Jesse Walker | June 18, 2007

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It's sad. I took the dog for a walk in my neighborhood park last Saturday. Beautiful day. The type of day my buddies and I used to ride bikes to the creek to catch crawdads with bacon and string. I didn't see any kids out and I live in about as safe a suburb as you can find. Don't know if I blame Xbox, overprotective parents or a combo of both.
This is the UK so maybe things are different over there, but in the US there are two reasons for this; the rise of tabloid 24 hour news channels and the ubiquity of nanny state CPS laws. Now, I don't know that you could let your kid roam without the neighbors calling the cops on you. Combine that with 24 cable news services running full coverage of every local story of a kid being kidnapped and people are just paranoid. Kids are statistically less likly to be abducted today then they were in years past but the news services make it look like every third kid in the country is getting kidnapped and or mollested.
It was safer to walk 6 miles to go fishing in 1919. Everyone at home was dying of influenza.
Let's be honest here and assume that Great-grandpa George was really walking six miles at age 8 to work all day in a mine or sweatshop.
No.no, Danny boy! That would be Jack the great-great-great-grandfather, aging eight in 1860. In 1919, child labor was a thing of the past in England -- something you would know if you bothered to read some history.
I was talking with my boss a few months ago about how the sorts of things that we did when we ten years old would get him arrested or sued if his kids did the same. Just silly things like walking to dairy mart for candy, unsupervised tackle football games, or going to the bmx/dirtbike "track" some of the older kids built in the woods(still visible here).
Maybe there were were some lessons learned and passed down from great-grandfather to grandfather to mother. Maybe there was some experience unrelated to scary media that caused each generation to be more restrictive with their kids.
And of course, the rise is obesity stems from big sugar's plot to destroy the future.
No one laments the child abduction hysteria more than me, but
comparisons of this kind are of limited utility unless we know
about changes in the population density of the area in question
over the time period being looked at.
100 years ago that 6 mile walk to the fishing hole might have been
all through a bucolic English countryside. The same walk today
might take you through a built-up commercial district.
I did a lot of "roaming" even 25-30 years ago, but the "suburb" I
lived in was rural by today's standards. There were two traffic
lights within 4 or 5 miles of my house, and one of those was a
blinking light in front of the fire station. Today's "suburban"
kids don't live in the same environment I did.
2027: Son Ed's son not allowed to leave his room without Armed personnel from the U.K. Division of Naggers and Scolds International (NASI)accompanying him.
As others pointed out, parents can be, and often are, fined and
jailed by the state for not being sufficiently paranoid regarding
the safety of their children, especially when a vindictive
neighborhood Mrs. Grundy makes an anonymous call to the Social
Services Gestapo.
Also, the vast majority of parents today are fucking paranoid
morons, who are totally in line with the prevailing philosophy:
Treat children like babies, and adults like children. Then pretend
to be surprised when you get exactly that.
My father had to walk three miles through the snow, uphill, to
be born.
Mrs TWC was a roamer as a kid. It is amazing she didn't get killed,
kidnapped, raped, or come to some other unfortunate end. Well,
besides marrying me that is.
The point is certainly well taken but there is also something to be
said for supervision. My kids are allowed to roam to some extent.
We're more worried about them getting snake bit or falling off a
Peterbilt-size rock than getting kidnapped. However, where we live,
if they did get napped, nobody would know. They also have cell
phones, something that was either not available or not affordable
until very recently.
Fluffy - I live in a suburb with no real traffic lights within
at least four miles, and the kids still don't play outside. At
least where I live, the problem isn't "stranger-danger", it's X-Box
and cable TV.
Whenever the power goes out, you will see kids of all ages
wandering around - walking to the tennis courts, swimming in the
lake, riding bikes through the watershed, sledding in the winter.
Just good ol' fashioned unsupervised play.
But, as soon as the power comes back on, the neighborhood is
empty.
I take my son to the park every day after work, and we're always
playing alone. It makes me sad.
