June 8, 2007
Cathy Young tries to understand the recent outbreak of anti-gay violence in Russia.
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There seems to be quite a bit of violence going on in Russia
over all sorts of issues as well as a fair amount of violence that
is occurring just for the hell of it. Youtube is lousy with videos
of Russian psychopaths attacking immigrants (actually Russians, but
from other parts of Russia).
Meanwhile, washed-up douchebags like David Duke have found a second
life giving lectures in the former Soviet Union and their mafia
makes the Sopranos look like the boyscouts.
It's all pretty sad.
If they had a parade without applying for permission, then it's no surprise the police had to arrest them. The same thing would have happened in any city over here. They flagrantly broke the law.
The country's in sad shape, and unhappy people always look for
scapegoats. Slightly off-topic: I remember reading somewhere (I
think in the book The Lucifer Principle) that in the
pre-civil rights South, there was a correlation between cotton
prices and lynchings: the lower the price for cotton, the higher
the number of lynchings. The theory is that unhappy, broke farmers
were more likely than happy, propserous ones to relieve their
frustrations by beating someone who can't beat back.
Looks like all of Russia is turning into the alcoholic who gets in
trouble at work but can't punch his boss, so he goes home and beats
his wife instead.
Russian mobs of heterosexuals attack Russian mobs of homosexuals
for the same reason the Russian populace isn't really aware of
Putin's creeping authoritarianism and for the same reason Kruschev
was so unpredictable. Every Russian adult male is dead drunk every
second of the day.
I've been to Ireland and I've been to Russia. The Irish seem like a
nation under voluntary prohibition in comparison to the
Russians.
I'm not moralizing, just confused how a nation of individuals
expects to be productive or rational when everyone finishes their
first bottle of vodka at 1PM.
Cathy, you're behind the times in regard to gay rights in Cuba. The government there is weighing either the creation of civil unions or outright legalization of same-sex marriage. Please don't let your own writing be encumbered by out-of-date prejudices as well.
I hate to agree with Bill, well in part I agree, but this
sentence is pretty weak.
Castro's Cuba has been notorious for its persecution of gays.
Even if what Bill says about Cuba's SSM proposal (do dictators
propose things?) isn't true, you still have to give up
more then a one-liner with no references, evidence, examples, or, I
don't know, something.
Unless I am just one of the few who had no knowledge of Cuba's
historical persecution of homosexuals, a one-sentence statement
seems a little lacking.
Can persecution of gays get you asylum in the US? Granted, your mortal life usually isn't in danger if you just shut up marry a woman, but....
-Rhywun
Doh!
[hand slaps forehead]
Whatever indie-cred I still had left is suddenly gone. :)
Steve- Actually, the story about the pending change in Cuba appeared in USA Today within the last couple of months.
Further reference:
http://www.usatoday.com/news/opinion/editorials/2007-02-26-opcom_x.htm
Cathy,
Very good article. Well done. I'm now 98% confident that you are
gay. That doesn't change anything you've written, but it colors
quite a bit of it. As far as I can tell, you haven't made any
public declarations of your sexuality. I think that's a mistake. It
makes it seem as though you are hiding it, or possibly trying to
pass as straight.
My fiancee, who grew up in the former Soviet Union, is the most gentle, generous, sweet-tempered person you could ever hope to meet. But when it comes to gay folks, she can say things very similar to what the emailer said in Cathy's article. I've tried to persuade her otherwise, but she'll reply that she's entitled to her own opinion (can't really disagree there). Virtually all of the former Soviet immigrants I know who've come here in the last ten years have the same attitude, but some who've been here longer (like Cathy Young) are more tolerant. So I'm hoping she'll lighten up over the years--at least before we find out that one of our (hypothetical future) kids is gay!
Funny how Cathy seems to want to blame this issue mostly on
athiesm, and gives authoritarianism a free pass. I think this is
all to do with central authoritarian always blaming its problems on
"the other". The other, as other have noticed, can be gays,
non-whites, "foriegners" and Jews. It was one of the ways the
Communist regime maintained control - it wasn't the Communist
government or system that was the problem, it was {insert your
choice of 'other' here}. They did this for 70 years, its no wonder
these prejudices are come out of the wood work now.
Nothing to do with it being "atheist".
Bill
That's cool, I wasn't questioning your claim. In fact I was pretty
sure it was true, even though I had no knowledge myself.
Thanks for the articles.
"Looks like all of Russia is turning into the alcoholic who gets
in trouble at work but can't punch his boss, so he goes home and
beats his wife instead."
