Jacob Sullum | March 6, 2009
Observers are
predicting that the California Supreme Court will uphold
Proposition 8, the 2008 ballot initiative that amended the state
constitution to ban gay marriage, by a
5-to-23 vote. At the same time, the court
seems likely to rule that same-sex marriages performed before the
initiative remain valid. The court, which in a 4-to-3 decision
last year ruled that an earlier gay marriage ban was
unconstitutional, heard oral arguments in the case yesterday.
Although I think the government should treat gay and straight
couples equally, the predicted decision seems legally correct to
me. The issue before the court is whether Proposition 8 merely
amends the constitution, which can be done by a popular vote, or
fundamentally revises it, which requires either a two-thirds vote
of the legislature or a constitutional convention.
Last week I discussed a proposed compromise on gay marriage involving federal recognition of civil unions. The week before, I noted that Utah's governor had come out in favor of civil unions for gay couples. In December I urged both sides in this debate to recognize the distinction between public and private discrimination. Other Reason coverage of gay marriage here.
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"At the same time, the court seems likely to rule that same-sex
marriages performed before the initiative remain valid."
Grandqueered in?
Juanita | June 30, 2008, 3:28pm | #
Fireworks are dangerous, that is why they are illegal. They are
unsafe for children to play with. America is a free country and
that includes the freedom not to be harmed ban dangerous illegal
fireworks. The purveyors of illegal fireworks and those that
possess them need to be rounded up by the police for some good 'ole
fashioned SEVERE PUNISHMENT.
J
Marriage is has become a legal trap. There should be no reason
anyone of any gender combination should get special
rights/privileges for coupling up. If there weren't bogus economic
and social incentives given to married people would anyone care
that gays couldn't marry?
The whole thing is bullshit.
"The issue before the court is whether Proposition 8 merely
amends the constitution, which can be done by a popular vote, or
fundamentally revises it, which requires either a two-thirds vote
of the legislature or a constitutional convention."
And just what is the distinction between a "mere amendment" and a
"fundamental revision"?
I don't know anything about the specific language of the California
constitution but I doubt that anyone could seriously claim that a
gay marriage ban enacted any fundamental change
in of rights of individuals and power of government written into
the pre-existing language as that language was understood by those
who originally ratified the document.
The main problem here is the ease with which Californians can
amend their constitution. There have been rumblings of a
constitutional convention in that state. I think it's long
overdue.
I support gay marriage rights but I almost think tactically a
ruling in favor of Prop 8 here is better in the long run. God knows
the whining and moaning and shouts to hang the judges we'd all be
subjected to if they rule the other way.
kilroy, even if no one admits it, gay marriage is at its root about normality. Recognition of gay marriage is legal-and by implication societywide-acceptance of the existence of GLB people. The financial advantages are very much secondary.
The arguments presented by Ken Starr (who argued in favor of
Prop 8) were rather "interesting" :
The people "have the raw power to define rights," he told the court while arguing in favor of invalidating over 18,000 marriages.
"The right of the people is inalienable to change their constitution through the amendment process," said Starr. "The people are sovereign and they can do very unwise things, and things that tug at the equality principle."
Chief Justice Ronald George posed a hypothetical: what if the majority demanded the right to free speech be revoked?
"After much banter back and forth, Starr says they do," reported Advocate.com. The Los Angeles Times reported similarly on Starr's alarming response.
"So, what Starr is saying is that if the people had stripped all civil rights from gays and lesbians, he would argue to uphold that," opined the blog GayWired.
I think clearly the expected decision in California is the right
one, you can't simply overturn something like prop 8 without it
causing a massive backlash. Give it a few years and try to amend
the constitution again, ideally when a black candidate is not
running for national office and attracting huge numbers of
disproportionately anti-gay black voters to the polls.
With that said, from a libertarian perspective I still fail to see
why making a distinction between a civil union and a marriage is
necessary unless you believe the government should have the right
to single out and stigmatize a group of people by using a term
solely created to deny them the institution of marriage. I say we
don't have a paralllel system of terminology, pick civil union or
marriage and call all legally recognized relationships between two
unrelated people one or the other.
It's a bit premature to use a headline like "Gay Marriages in
California Are Safe, Gay Marriage Not So Much" for an article which
begins "[o]bservers are predicting..."
Remember "Dewey Defeats Truman?" Heh.