100 years ago that 6 mile walk to the fishing hole might
have been all through a bucolic English countryside.
It might have been. But I doubt that kids in central London 100
years ago were limiting their explorations to their block.
I call child slothism hysteria on these types of stories. I look out my door (DC suburb) and kids are playing outside everywhere. They are playing ball in the driveway and street to the point where I joke the guy is going to have to buy a new garage door cause it is so banged up from being the backstop, in the woods behind my house I'm a little annoyed some older kids put of a "skankville" sign and made a semi fort on an island in a creek, and more people complain about the unsupervised kids then the lack of children playing. And this is due to fears of them being hit by a car more than over an abduction. Me thinks the same crowd that is throwing acustaions at today's parents being overprotective are just regurgitating the hype that fuels these stories. I take my kids to playgrounds and they are not empty. I take them to the pool and the pool is not empty. I let them play outside, and they aren't the only ones. Not buying it.
Pro, Grandpa prolly was armed. One of the supers, I think it's Scalia, talks about taking the NYC subway cross town to the range with his rifle when he was a kid. Imagine doing that now.
Between the Bibertarians and the media, it's a wonder kids ever get to leave their hyperbaric chambers.
A lot fewer cars on the road in 1919. We live on a quiet
suburban street -- we deliberately looked for a house on a quiet
suburban street -- and my son still almost got killed by a car
right outside our house when he was about 6 years old.
The other part of the picture is that families are a lot smaller
now. If you had 8 kids in 1919, you not only didn't have the time
to monitor your kids closer, but you could rationally afford to
take more risks per child. If you only have one or two kids, the
genetic consequences of one of them dying is a lot higher than than
if you have 8.
But, yeah, statist parents being overprotective is also a factor.
I've had quite a few sometimes heated discussions with my much less
libertarian wife about how carefully the kids need to be
watched.
as soon as the power comes back on, the neighborhood is
empty.
LOL. I know a chick who uses Runescape as her after school
babysitter. It's pretty effective.
From X-Box to 24 hour a day cartoons there is a lot more options
for play time.
There are times when you just have to turn off the computer and
kick your kids out the door. We try to manage it so that spud time
is during the heat of the afternoon, which at our place can be
pretty intense.
I blame the design of newer suburbs. If you look at subdivisions from the 50s and 60s, they put actual sidewalks in them. Its rare to find a subdivision today with sidewalks. They want to make it look "Country" or whatever, but it makes walking a lot more dangerous. Everything now is built around the automobile.
"If you had 8 kids in 1919 ... you could rationally afford to
take more risks per child."
You won't win any points with that arguement... but I like
it.
CB
BTW, I'm young enough to have grown up with video games. I loved my NES, but I also got outside plenty. Its not a zero sum game.
My block is maggoty with kids.
(ProGLib, can you tell I've been listening to the Penn Radio
archives?)
What strikes me is that grandfather in 1950 had a mile of
roaming room and that mother Vicky in 1979 had half of that. I
seriously doubt that a female born in 1950 would have been given a
mile unsupervised. So I'm seeing no difference between 1950 and
1979; or to put it another way, grandfather raised his daughter the
same way he was raised (adjusted for sex).
Vicky is an overprotective shrew.
Stop blaming video games. Plenty of people grew up with them and still saw sunshine. Blame the lazy parents -- all of whom need kicked in the crotch.
highnumber,
Penn must return to radio soon!
I'm getting old episodes of Penn & Teller: Bullshit
from the library (I own the first season). My wife and I watched
the "PETA" and "War on Drugs" episodes last night.
P&T so rule. We should send them Bibertarian t-shirts :)
As a child in the '60s, the limits expanded as you got older. At age 8, the school (1/2 mile), the park (3/4 mile), the library (2 miles) and the (GASP) shopping mall (3-4 miles) were all in range. If accompanied by an older sibling the ranges increased dramitically. My 14 year old brother could take me to downtown Detroit for a baseball game (15-20 miles on a bus). Trust me, in metro Detroit in the '60s traffic was considerable and crime, well it WAS Detroit with a well deserved reputation for violence, even then. Fear, not crime or traffic is the issue here.
