David Weigel | August 15, 2006
Cathy Young asks if a modern woman needs the National Organization for Women like a fish needs a bicycle.
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Just another ageing organization that has strayed from its founding mission while most of its original goals have largely been met. See also: NATO, MADD.
I've been wondering and am happy NOW have been brought up:
If the right to choose is a right based on "Their body their
choice", can we gain support for drug legalization based on the
same principle? How would they respond to that?
NOW is dedicated to the proposition that women first and
foremost are human beings, who... must have the chance to develop
their fullest human potential.
That deep down we are all as neuter as pine boards doesn't seem to
be true, though.
Wm. Kerrigan :
We are men and women. It almost always matters which we
are. Men and women are aggressive. Their regard for each
other is clouded by grudges, suspicions, fears, needs,
desires,
and nacrissistic postures. There's no scrubbing them out. The
best you can hope for is domestication, as in football, rock,
humor, happy marriage, and a good prose style. Jokes trade on
offensiveness; PC is not a funny dialect. The unconscious is
a joker, a sexist and aggressive creature. Our sexuality has
always been scandalous. _Raritan_ XI:3 p.103
What holds the interests of women differs considerably from what
holds the interests of men.
The women's "movement" has been behind the curve for thirty years. Just like the labor movement, they have run out of pertinent issues. And truly relevant topics such as birth control and abortion are not the sole province of women. They are human concerns and need to be addressed by all of us.
I admired NOW when it was about providing women choices. And
today, I believe women have them. But NOW today is all about making
sure women don't have to choose -- it's about promising
young women that they "can have it all" without self-managing the
consequences of their chosen paths.
One of NOW's more odious campaigns these days, at least to my way
of thinking, is mommy comp: the gub'mint and/or private employers
should pay mommies to stay home and do the most important job in
the world™, because mommies have figured out that, DUH, wiping up
strained bananas, watching Blues Clues, and changing sh*tty diapers
for no pay sucks! And surprise surprise, employers don't want to
pay you full salary and benefits for a half or a third of the work,
seeing's how your employer had nothing to do with your private
decision to increase your family size.
Nobody can have it all. You choose, and then you suck up the
consequences of that choice. Providing choice is great. Expecting
others to subsidize those choices stinks.
zero,
As a stay-at-home father, I can assure you that time spent with a
child (well, MINE anyway) doesn't suck. In fact, it's pretty darn
cool.
As you point out, the pay isn't great (nor should it be), but my
wife gives me an allowance, and that counts for something.
This darned country started into the shitcan when we started letting women vote and drive cars. Cripes, letting 'em smoke was bad enough. :P
I always thought if I were to start a mens' rights organization, I'd call it the Fish Bikers. If nothing else, the t-shirts would be really cool...
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