Thanks, whoever, for the Juanita Classics. Once again proving Poe's
law.
Although I think the government should treat gay and
straight couples equally, the predicted decision seems legally
correct to me.
Me, too.
And just what is the distinction between a "mere amendment" and
a "fundamental revision"?
From the SCOC's perspective, any change that a majority of its
members oppose is a fundamental revision, but any change that a
majority supports is a mere amendment.
YMMV.
"From the SCOC's perspective, any change that a majority of its
members oppose is a fundamental revision, but any change that a
majority supports is a mere amendment."
Heh, yeah - in the same vein they use in cases challenging the
Constitutionality of some law passed by the legislature: If the
judges happens to like the law, it's "Constitutional" and if not,
then it isn't.
So first things first: did Winkler get in before the
cutoff?
Chicks are always the worst hazers.
Stay strong, Fonz! As strong as your weak, womanly body can be!
"The people "have the raw power to define rights," he told the
court while arguing in favor of invalidating over 18,000
marriages."
Technically speaking, getting a goverment issued marriage license
isn't a "right" in the first place any more than getting a
government issued driver's licence is.
Nemo, I disagree. If marriage and family favouritism wasn't built into our socio-economic system I doubt they would really care that much.
Gilbert Martin - Indeed, the more interesting question is whether the government has the right to give a particular benefit to SOME people but not others based purely on an immutable trait such as gender. Even if you reject the notion of rights being given to marriage at all you can't ignore that those rights do exist and are given to only some people based purely on an arbitrary distinction.
Not to worry, it won't be long before we have 18,000 gay divorces to bring things back to where they should have been anyway.
Dreamer, I don't much care about the gay marriange issue itself
much one way or another.
The world won't come to an end - if gay marriage is sanctioned by
government - or if it's not.
What I do care about is judicial activism subverting the rule of
law - at the state or federal level.
And that means upholding the federal and state Constitutions
according to the actual text of what was ratified as per the common
understanding of what those words meant by those who ratified it at
the time they ratified it.
No one could argue with a straight face that, on that basis, there
is anything in either the federal or California Constitutons that
ennumerates a "right" to gay marriage.
When women were given the vote, it was done the hard way (and the
right way) via the Constitutional amendment process. Since that
time, factions that want to force major social changes on society
don't want to do the hard work of going through the legislative
process and convincing enough of the population to support it.
Instead they want to make stuff up and claim it's in the
Constitution as a means to cram it down on a society that they know
couldn't get to voluntarily approve of it without them doing a lot
more convincing work and taking a lot more time.
That isn't the rule of law.
I completely agree with you about doing it the "hard" way, note
my post above supporting the probable ruling of the California
Supreme Court. I think on the merits gay marriage could win in the
courts, but I think doing it that way is contrary to the give and
take and process of Democracy. However, as a separate argument,
it's ALSO true that as much as doing it through the legislative
process is my preferred method and will lead to a more lasting
acceptance of it's adoption, I think that some of the current laws
arbitrary distinctions are on their face discriminatory. I favor
democratic debate and discussion as to the need for the arbitrary
distinctions, I favor discussions as to the purpose of creating a
brand new never before needed institution such as civil unions
rather than just opening civil marriage to same sex couples.
So, I'm not arguing for the Court to intervene, I'm arguing that
society needs to take a long hard look at what decisions we're
making and whether they're ultimately the right way to go. Those
discussions could take place in a court room, they certainly have
before and I have little doubt they will again, but I think
bringing them up outside of the courtroom shouldn't suggest I'm
supporting using judicial fiat to impose my views on a
populace.
by a 5-to-3 vote
Uh Jacob there are only seven justices on the CA SC, where did the
extra vote come from?
I think there's two issues
1 - How to enact such change
2 - The case for Gay Marriage itself
First. IMHO this is not an issue for the courts. This is an issue
for the American people to decide on. The people of this country
retain teh soverign right to have their representatives enact into
law via the State Govts the policies that they so choose.
No one is excluded from marrying a member of the opposite
sex.
The reason the State gives recongnition to Marriage is because it
is the traditional insitution by which human beings create children
and raise them. This is something non-hetereosexual relationships
cannot do normally.
Marriage is thousands of years old and never in no society have
there been homosexual marriage. Marriage is not for us to redefine,
marriage is what it is.
It is simply too-bad that insecure Leftists cannot get society to
give them all a hug. Civil Unions are entirely appropiate and they
should be grateful that enough people support them.
