxy) is a male problem", and their whole sets of INDUSTRIES would
be proven to be frauds.
Last thing they'll admit it.
(sorry the post was disjointed)
I'm sorry I got here so late. This is one rollicking argument.
Or several actually. I agree completely with Jennifer about the
penalty for falsely accusing someone of a crime -- any crime,
obviously.
As someone who used to be an academic and who still works in
academia, people like MacKinnon make me cringe for two reasons:
because her views are so shrilly ludicrous, but also because
they're exactly the sort of thing conservatives are always looking
for to rally support against higher education. If I were just a
little more inclined to conspiracy theories, I'd suggest that she
was an operative of the fundamentalist Christian right, because
she's promoting their cause as effectively as she's promoting her
own brand of academic fundamentalism.
Abused women have brothers, fathers, male cousins, etc..
where the fuck are they?
Often male relatives are the abusers, and if they are not
the current abusers, may have been abusive to the victim in the
past. Not neccessarily a good bet to rely on.
"However, it would actually be nice if the government prosecuted
the war on rape as vigorously as the war on drugs. But, the "man"
is more interested in what you put in your body as opposed to what
someone forces into another's body."
This person is obviously not a male on modern day college campuses.
Talking about persecuted groups. This year I've personally been
obligated to go to multiple obligatory sessions regarding rape and
sexual assault, throughout all I was treated as a potential
criminal.
Jack C. said:
"This person is obviously not a male on modern day college
campuses. Talking about persecuted groups. This year I've
personally been obligated to go to multiple obligatory sessions
regarding rape and sexual assault, throughout all I was treated as
a potential criminal."
I'll be you have. And so have many of the R.A.s, R.D., and campus
administrative staff.
But, riddle me this: how many lectures have you been to,
informational packets have you been handed, or objective statistics
have you gone to (lets alone were mandated) about false
allegations.
I'm just a simple kinda guy, but I'll guess: 0
And, even for an objective academic who really wants to learn this
and *gasp* pass it along you will find it hard going.
That's not academic discourse, that's political indoctrination.
Hi Cathy,
I am a male freshman at Stanford. Thanks for writing this article,
because I highly doubt that anyone is going to criticize MacKinnon
over here (unless I decide to put my neck on the line with a letter
to the editor). I did not attend MacKinnon's first talk mentioned
in the artice, but I attended the one the next day (on her book
"Women's Lives, Men's Laws"). She was of course advertised and
introduced in ecstatic, completely non-critical terms as a
"pre-eminent feminist legal scholar."
One of her main premises was that laws were biased against females
because they were mainly written and interpreted by males and
consequentially reflect the "male experience." She was not specific
on exactly which laws she was talking about, or what time in
history (which allows her to blur the line between women's past
legal inequality and current status).
To be fair, perhaps MacKinnon backs up these claims with real
evidence in her book. But I don't have to be a legal scholar to see
that laws made by males don't necessarily advantage men and
disadvantage women. Just because a law is written and interpreted
by males, it doesn't follow that the law will necessarily benefit
males, unless you believe that all men are conspiring to protect
some kind of male "class interests." Unfortunately, MacKinnon
probably does believe something like that.
In reality, there are plenty of laws enacted by men, or by
feminists with male cooperation, that do disadvantage males.
MacKinnon is completely ignoring the way paternalism and chivalry
can influence male lawmakers to enact laws that discriminate
against males and advantage females.
Some other random things from the notes I took:
- She eulogized a bit for Andrea Dworkin.
- She spoke in glowing terms of VAWA and her hand in making
it.
- She talked about her experience helping female victims of various
stripes, such as Linda Lovelace/Boreman. This allowed her to make a
bunch of unsupported generalizations about the "oppression" and
"exploitation" inherent in pornography.