My! Quite the feminist stereotype!
"http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0247196/"
Thanks you so much. Full frontal male nudity is far to scarce.
Warren, are you a complete jerk, or do you just enjoy acting like one in chat-room postings?
Funny how Cathy seems to want to blame this issue mostly on
athiesm, and gives authoritarianism a free pass.
WHAT WHAT WHAAAAT?
Mike, what the fuck are you talking about.
jbd,
I must conclude that I am a complete jerk. I was really trying not
to be this time.
a high-level official in charge of children's rights, Ewa
Sowinska, followed in the footsteps of the late Rev. Jerry Falwell
by expressing concern about the sexuality of purse-carrying purple
Teletubby Tinky Winky and its possible effects on young
viewers.
Birds of a feather...
If they had a parade without applying for permission, then it's
no surprise the police had to arrest them. The same thing would
have happened in any city over here. They flagrantly broke the
law.
RTA: On May 27, the day of the planned parade, a group of fewer
than 100 Russian activists, accompanied by several European
parliamentarians and other foreign supporters such as British
journalist Peter Tatchell and pop singer Richard Fairbass, rallied
to present Luzhkov with a petition asking for the ban to be
lifted.
A rally to petition that the ban be lifted is not "they had a
parade without applying for permission."
Very good article. Well done. I'm now 98% confident that you
are gay.
Why? Because you think only gays write articles about gays? Not. Or
because only gays can write well-done articles? Not.
Funny how Cathy seems to want to blame this issue mostly on
atheism, and gives authoritarianism a free pass.
Not. The main point she made was that past gay bashing can't be
blamed on radical religious influence. The last two paragraphs of
her article are almost all about authoritarianism's negative
influence.
Why? Because you think only gays write articles about gays?
Not. Or because only gays can write well-done articles? Not.
No, this is based on a hundred little things that have pinged my
gaydar over the past few years from Cathy (I confess, it's mostly
the hair.) At any rate I think it's relevant when she writes about
stuff like this whether she is or isn't gay.
So does that make me a complete jerk? Or is it that I asked
directly? Because I think it's the latter and I really think I'm
right and the rest of the world is Effed up. Maybe you dissagree,
and think an authors sexuality is never of concern to the reader no
matter what topic they are writing about. But if it is of interest
to the reader, why is it better for him to pass judgment on the
author in silence than to speak it aloud?
So Warren, if Cathy Young ten years ago wrote an article
criticizing the way blacks were treated by the white South African
government, would you conclude she's a mulatto trying to
"pass"?
Not that her being black would change anything she's written, but
it would color it a bit, right?
Maybe you disagree, and think an author's ancestry is never of
concern to the reader no matter what topic they are writing about.
But if it is of interest to the reader, why is it better for him to
pass judgment on the author in silence than to speak it aloud?
Jennifer,
Well, if an author regularly writes about topics that touch on the
African American community, I would in fact want to know what their
connection to that community was.
The article, which was a very good one, tells us more about the
average Russian's understanding of liberty and the rule of law,not
just their homophobia.
A large portion of Americans still think homosexuality is a "sinful
abomination" (if they are Christian) or think homosexuality is
"creepy", but among those, the vast majority would still favor
their right to peaceably demonstrate, as well as practice their
lifestyle.
When it comes to the basics of a free society, a lot of Russians
still "don't get it."
No, this is based on a hundred little things that have
pinged my gaydar over the past few years from Cathy (I confess,
it's mostly the hair.)
So, you have Gaydar. Hmmmm....
Extra stereotypical gay points for the interest in womens'
hairstyles.
At any rate I think it's relevant when she writes about stuff
like this whether she is or isn't gay.
OK, Warren, what's your sexual orientation? I think it's relevant
when you write about stuff like this.
I mean, everyone knows that gays are so shallow and, well, gay,
that they're incapable of NPOV.
Great article, Cathy, hairstyle notwithstanding. (grin)
It is also likely that the totalitarian suppression of civil
society simply froze in place many cultural prejudices that were
challenged and reexamined in free societies.
Spot on! Expanding on that, the Orthodox church, which was
definitionally a reactionary institution under Soviet rule didn't
have to have the same dialogue that western churches have had to
address.
Poland is perhaps the most catholic country on earth. 'Nuff
said.
Cuba? What you said, plus catholicism, plus spanish machismo.