The Courts in this country are absolutely abusing their authority
when they create Homosexual Marriage law.
Courts are to follow the law or render specific acts invalid. But
they cannot create new law.
Well, they shouldn't anyway.
As for the merits of gay marriage itself. I'm gay and I oppose gay
marriage. I dont think the life-long monogamous relationship model
is one that works with gay people.
You see, one of the things that marriage does is create a social
expectation that married men won't go sleeping around on their
wives, impreganating multiple women and create babies everywhere.
This destroys every family this man involves himself.. all the
wives, mistresses , and their children. Thus the man has to
restrained and have to go so far as to obligate him to make an oath
to God that he won't do that.
What is the consequence if a gay guy cheats on his whatever...
nothing other than perhaps STD. Other than disease, sex has no
consequence for gay guys.
You dont need State recognition of marriage in order to have a
monogamous gay releationship so those up for that challenege could
have always lived this way.
The vast number of gay relationships that i know that span more
than a decade almost all involve non-monogamy.
If disease-control is being cited as a motivation FOR gay marriage,
I will disagree. I believe it's nearly impossible for gay guy to
never cheat on his bf. Sure many are able to remain faithful but
just as many if not more are not able.
Gay men look to the man-woman relationship model and say "Hmm. if
he sleeps around on me that means he doesnt want me"
But that's not neccesarily true because homo-sex has far far far
fewer risks of destroying relationships / creating children then
straight-sex.
So the calculation to cheat is different.
But if one is under the strict rules of Marriage, cheating means
the end of the relationship.. this forces people to lie. Instead of
being honest with one another about the temptations to sleep
around, this unrealistic Marriage model forces them to lie about
it. And with lies come wrong assumptions and those wrong
assumptions can lead to disease.
======
Plus there's one other thing. This is obscure. But I believe the
major national security issue facing Northern countries will be
population decline by mid-century. We should be doing all we can to
ensure a positive population growth and that this is achieved
through nuclear families.
This is going to mean that people in that status will be favored in
law. I think you'll see the eventual reimposition of ilegality over
all abortion. Perhaps even birth control restrictions.
What happens in Europe in the coming decades will be key and will
serve as a warning for us in America.
I support gay marriage rights but I almost think tactically a ruling in favor of Prop 8 here is better in the long run. God knows the whining and moaning and shouts to hang the judges we'd all be subjected to if they rule the other way.
Fortunately, the case law is against the petitioners.
In every discussion I have read on this issue, not one person cited
case law favoring the hypothesis that Prop. 8 is a revision.
VinceP1974 -
The reason the State gives recongnition to Marriage is because it
is the traditional insitution by which human beings create children
and raise them. This is something non-hetereosexual
relationships cannot do normally.
While I actually agree with your first point, that the issue is not
best served in the courts, this is where you start to put up straw
men and make flat out incorrect assertions. It's true that gay
couples cannot procreate, but considering that gay couples in
almost every state have the right to adopt children does society
not have some responsibility to give gay couples, whom they allow
to raise children the same tools they're willing to give every
other couple? What is the point of protecting heterosexual couples
because they can reproduce, (whether or not they actually choose to
do so) but refusing the same protection for gay couples that
actually ARE raising children?
As for the case for gay marriage, it is the same as for
heterosexual marriage: The protection of children, because
according to the 2000 census approximately 1 million children are
being raised by gay couples. It's a straw man that gay couples are
not capable of monogamy and are not inclined to raise children.
Does CA have an equal rights amendment? If so would amending the Constitution to allow something that violates the equal rights amendment be a revision?
From WHY I SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGE
(AN EX-PARAMEDIC'S VIEW) (url link above):
Once upon a time in the 1980s, I was privileged to cross over into
that other "world" often enough to see that good marriages, capable
of surviving the ultimate test of the slow and painful death of one
partner, can and do exist among gays.
(So why not let the law recognize their bond? Are there, like, not
enough marriage licenses to go around?)
\
If so would amending the Constitution to allow something that violates the equal rights amendment be a revision?
No, it would be an amendment.
whoa now just wait a minuet. Did vince really say that
homosexuality is a national security issue because they aren't
creating more people to counter the menace of teh peops what be
hatin on us??