- She believes that privacy as a doctrine is dangerous for women
(because men supposedly have more power in the private
sphere)
- She also made some convoluted PC statement about how "male
dominance is what is damaging gay men," and that "homophobia is a
form of male dominance." That seems like a very simplistic view of
homophobia, because it implies that homophobia always comes from
male dominance. Yet homophobia also comes from other sources, such
as some types of Biblical interpretation (but maybe the Bible is
"male dominance" also).
- Throughout her speaking, she referred to "men" and "women" as
collective entities, which is not surprising consider that it is a
staple of radical feminist rhetoric. I wonder if she has ever heard
of category errors and fallacies of composition.
During the question and answer period, only ONE person gave her
anything remotely resembling a challenge (I would have, but I
didn't raise my hand until time had nearly run out because I was a
bit intimidated being the only freshman in a room full of law
students). He asked her about false accusations of rape and what
their punishment should be. MacKinnon said that they should not be
punished harshly because it would deter future victims from coming
forward, and that she was skeptical of situations where women
recanted accusations of rape. She didn't really address false
accusations as a problem, of course.
Anyway, if you have any questions about the environment at Stanford
either now or in the future, feel free to let me know.
Cathy Young should know about the ideological spin Radical
Feminists in general, and MacKinnon in particular, have given
male-female relations in this country, since she co-authored a
pioneering paper on Feminist Legal Theory in 1996 for the Cato
Institute.
MacKinnon's attempt to fuse heterosexual relations with a narrative
template featuring a marxist-derived "conflict-theory" is a
deliberate strategy. By doing so, she has managed the rhetorical
feat of applying the ideological model of law as the Hobbesian
dominance of the power over the powerless to gender
relations.
However inadequate this model may be to actual relations between
men and women, as Cathy has noted in posts above, this model is
very much accepted in academe, particularly in those disciplines
that are heavily marxoid: literary studies, history, and sociology.
I spent a quarter of a century is a middle-size private university
with academic feminists, and they are people who live lives of
anger every day of their existence.
MacKinnon means literally what she says: she believes that males
are at war with women, and that belief justifies her using the law
as a weapon (something that marxist Critical Legal Theory calls
for) in a marxoid class war between (capitalist) oppressors and
(proletariat) oppressed. This assimilation of gender relations to
marxist economic relations was already outined by Engels in his
notorious essay on male-female relationships.
If anyone on this list wants to do something practical, go after
the Office of Civil Rights of the Department of Education for its
retaining the Norma Cantu-generated "Sexual Harassment Guidance of
1997," which attempts to implement precisely MacKinnon's war
strategy. It treats males as the enemy, and violates due process by
calling repeatedly for "instant correction on the occasion of
complaint," a "correction" which of course implies guilt upon
accusation. This document is the law of the land re: sexual
harassment in schools in this country.
This document is available on the DOE's website. The gender war may
be "absurd" and "crazy" but it's real. Every day I entered a
classroom I knew there were women students in my class who had
taken the Women's studies courses that egged them on to be hostile
to male professors, and on any given day of the week I knew that I
could be accused of creating
hostile environment sexual harassment for anything that I said at
all. The university would have had to respond because the 1997
Guidance evokes Title IX which means that school officials who do
not make a "correction" when a male is accused are subject to
having their federal funding cut off.
Thanks for the comments, all.
I'm not sure what to make of the very high rates of false
accusations of rape reported by Kanin and in the other study
mentioned here. All these studies relied on the use of polygraphs,
and I do know of cases in which women failed polygraphs tests and
retracted their claims of rape only to have these claims vindicated
later. I think better studies are needed on the subject.
Of course another problem these days is not so much lies as claims
of rape based on an absurdly broad definition of the crime. An
attorney I interviewed a few years ago told me about an incident in
which a Barnard College student went to the police to file a
complaint of sexual assault or rape. Her story was that she met a
guy at a party, took him back to her apartment, and told him at the
start of the evening that she didn't want to have sex. Later on
they started to make out, and one thing led to another -- the girl
admitted that she never rejected the guy's advances prior to the
actual sex, but apparently her training in various date-rape
workshops led her to believe that for him to even try to initiate
sex after she said "no" earlier was rape. Seriously. Luckily the
police still had enough sense to tell her that there was nothing
there to substantiate a rape charge, but with proper MacDworkinite
training, who knows?