Big Moe,
I thought you'd never ask :) If this wasn't an old thread not
getting much traffic I'm sure there would have been a dozen
comments chastising you for opening that door. But I'll be kind to
other readers and unevasive to you and state that; For what it's
worth. To whomever wants to know. I would describe myself as a
dominant heterosexual.
one thing to remember is that it's not a "latest streak of anti-gay violence." it's a matter of "gay minority" playing by the rules too, and trying to understand what the alleged "majority" feels, which is not always the case. whatever happened at the suppression of the event that was striving to be a gay pride parade was terrible, no doubt about that. but the q is what did the minorities do to be perceived as a force to be reckoned? ever tri
anyways, on a separate note, what do you guys make of the recent Sexual Majority Parade in moscow?
if an author regularly writes about topics that touch on the
African American community, I would in fact want to know what their
connection to that community was.
What connection do you think Radley Balko must have with innocent
people raided by SWAT teams?
Because of the the article's liberal use of the words "gay" and
"pride", all the context-sensitive ads are for gay chatlines.
Thanks Google Adsense!
On the other hand Russians seem quite tolerant of Lesbianism, at least if the lesbians are attractive teen-age girls who sing crappy pop songs.
Warren, I think you need to seriously consider getting a refund on that gaydar. I personally know Cathy (no, not that personally) and I can tell you with 100% certainty that she is not gay. So there. Does criticizing homophobia automatically determine one's sexual orientation? Should she refrain from writing about certain issues because they don't affect her personally? She's really not all that egotistical. She's also criticized bigotry against Muslims. And we can't forget about that slam against the militant child-free ideologues. Gasp! She's a ten-year-old Muslim lesbian! Quite advanced for her age. Very opinionated, too.
To paraphrase Ellen: Yup. I'm straight. *G*
By the way, I've also criticized male-bashing and have written a
lot about divorced fathers' issues. So, in addition to being a
10-year-old Muslim lesbian, it appears that I'm also a man. Or,
perhaps, as some have speculated, the wife or girlfriend of a
divorced dad (and no, that's not true either). Believe it or not,
some of us are actually concerned about fairness and human rights
even when it comes to people who are not part of our own
demographic.
On a serious note, I think Douglas Westermann has the best point in
this thread:
The article, which was a very good one, tells us more about the
average Russian's understanding of liberty and the rule of law, not
just their homophobia.
A lesson in not letting your identity be known,
for who knows what tomorrow will hold?
Imagine Russia regressing back to Stalinism,
or Islam taking over the USA.
The hames are there.
It´s not limited to gay people. God forbid. Dissidents, black
people, asian people, foreigners, you name it and the Russians have
a state-sanctioned group attacking them.
Russia: Catch up to the rest of us or we will leave you
behind.
Let´s take their tired, poor and huddled masses and then just
embargo the shit out of their governments. Putin and his lot have
had their chance.
It´s on days like this that I wish the gay community had an
equivalent to the Black Panthers.
I'm no fan of Russia, but kudos to them on this issue! If some people have the deviant predilection for intimacy and sexual relations with the same sex - assuming adults only, which is certainly frequently not the case - they should keep it behind closed doors and not pollute society with it. Not all inclinations - such as homosexuality, pedophelia, kleptomania, male promiscuity, etc. - need to be honored.
I liked the article in reporting the situation as observed by
Cathy Young.
After reading the long list of discussion items, I wondered if many
had read the same article I did.
Why do you refer to objections to homosexuality as "homophobia?"
Why do you use the word "bigotry" to describe moral objections to
homosexuality?
I've lived in San Francisco and New York City for the past 35
years. So, I've lived right in the midst of the two largest gay
communities in the U.S.
Everything I've seen and experienced about gay male behavior tells
me that the "stereotypes" are 100 percent true. My closest friend
is a gay man. Twenty years ago, he had a large circle of friends.
My friend is the only surviving member of that circle of friends.
The rest are all dead of AIDS.
The AIDS epidemic made it pretty clear to me that traditional
religious objections to homosexuality are based on compelling moral
and public health concerns. Gay men are a threat to public health.
The wild promiscuity of gay male life is not something that bigots
made up.
So, really, what are you talking abouit? While I do not support
suppression of gays or violence against them, I can't make heads or
tails out of this talk about homophobia and bigotry. A sensible
society will do what it can to proscribe homosexuality. This is
just common sense.
I can understand how any culture in which men traditionally sit around drinking in bath houses might be just a wee bit sensitive about any suggestion of tolerance for homosexuals. Cheap shots aside, there seems to be a widely pervasive spirit of xenophobia in Russia and many parts of eastern Europe when one considers attitudes towards homosexuality, Jews, and other "outsider" groups.
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