OH MY FUCKING GOD! I've been married to a woman for 22 years but
that ,my friend, is the dumbest shit I have ever heard.
brotherben - Yeah, that was just so far out there I thought I'd let that particular insanity speak for itself. Perhaps he should read the reason article from the August/September 2006 issue, Fear of a Brown Planet, that kind of scare mongering should really be beneath most people (aside from the fact it's blatantly racist)
If there weren't bogus economic and social incentives given
to married people would anyone care that gays couldn't
marry?
Gays already can marry, in every state and city in the union. It's
the government recognition, or lack thereof, that's causing all the
bitter feeling.
And, yes, from hanging around Mormons for several years, and
listening to the often rancorous debate here in Hawaii over the
legislation to enact civil unions, I can assure you that millions
of people in this country care deeply about who can get married,
whether or not the government is involved.
I feel really guilty now. We decided to stop having kiddies
after we had 2. Economic reasons mainly. Now I find out that I am
helping the brown menace because I didn't knock up the wife 15 or
20 times. Doom on me.
not to mention that by vince's figuring, me bein on the down low
would be just fine.
The court, which in a 4-to-3 decision last year ruled that
an earlier gay marriage ban was unconstitutional, heard oral
arguments in the case yesterday
Let me know when they get to the anal arguments. That's what really
matters to Christian Defenders of All-Holy and Mighty
Matrimony.
>brotherben: whoa now just wait a minuet. Did vince really
say that homosexuality is a national security issue because they
aren't creating more people to counter the menace of teh peops what
be hatin on us??
No. I called population growth rates to be a national security
issue.
Do you disagree? There's no need for you to jump into hysterical
hyperbole land.
Folks like you are why vitally important topics in this country
cannot be talked about...
I'm not adhering to your politically correct "don't come close to
offending me" bullshit.
If you're not aware of the demographic catastrophe facing the West,
then you should apply your snark to yourself for your
ignorance.
Vince, maybe we should let more people immigrate (legally) into this country then if we're facing such a demographic catastrophe.
I think the State encouraging nuclear families and protecting
Marriage as it is now, is important for the long-term stability of
the nation.
This doesn't mean I'm anti-that , but that I recognize that there
is some profound nature to the current arrangement, that to disturb
it any more than it already is, will have negative
consequences.
The below interview touches on a number of ways that the population
losing its religion results in degradation and increasing risk of
Islamic domination.
I'm certainly not advocating any change in the American principle
of not mixing church and state, but I do believe there are some
areas, such as marriage, where a pragmatic recognition has to be
made.
I know this is a Libertarian site and most folks are Anti-Religion.
I respect that.. everyone's viewpoint is their prerogative and as
Americans we hold our views with pride.
But just think ... I dont think there has been any major long-term
civilization that was secular and free of religion. Do we have any
objective knowledge as to what a lack of religion in a society will
bring to a society that was once religious?
The only examples I can think of are Communist states,and they
don't seem like good example to follow.
This is an excerpt from the interview
http://www.abc.net.au/rn/talks/8.30/relrpt/stories/s1603430.htm
Stephen Crittenden: Finally Niall, I want to turn to the issue of
the decline of Christian religious faith in the West. You make the
point that it's not just a question of the decline of population,
there's also this decline of religious faith. And at one point you
write, 'Why have Britons lost their historic faith? To be frank, I
have no idea, but I do know it matters'.
Niall Ferguson: Yes, it's one of the least studies and most
important questions for modern historians, why organised
Christianity, both in terms of observance and in terms of faith,
sail off a cliff in Europe sometime in the 1970s, 1980s. And the
explanations that have been offered for this phenomenon so far are
relatively weak and unconvincing. What's clear is it's got nothing
to do with economic development because it hasn't happened in the
United States, where Christianity is alive and well in what is a
modern, secular society in so many ways. So we have a real puzzle
here: why is Christianity dying out in its traditional core
heartland, what used to be called Christendom, why are Europeans
becoming godless? And it's such an important question because it
makes Europe quite vulnerable (I hesitate to use your term
'decadent') but it makes it vulnerable to penetration by -
Stephen Crittenden: I thought it was your term?
Niall Ferguson: I mean to me this is one of the reasons why it's
quite easy for radical Islamists to make inroads in Western Europe
because there isn't in a sense, any religious resistance there. In
a secular society where nobody believes in anything terribly much
except the next shopping spree, it's really quite easy to recruit
people to radical, monotheistic positions. It's just that the
monotheism that's making the running at the moment is Islam, rather
than Christianity.