Anyway, it's been a pleasure talking to you all. I notice that Joe
hasn't been back...
CY,
I'm not sure what to make of the polygraph invalidation followed by
vindication of the complaint. I guess once again that you're right
(not a big shock, really...) the only thing for it is further
studies.
Once again, I'm TOTALLY unsurprised that joe has headed to greener
pastures.
Cathy,
I think I may have caused you confusion as to what I said, and if I
was not clear I apologize.
You said:(referring to my posts about the Kanin Report and the USAF
studies)
"I'm not sure what to make of the very high rates of false
accusations of rape reported by Kanin and in the other study
mentioned here. All these studies relied on the use of polygraphs,
and I do know of cases in which women failed polygraphs tests and
retracted their claims of rape only to have these claims vindicated
later. I think better studies are needed on the
subject."
The USAF study had the women recanting before
(just prior to) taking a polygraph. They admitted it, it was not
the interpretation of the investigators nor the results of the
polygraph that was the determining factor.
In the Kanin Report as far as I know, polygraphs were not used as a
determining factor. The polygraph may have been done in individual
cases though, I honestly don't know.
In the Kanin Report the criteria for false allegations was the
admission of the accuser as the
only criteria to put the case in the "false
report" catagory.
If I explained it wrong and caused confusion I apologize.
In both cases the accusers recantation was the ONLY criteria
allowed to put the case in the "false accusation" catagory.
I'd have to recheck the USAF one (pretty sure) but I KNOW in the
Kanin Report that was the case.
Hope that cleared it up.
Steven, I assume that by the Kanin Report, you mean this
article: False Rape
Allegations, published in Archives of Sexual Behavior
in 1994. I've never heard it cited as "the Kanin Report"
before.
Anyway, in the study, the police in the town where all these cases
occurred had a policy of administering polygaph tests to all sexual
assault complainants. Those who failed the test usually recanted,
and some recanted before the test was to be administered.
I'm sure it's possible that some of those were "real rapes."
Also it's important to note that not all of these false allegations
targeted a specific individual who was accused. Some of them were
false claims of stranger rape with a vague description of the
"rapist." However, it's also worth noting that a real person who
happens to match that vague description could end up being arrested
and charged.
My knowledge of the USAF study is rather sketchy. Another report
I'm familiar with is a 1992 investigation by The Washington
Post which found that in 1990-91, about 1 in 4 rape charges
filed in seven counties in Virginia and Maryland were judged
"unfounded." When the Post contacted the complainants, most of them
apparently admitted they lied.
A summary of that report can be found
here.
Cathy,
I tried to open your link and got gibberish (dunno why) but, and
granted this IS from memory, the only ones counted (regardless of
polygraph) were the ones who admitted lying (recanted).
Has my memory failed me?
As to the USAF one, I do remember that it was mentioned that many
recantations were done just prior or just after a polygraph.
I've heard people call the Kanin Study (by Eugene Kanin) as the
Kanin Report. Maybe it was an after-thought term coined.
Again, dunno.
Steven
Under the definitions of heterosexual intercourse and rape
promulgated by "Dominance Feminists" (label current in law journal
articles by Feminist Legal eagles) the first is always the second.
This is always a semantic shell game, and that should be remembered
in any debate on "false charges" of rape in which these people
participate. As MacKinnon has held since her 1979 book on sexual
harassment in the workplace, where she first announced to the world
her position that, since no free consent is possible for the
oppressed (i.e., women), therefore no free consent to heterosexual
intercourse is possible either, therefore all intercourse is rape,
etc.
If all intercourse is rape, then "by definition" (tautologically)
any instance of intercourse is rape, therefore if a woman says
afterwards that she was "raped" then she was raped. There are no
"false charges of rape" to talk about.