Cesar, I lived in a 1960's subdivision. All the streets were
chopped up and cul-de-sac'd for the purpose of slowing down
traffic. What that meant in practice was that us kids had to either
climb block walls and cut through strangers back yards or walk
blocks and blocks out of the way to go all the way around to get to
a house that was really only 100 yards away but was blocked off by
a row of houses that were there strictly to impede traffic (for
safety). I guess I said that.
And all that effort by the safety Nazi's made no difference to Bob
Ogg or El Geronimo de Crow who both still managed to burn rubber
and get sideways on those short, safe, residential streets. :-)
Okay, I give, what is a Bibetarian? I already went to the website. :-) Please don't make me work hard to figure it out.
TWC-
I guess I was thinking more of the 1950s-style subdivision my mom
grew up in. That subdivision was a gridiron style one with a small
shopping center just outside of it. Whenever I visited my
grandparents there when I was little, I was amazed I could go get
an ice cream cone bye myself without having to risk life and
limb.
TWC,
Was the traffic really slowed down? What I see with wide roads,
fewer intersections and often no sidewalks or street parking is
faster traffic.
Sorry, TWC, I thought we'd been using that around here long enough not to explain. I first used the term on Hit & Run a while back, but here's the original posting on bibertarianism at Urkobold.
Cesar, TWC,
It's not the lack of sidewalks in subdivisions that's a big deal -
most of them have little enough through traffic and the streets are
safe for kids.
The problem is that they didn't put sidewalks on the arterial
streets that the subdivisions empty out to, even as those streets
got a lot more dangerous to walk along because of all the extra
cars from the new subdivisions.
What smart towns do is write their subdivision regulations to
require sidewalks along both sides of the streets in a subdivision,
and then waive that requirement in exchange for the developer
installing, or paying for, the same length of sidewalks along what
used to be the country roads, and are now the main arterials.
I have a cunning plan. Make all illegal aliens act as bodyguards for our children during a seven-year indentured servitude period. At the end, they get citizenship and five acres of land. And a free subscription to People.
One of the supers, I think it's Scalia, talks about taking
the NYC subway cross town to the range with his rifle when he was a
kid.
The year I graduated from high school, 1965, almost every NYC high
school had a rifle team. Students routinely carried their .22s on
the subway and into school, attracting about as much attention as
the band kid with a trombone.
Today they get expelled if the campus cops find a butter knife lost
in their car.
In Britain retired police officers can get arrested for
unneccesarily carrying a pocketknife.
kids today
meh ...
Nofx - What's The Matter With Kids Today?
There's something wrong with the kids in my neighborhood
They always listen to music
They disregard civil disobedience
They'd rather do what they're told
They don't drink, or fuck, or fight
They sit home, and read, expand their minds
There's something wrong with the kinds in my cul de sac
Their always goin to church
They dress well and they're
Speaking articulate
They show eachother respect
They're never late, don't joke
or break rules
They eat right, study hard
They like school
There's something wrong with the kids in my neighborhood
Was the traffic really slowed down?
Rhywun, sorry, with my comment about getting sideways and burning
rubber anyways, I was tryng to say that, no, traffic was not slowed
down.
Joe,
We had sidewalks in the residential areas and on the main roads as
well. I'm not saying ours was more dangerous, just that I don't
think all that engineering worked any better, although it did
inconvenience everyone, particularly those of us on foot or on
bicycle.
As an adult I lived in a high traffic old neighborhood with a grid
of streets like what Cesar describes. The solution there was lots
of stop signs.
Today they get expelled if the campus cops find a butter
knife lost in their car.
Larry A, the whole thing stinks like a kettle of chum that's been
sitting in the desert for a couple of days.