Stephen Crittenden: Some people would argue that all of this
de-Christianisation in Europe has created a moral vacuum. I wonder
however, whether the majority of people in the population aren't
basically pretty conservative, and whether those Christian values
have seeped into the DNA of the culture and that on the whole those
values have - we hear lots of alarm bells and alarmist talk - but
basically those values are still reasonably intact.
Niall Ferguson: Well of course it's hard to measure that kind of
thing. Clearly religious values cannot become part of the human
DNA, that is a metaphor but it doesn't have any biological reality.
What one does see in urban Europe, and it's really quite striking,
is a level of low intensity criminality that wasn't there before.
Social order is not in great shape in the typical West European
city, and it's really quite a striking contrast, when you go to oh,
I don't know, San Antonio, Texas.
Stephen Crittenden: And as an economic historian, is your sense
that the reasons for that are not economic? That they really are,
if you like, civilisational?
Niall Ferguson: I think there's no question there's a connection
between religion and economic and social behaviour. Max Weber was
not the first person to make an argument about the relationship
between Protestant ethic and the spirit of capitalism. I think more
recent work, for example Robert Barrow, my colleague here at
Harvard, has done some very interesting work on the relationship
between religious belief, religious observance and social order and
economic behaviour, and it's actually quite striking, there do seem
to be some important correlations here. I myself, although I was
not brought up in a religious household, and I suppose if I were
pressed, would have to admit to being a kind of incurable atheist,
I'm nevertheless strongly convinced that religion performs
important social functions in the transmission say, of ethical
values between generations, and that a society that does away with
it, that ceases to engage in any kind of formal religious
instruction, is a society that's likely to be less good at
maintaining social order than one which maintains a measure of
religious faith and observance. And that is based purely on
historical observation. The experiments with atheism as the basis
for political order, say in the Soviet Union after the Bolshevik
Revolution, did not produce happy results. So I think one really
does away with Christianity, or indeed one does away with God at
one's peril. Human beings do seem to behave better when they have
some sense of moral authority in the world, and indeed some kind of
formal system for inculcating good ethical behaviour.
>Vince, maybe we should let more people immigrate (legally)
into this country then if we're facing such a demographic
catastrophe.
I'm not so sure a massive immigration policy is a good idea. It
will change the culture of the country at a time when we're in
danger of losing our Constitutional principles. Our American
concept of Rights. Individualism. Limited Govt, etc.
I dont think there has been any major long-term civilization
that was secular and free of religion
Give it some time, Vince. Humans have been around for 100,000 years
or so, and not until 6000-10,000 years ago did they have the means
and wherewithal to start creating civilizations. Freedom
from religion is the single most important achievement of
civilized man.
'Give it a few years and try to amend the constitution again,
ideally when a black candidate is not running for national office
and attracting huge numbers of disproportionately anti-gay black
voters to the polls.'
Or find a way around that annoying Fifteenth Amendment, so that
those ignorant colored voters won't be cluttering up the voting
with their superstitious prejudices.
Vince,
Excellent point about the demographic crisis and the decline of
Christianity in its traditional heartland. And immigration is not
necessarily a cure for the crisis (while it might be helpful to
have people in this country who are Americans by choice). Where I
may not agree with your emphasis is in the following quote:
'Other than disease, sex has no consequence for gay guys.'
That sounds kind of like, 'other than that, Mrs. Lincoln, how did
you like the play?'
Vince, hysterical hyperbole is what i do best, I guess.
I don't disagree with with the idea that a Godless society is
destined to failure. However, I believe that if the miilions of
people in the U.S. that claim to be christians actually lived as
such, the country wouldn't be spiraling downward. You can legislate
some moral actions, but you can't legislate morality. Repentance
and Faith in Jesus as Saviour is what people need, not more
laws.
If the christians of this nation want change to occur, it has to
start with them. The eternal soul of every person on earth is at
stake. Instead of fighting for laws to keep people from same sex
marriage, or abortion, or buying beer on Sunday, maybe spend the
energy and time in prayer and fasting. Seek God with all your
heart, soul, mind, and strength. Love your neighbor as
yourself.
The country has fallen farther into spiritual disrepair because
christians are more worried about how a person lives their life
than how they will spend there eternity.