Same sort of Alice-In-Wonderland logic for hostile environment
sexual harassment--this time after Davis v. Monroe, supported by
SCOTUS decision: if the woman says she was made to feel sexually
harassed, then (tautologically) she was harassed. Of course,
logically, a charge that cannot be falsified--as in this sort of
case--cannot be proved.
Also: pornography causes rape--the hobbyhorse of the late, great
Big D: and again, no brainer. If pornography causes a man to be
sexually aroused, and to desire to have sexual intercourse with a
woman in that state (since intercourse is rape), then "pornography
causes rape."
Dominance Feminism and Feminist Legal Theory are melodramas
waiting--the feminists can't do this because they have no sense of
humor--to be replayed as farce.
Wasn't it MacKinnon who got the current S.H. (Sexual Harassment)
laws changed from "reasonable person" to "reasonable woman"
standard (objective vs. subjective)?
That's what makes those laws such a power tool for anyone with an
axe to grind, for the mentally unbalanced, or a person with
self-justification issues.
To: Steven
The exact process for that transformation was as I recall a
particular decision in a federal court. The fact is that there's a
small host--as the numbers of law professors go in this country's
law schools--of Feminist Legal Types, both female and male, and the
law journals have been in a "print" ferment on that score for a/b
the last 25 years.
The thing that makes SH laws powerful is that they are administered
by regulatory agencies such as Labor (EEOC) and Education (Office
of Civil Rights), both of which have been in the hands of lawyers
with ideological axes to grind. The 1997 SH Guidelines--still in
force though it will be interesting to see what Spellings will
do--are a collection of different DomFem/RadFem ideological
positions already articulated by the middle 1990s in the law
journal literature. The federal funding threat, put in place by
congress when Title IX was passed in 1972, has been argued to be
misused by OCR (Independent Women's Forum Brief in Davis v. Monroe,
Supreme Court 1999). And it is a fact that withdrawal of funds has
never happened in a Title IX-generated case. But universities have
lawyers, and these lawyers value their jobs, and they tell the
university administrators that when the Feds say jump, they should
jump.
As MacKinnon has held since her 1979 book on sexual
harassment in the workplace, where she first announced to the world
her position that, since no free consent is possible for the
oppressed (i.e., women), therefore no free consent to heterosexual
intercourse is possible either, therefore all intercourse is rape,
etc.
So it was MacKinnon who said: "all sexual intercourse is rape"?
There seems to be a denial of this statement, although frankly the
exact quotes lead to very similar conclusions.
When MacKinnon says that an oppressor and the oppressed cannot
have consensual sexual intercourse ... she only means men and women
... right?
Does that mean a white woman is raping a black man, or (holy
anti-PC Batman) a white lesbian is raping a black lesbian?
Her arguments are ONLY applied to gender because any other logical
deliniation shows them to be nothing more than hate filled
rhetoric.
Don:
MacKinnon has denied ever saying that "intercourse is rape," and
that denial is literally true, as far as I know. I know of one case
where she threatened a female writer who attributed that statement
to her with legal action. MacKinnon's writing is notable for being
consistently cagy about stating specific radical viewpoints. You
have to do a form of discourse analysis to figure out what she's
actually saying. This is why I put my attribution of this position
to MacKinnon in terms of the consent argument, which is one of the
circumlocutory means she uses to make the point. She makes the
point inevitable if you follow her argument, but then insists that
this argument is not to be followed when caught at it. She's a
lawyer.
hey i liked you stance on the issue at hand. i thought you were incredibly intense and truthful...you should write more you have a knack for it
Wow. All this talk. I don't know if anyone would care to see this research article, published in 2000. It is a meta-analysis of domestic violence studies and found that 38% of those *injured* in DV incidents were men. The article is titled Sex differences in aggression between heterosexual partners: a meta-analytic review. Other research finds that men initiate violence just as often as women. You read that correctly. I turned the genders around because both women and men perpetrate DV at the same rates. Some studies find even higher incidences of violence among women.
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