It is ridiculous that I have to lecture my son at least twice a
week about taking his pocket knife to school (and other items as
well). He's just the kid who'll forget, too. You can't believe what
we find in his jeans pockets on wash day.
Did Rand have any children?
It was a responsibility that she was not interested in assuming.
When she was writing Atlas [Shrugged], she would sometimes say that
she was "with book." The only children she wanted were her
books.
(http://www.noblesoul.com/orc/bio/biofaq.html)
Keyword: responsibility.
Are there any libertarian women on this board who have children
that care to comment?
Agreed: this responsibility belongs to the parents, not the
government.
That said, what parent is willing to chance that their child will
end up that statistic of one in a billion (make that whatever
number you wish) who loses his life because mama let him wander
alone?
Are those who object to supervised walks opposed to the term
parent or legal guardian until age 18 years old?
Be thankful you're here, and in some cases, in spite of parental
supervision.
The Fairfax County, Virginia, Department of Family Services has
published a sheet of "Information about Child Abuse and Neglect
from Fairfax County" which states that children 7 years and under
"Should not be left alone for any period of time. This may include
leaving children unattended in cars, playgrounds, and backyards.
The determining consideration would be the dangers in the
environment and the ability of the caretaker to intervene."
I wrote to them pointing out that When I was six and seven years
old (between 1960 and 1962), I regularly walked, by myself, the .6
miles to my elementary school in Arlington County, and that most
children my age did the same. (I didn't even mention how my parents
pushed me out to play in the back yard for hours at a time.) I
asked them if it was now the judgment of the Fairfax County
Department of Family Services that what my parents did with me
constituted child abuse or neglect, or whether there were any
circumstances in which it might be permissible. You will be shocked
to learn that I never got any reply.
(I just realized that yesterday, my five-year-old son asked if he
could go play outside, and I told him he could, but that if he went
to one of the neighbors' houses he'd have to come back and tell us
where he'd be. I guess I should go turn myself in right now.)
It's not the lack of sidewalks in subdivisions that's a big
deal - most of them have little enough through traffic and the
streets are safe for kids.
Except when those roads are designed to highway standards--which is
usually the case today--and consequently, what little traffic there
is is roaring by at 40 or 50 MPH.
Some of the 'problem' (if this is one) must also relate to the
growth of after-school activities. When I a kid in the late
50s/early 60s I would ride my bike for miles along country roads
and spend hours wandering in the woods. Only a small fraction of
kids played organized sports. Nowadays many kids (maybe the
majority) participate in formalized
soccer/cheerleader/karate/basketball practice and they simply don't
have as much time to themselves as kids did 'back then'.
(So, where's my trophy for 'Participation'?)
Rhywun,
I like those places that require you to drive several miles on 22'
of pavement, up and down hills and around turns, to get to the
45'-wide subdivision road, and its 100' cul-de-sac.
Even better is when there are sidewalks around the cul-de-sac,
extending all the way to the country road, then ending.
Even better is when there are sidewalks around the
cul-de-sac, extending all the way to the country road, then
ending.
Well, at least people can walk to their neighbor's house and live
to tell the tale.
My niece and nephew live in a similar situation, except the
"country road" is a major county highway and I'm not sure if the
cul-de-sac in question has sidewalks. Not surprisingly, their
parents spend many hours ferrying them around to planned
activities.
the 'problem' (if this is one)
Perhaps it's not a "problem" per se, yet everyone seems to know
instinctively that the "old way" was better. I don't see anyone
arguing that it's better for kids to sit around inside all day or
spend all their time in planned activities--even though we tell
ourselves just that when making the decision to move to a
neighborhood where those are the only options.
It's also tough when you know you've got seven level 2 sexual offenders living in the neighborhood. True back in the day, you probably had the same or more, and didn't know. I'm not sure what the answer is.
Thanks Pro, I had the context of bibertarians pretty close, just couldn't wrap my brain around the entire concept without the visual. :-)
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