If christians in america were 10% as diligent in their faith as
muslims in the middle east are, america would be a very different
place.
brotherben,
Fair enough so far as it goes, except as follows: If those of us in
America's Christian majority actually had a spiritual renewal among
America's Christian majority, then indeed we would be doing a
better job at loving our neighbors as ourselves, including our
unborn neighbors. Loving our neighbor doesn't mean standing by with
arms folded as our neighbors are brutally murdered, while issuing
pieties about how, while we're of course 'personally opposed' to
murder, we would not presume to interfere with the activities of
the murderers.
Abortion is the most morally urgent issue which where a spiritual
renewal would have public-policy implications. There are other
issues, though. On the issue of marriage, a spiritual renewal would
make it much less likely that the government would dare to rewrite
the definition of marriage with laws about unilateral divorce on
demand and gay marriage.
Max, agreed. Spiritual renewal, imo, won't come from the government. For example: slavery was outlawed in the seceeded south well over a hundred years ago but the hatred of blacks is still around. I am not advocating for slavery. I am saying that very little was done spiritually to get whites to see the sinfulness of that hate. Changing the sinner changes behaviour, not the other way around.
As a christian, a person also excercises personal responsibility. They give charitably. They are lawful. They in fact require less governance. The government has less burden to help the poor due to increased charity from christians. Less burden for law enforcement. Less burden for drug enforcement. Lower health care costs. etc. Christianity, imo, fits very well with libertarian thought.
Not to intervene in Bible class, entertaining as it is, but the continent was much improved when the Europeans started moving in. Immigration isn't always a bad thing. Where would we be if the Italians and Jews and Germans and Mexicans hadn't brought all their delicious food with them? I'll tell you where: eating greasy, overcooked, bloody English crap, that's where.
Give it a few years and try to amend the constitution again, ideally when a black candidate is not running for national office and attracting huge numbers of disproportionately anti-gay black voters to the polls.
And they say black voters aren't taken for granted by liberals.
They're expected to vote for whatever candidate the Dems put up for
election, but when it comes to the issues the white elite Dems
disagree with them on, they're expected to stay home and keep their
mouths shut.
As bad as the treatment pro-lifers get from the GOP is, it appears
that blacks are even more disrespected by the party most of them
support.
Or find a way around that annoying Fifteenth Amendment, so
that those ignorant colored voters won't be cluttering up the
voting with their superstitious prejudices.
Imagine the gnashing of teeth on the left if some enterprising soul
puts an abortion ban on the ballot when Obama runs again in 2012,
and those "disproportionately pro-life" blacks dare to vote for
something that hasn't been approved by the Dem elites.
Rabscuttle, are you saying that prop 8 was timed to coincide with a black candidate for potus, with the assumption that there would be a historically high nunmber a black voters? With foreknowledge that those voters would vote anti-gay? Or that it simply turned out to be bad timing, and the liberal dems are disappointed?
The second one, brother, since the machinery to get it on the ballot was already in motion long before Obama was the nominee. But since it's already virtually certain that he'll be running in 2012, perhaps the pro-life forces can use that fact to our advantage. It would run counter to the usual pro-life strategy of fighting against each other at worst, and at best just screaming loudly in the hopes that someone will listen, but maybe we should try working smarter not harder for once.
That would make for a very interesting election. And a major fecal storm in the courts, if passed.
let's just stick dickhead2 and vince on the same starship and
send them to omega 7. mel gibson wanna be is the pilot.
i guess the lengthening pump didn't work for you, there, bud,
huh?
twaddlenock.
If doing God's will makes me a dickhead, let me be e^dickhead, or even better dickhead^dickhead with dickhead >> 1.
I thought the Mouth of Sauron/gorilla poacher in Ace Ventura 2 was the pilot in Mad Max, anyway.
If doing God's will makes me a dickhead, let me be a
dickhead
You stole that from Martin Luther, didn't you.
You misquoted me -- and I don't steal anything from a guy who split Christendom in two just so he could have his vows revoked so he could get his rocks off with a comely nun.
brotherben, I have a history with VM from the days when both of us went by different names.
Like I said earlier. i'm gay. I make no claims to being a model
Christian.. but I realize that a society needs to uphold some value
system.. even if its hypocritical.
I'm with Camile Paglia in that idea... maintaining that there is
ideal public morality even if one does not fully abide by it.
