Nick Gillespie | April 25, 2005
What do the Democrats need to do to win back the White House, etc? One answer is to woo married parents--who preferred Bush to Kerry by 20 percentage points last fall--by being more like idiot Republicans when it comes to attacks on pop culture:
"Democrats will not do better with married parents until they recognize one simple truth: Parents have a beef with popular culture. As they see it, the culture is getting ever more violent, materialistic, and misogynistic, and they are losing their ability to protect their kids from morally corrosive images and messages."
So says Barbara Dafoe Whitehead, lead author of study put out by the Progressive Policy Institute, as quoted by the Washington Times. Go here for the PPI study and here for the Times story.
Dafoe Whitehead is most famous for announcing "Dan Quayle was right" in the pages of the Atlantic some years back. That is, that two-parent, well-functioning households generally provide a better context for kids than single-parent, dysfunctional ones. (I reviewed the book that grew out of that article for Reason here.)
It's TV-Turnoff Week, so I'm going to give a pass on most of this stuff. But the study--which heavily (and erroneously) suggests that "exposing" kids to media violence incites them to commit it in the real world--is light on everything other than attitude. And, surprisingly, '70s nostalgia.
The 1970s now seem like an age of Edenic innocence for kids. Back then, the big primetime television shows were All In the Family, Happy Days, Laverne & Shirley, and the Mary Tyler Moore Show. The Brady Bunch was going strong. Grease, Star Trek, and The Muppet Movie were hits at the box office. Debbie Boone's You Light Up My Life was at the top of the Billboard chart. A transgressive television moment meant showing Mike and Carol Brady in a double bed.
This is a rich rereading of '70s, culture, to be sure. Funny but I remember All in the Family as being the place on broadcast TV where you could go to hear real live curse-words and racial and ethnic epithets--or pretty close to them. I knew kids who weren't allowed to watch it for precisely that reason. I seem to remember the show being both controversial and popular. Sort of like The Sopranos is today, except that Archie Bunker and crew had a vastly larger audience (in absolute and relative terms) and that you have to buy HBO to be exposed to The Sopranos (and every TV, VCR, cable box, and Web browser comes full of tools to screen out offensive shit).
And where does The Bad News Bears, certainly one the most important movies of the '70s (in so much as it undercut traditional gender roles even as it sanctioned adolescent swearing like a motherfucker), fit into Dafoe Whitehead's reverie of a period now mostly remembered as the time when all that was good and decent in American society went down faster than Linda Lovelace in Deep Throat? (That's precisely the argument that David Frum made in How We Got Here.)
And for that matter, how in the world could anyone claim that American pop culture is more misogynistic than it was in the '70s (rest in peace, Andrea Dworkin)? Sure, it might be more graphic, both in terms of sex and violence (though let's not forget that the late '60s and early '70s was an unparalleled period of full-frontal nudity). But more misogynistic? I think not.
What was the message of Grease, a science-fiction musical set in an alternative universe where, judging by the looks of most of the cast, kids go to high school in their 30s or 40s? Out with Sandra Dee and in with slutty, anachronistic spandex outfits, if I'm recalling rightly. And let's not even talk about woman-hating films like Animal House, pretty much everything by Clint Eastwood, Looking for Mr. Goodbar, John Travolta's other massive hit of the decade, Saturday Night Fever, etc., etc., most of which display a casual contempt for the fairer sex that is by and large lacking in today's pop culture.
Which isn't to say that Dems aren't taking the idea of attacking pop culture seriously (who knows, it might even work). As the Times' story documents, Howard Dean is working the angle, as is Hillary Clinton.
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I don't get it. All parents were children, and most were
consumers of pop culture before they had children of their
own.
I don't have any kids, but I'm at the age where most of my friends
are starting to. There is a change that takes place for many people
once they have children. They suddenly forget what they were like,
what they did, what they enjoyed, and focus on preventing their
kids from being allowed to do anything. None of my friends have
exhibited the change just yet. When does it happen? Is it when the
kids start asking questions?
For the Democrats to become more like the Republicans to win the
next election is folly. Whatever happened to be an alternative? I
look forward to my fantasy world where I vote for individuals.
I've had that experience too. They have a kid and suddenly they
forget the deep drinks from TV's bottomless chum bucket they
enjoyed themselves, to no obvious bad effect.
If the dems try to become wannabee republicans they'll lose what
marginal power they have left. Why vote for wannabees when you can
have the real thing?
I'm trying to figure out where "America's Next Top Model" fits into the argument. Am I bad that I watch it while my one-year old plays in the same room? He prefers American Idol and sleeps through 24.