I haven't studied this at all. but I presume this is how society
was in the past. People are people , so I dont think their
behavior-when-no-one-looking has changed radically... but giving up
the values wholesale and not passing them to the youth... well
maybe you can get by with two generations like that, but as the
people with the values die off... then the newer generations will
encounter them even less in addition to not being taught them.. and
in three generations you are completely cut off from your
traditions. And when I say values i'm not restricting them to
morality , sex, etc.. even national civic values. Like adherance
and respect of the Consitituion, the Flag, the Founders, the
principles of America.
When I watch videos on the Internet of speeches on college campus
by conservatives, the student crowd makes me fearful of the future.
The utter indifference to Freedom of Speech, the intolerance of
opposing viewpoints. the stupid way in which they consider someone
a "racist", their herd mentality, their taking offensive on behalf
of other people etc... It's mindnumbing.
So anyway.. the point of this comment and the earlier ones was to
support why I am against gay marriage, and why the issue is a
little more complex than two gay guys getting married, and also
that to be against it doens't mean one is necessarily against gay
people
I been following the Demographic thing for most of the
decade.
This recent trailer for a docu "Demographic Winter" is pretty
good
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IG2IZEzUmA0 The full version of hte
movie was on google video at one time but someone pulled it
down.
They had a Q&A at the Heritage Foundation which was interesting
. that's here
http://www.heritage.org/Press/Events/ev021208a.cfm
- If anyone was interested.
Vince - Again though, you're ignoring the fact that some gay couples are more inclined to start a family than perhaps you are. If society allows gay couples to raise children then there is no reason those children don't deserve every societal support children raised by straight couples receive, and that includes giving their parents the option to be married.
Vince,
I sincerely admire your courage in coming out as a gay cultural
conservative. Talk about risks - talk about exposing oneself to the
attacks of bigoted ignoramuses!
As to the anti-free-speech students you cite, they are certainly
very noisy and disruptive, but that doesn't mean they represent the
majority of students, and they certainly don't represent the cream
of the crop. The main problem is the sympathetic administrators who
sometimes waver in their commitment to punishing these
hooligans.
I've lived too long. Gay marriage...it's for the children!
Please explain how their gay parents having a marriage certificate
from the state is going to help children. I could see saying that a
societal attitude that gay parents are just as good as straight
parents might do so, but a marriage certificate doesn't bring that
about. Indeed gay marriage will undoubtedly bring about a backlash
in some corners if endorsed by the state.
Mad Max, I'm not so sure about that. Teen and early twenties
youth are not so much rebellious as devout in their strict
adherence to an alternate conformity. Right now they see our
society as being dominated by right wingers (rightly or wrongly)
and thus are eager to conform to the leftist zeitgeist.
Of course, it's gone the other way too: look at the happenings at
German universities during the Weimar republic for an account of
what happens when right-wing ideologies become chic.
Rabscuttle - Any number of ways. Say that you live in a state
where individuals are allowed to adopt, but unmarried couples are
not (as is often the case). Then say the adoptive parent dies and
the family assumes custody - what rights does the non-adoptive
parent have if the family doesn't like them? Isn't it in the best
interests of the child to keep him or her with the parent they've
known and loved rather than some relatives that don't like his
parent?
Or, say that the adoptive parent was killed by a drunk driver and
the non-adoptive parent isn't working (not exactly far fetched in
this economy). Raising a kid is expensive in the best of times and
it wouldn't be unusual to sue the drunk driver for loss of
consortium if they were married. Under the current law it's
difficult for many gay couples to even have standing under a
wrongful death lawsuit, much less that.
Aside from that, you're also completely correct that marriage does
tend to give children a greater sense of stability. As Vince
pointed out, it suggests monogamy, love, commitment, it's the
ultimate affirmation that a kid's parents intend to stay together
for life (even though of course a significant number of marriages
fail anyway). If he doesn't want to enter into that it's his
business but why he'd want to potentially close off options for
over one million children raised by gay parents...
"""This doesn't mean I'm anti-that , but that I recognize that
there is some profound nature to the current arrangement, that to
disturb it any more than it already is, will have negative
consequences."""
Wasn't that line of arguement used in favor of slavery, and to not
give blacks, and women a right to vote?
Relax, allowing gays to marry won't have near the negative
consequences as say, tripling the debt.
"""Please explain how their gay parents having a marriage
certificate from the state is going to help children"""
The same could be said about hetrosexual couples. If it's true,
then why marry at all?
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