I'm more concerned with my kid getting a gun pulled on him in
school by a low IQ cop due to a "drug sweep" than the kid actually
using drugs.
Call me crazy!
Ahhh, the "golden days of television."
When the only sanctioned tv was programs like Little House on
the Prairie.
Oops. Wrong post.
I thought you were reminiscing about the introduction of English
language tv in Saudi Arabia back in the early '80's.
My bad.
"...most of which display a casual contempt for the fairer sex
that is by and large lacking in today's pop culture."
Two words: Hip Hop.
I don't disagree with Nick at all (love the re-invention of
'70's TV) but there are very real changes that aren't on TV that
make parents worried.
Say what you want about the culture of drugs and loose dress codes
that permeated the late '60's and '70's high schools but the fact
is that there were no Columbines and the swat team didn't get
called out to any High School that was then locked down like a
prison because the vatos locos were shooting the black gang
bangers.
I'm not even close to being a Mighty Righty but every week brings a
news story about something that could not have and did not happen
twenty, thirty, or forty years ago.
Put it all together with parents who are busy, who were educated by
public schools, who aren't particularly well informed, and it buys
you a vague sense of uneasiness about your kids. Couple that with
the shit that's on MTV and it's downright worrisome.
Best way to handle that is to skip the day care, keep your kids
busy, know what they're doing, and lock your daughters in the
basement until they're thirty or so.
And the fact that half my friends were raging druggies in school
isn't very re-assuring either. OK, so most of them grew up to
successes well beyond anyone's expectations, there are those other
two that are dead.
Dear Congress Critters,
It's called the "off" button. Every TV, VCR, DVD player, Computer,
Cable Box and Radio comes standard with one. Easy to operate, easy
to use, and already available to aid in your desire to protect
children from fun.
Love,
Tim
Dear Everyone Else Who Wants To Regulate My TV,
See above, and go bugger yourself.
Love,
Tim.
I blame the near-instantaneous information transfer that lets us see every terrible thing the moment it happens with hilarious side-effects added in real time to lessen the tragedy.
Not all the parents do the 180 -- my kids watch whatever they
want, and I don't monitor it. I'm either a bad parent, or just
laissez-faire, I'm not sure which.
They're good kids, though. One is an achiever, one is not. But both
are polite and respectful to those who are polite and
respectful.
I think kids adapt to their environment, and most of them are going
to be ok.
Furthermore, I watched bad '70s tv --come on, you know that shit was stoopid-- and smoked joints in geometry class, lit with a magnifying glass. Is somebody going to claim a connection there?
TWC- correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't recall any black
rampage killers in the schools like Columbine.
Yes, an occasional rival gang member, but no wanton
slaughter.
Maybe some other factors at work besides tv?
Parents, being the class of human with more experience and
sometimes wisdom than their kids, inevitibly face control (as in
the ego variety) problems with their kids ... that and guilt can be
a muthafucka.
But fuck all of you that want to make my world fisher-price so you
don't have to think about raising your kid.
And P.S.: The structure of American schools are far more suck-ass
and pointless than TV. This is yet another diversionary tactic to
keep our eyes off what we should care about; THE FRIGGEN PLACE WE
SEND OUR KIDS FOR 6 GODDAMN HOURS A DAY OUTSIDE OUR
SUPERVISION.
Happy, no no, I didn't mean to imply anything about TV just to
sort of offer my own observation as to why parents are a little
edgy.
A little off topic I agree and I tried to allude to that with
"there are very real changes that aren't on TV that make parents
worried."
I know, it was less than clear, but I'm not blaming TV for
anything. TV's like smoking pot, it saps your motivation (if you
allow it to) and wastes your time, but it also entertains and
informs. I make 'opiate of the people' jokes but I don't find TV
inherently evil.
We all are soothed by the reading books mantra but we also forget
that there was a time when reading books was seen in many places as
every bit the useless extravagance that TV is accused of being.
Free,
Our kids are younger and we do pay some attention to what they
watch.
However, I let my kids watch Pearl Harbor and Private Ryan at age 7
& 5. We let them watch some adult fare but not the Sopranos or
certain episodes of CSI (which my 8 year old son loves--CSI that
is).
But the worst shows are the Disney shows with the constant
enviro-whacko subliminal messages. I have paused the TV many times
to counter some of those messages.
I think that kids learn a lot of what they need to know from casual
conversation with their parents about the shows they watch. And
there's a lot of conversation at our house.
TWC- sorry, must have misread.
I understand your uneasiness, but my knee jerks violently when I
hear politicos or nannies prescribe solutions. :)
Like you, I think conversation with the kids alleviates problems,
but if Johnny the neighbor is building bombs in his bedroom,
there's little society can do.*
*Well, most of these kids show previous deviant behavior, so
locking them up might be a good idea.
There were a number of
"Columbines" in the 1970s -- the Brenda (I Don't Like Mondays)
Spencer shooting being the first to come to mind. The difference is
that back then, school shootings didn't get instant live nationwide
TV news coverage with spiffy logos, ominous theme music and two
solid weeks of followup in the form of nonstop talking-head
theorizing. By all accounts, kids today are much less likely to be
involved in school violence than they were 20-30 years ago.
My favorite example of over-the-top '70s TV misogyny is the old
Battlestar Galactica episode in which all the manly pilot men got
sick and Cmdr. Adama was forced -- forced! -- to let a bunch of
icky ol' cootie-laden girl shuttle pilots fly
their precious Colonial Vipers. Watching it today is like examining
something from another solar system.
What was the message of Grease, a science-fiction musical
set in an alternative universe where, judging by the looks of most
of the cast, kids go to high school in their 30s or 40s)? Out with
Sandra Dee and in with slutty, anachronistic spandex outfits, if
I'm recalling rightly.
Not to mention the long-running stage musical it was based on. In
the Broadway version of Grease from the now-saintly 1970s, the
opening number was about catching VD from the school restroom
toilets, and the character of Sandy transferred not from Australia,
but a parochial school, leading to many anti-Catholic jokes in the
libretto. Paging William Donohue...
Say what you want about the culture of drugs and loose dress
codes that permeated the late '60's and '70's high schools but the
fact is that there were no Columbines and the swat team didn't get
called out to any High School that was then locked down like a
prison because the vatos locos were shooting the black gang
bangers.
Ahem . . .
" Self-flattering
generationalist drivel. Numerous school shootings occurred in
the 1980s and 1970s. Two gradeschoolers were murdered and nine
wounded by a 16 year-old girl in 1979, seven Fullerton, California,
university students slain by a student gunman in 1976, and a 1974
barrage by a rural New York honor student left three dead, nine
wounded."
And let's not forget Charles Whitman.
Too, I'm thinking about Stephen King's Rage, written as
Richard Bachman in the early 1970s, which concerned a student
holding his high school class hostage at gunpoint. This stuff
didn't pop out of a vacuum. My father went to public high school in
Brooklyn in the late 50s/early 60s, and he's got some horror
stories about rapes, stabbings, gangbangs, shootings, and all that
good stuff.
I'm not even close to being a Mighty Righty but every week
brings a news story about something that could not have and did not
happen twenty, thirty, or forty years ago.
Sure they could. You just didn't hear about them when they happened
in East Bumfuck.
Say what you want about the culture of drugs and loose dress
codes that permeated the late '60's and '70's high schools but the
fact is that there were no Columbines
Schools are safer today than they were in the late 1970s.
To Timothy:
George W. Bush himself made exactly your "off button" comment
himself in his interview last December on cspan.
They did put it there for a reason ....
I'm amused at how yesterday's PG-rated movies are today's R-rated movies. Consider all the cussing in "Close Encounters" or the mom and dad smoking dope (!) in "Poltergeist". I know that's why they came up with "PG-13" but I swear you will not see much cursing or drugging in a PG-13 movie.
has anybody noticed that the Democratic candidate in 2000, the
year that the "marrieds gap" opened up in the first place, was Al
Gore? Whose positions on these issues were right off of the PPI
song sheet? whose wife's name is as synonymous with bashing the
anti-family entertainment media as Dan Qualye's? if the electoral
argument here carries any weight at all, then Ms. Whitehead owes us
an explanation of those 2000 election returns.
that said, i think there are a lot of pro-family policies that
liberals & progressives can & should espouse vigorously.
some of them even speak to the issue of helping parents control
what their kids watch, read & listen to - e.g. requiring a la
carte pricing for cable TV, curtailing ads during the saturday
morning cartoon block, bringing back the "family hour" on broadcast
TV, barring schools from selling themselves as exclusive marketing
tools to soft drink & junk food merchants, etc. all of them
better - fairer, more relevant, and more effective - than, for
example, handing out fines based on the volume of mail the Family
Research Council is able to generate on a given day. all of them
aimed at a reasonable middle ground where free expression is free,
but parents can count on having at least a few times & places
where they don't have to worry about what their kids might be
exposed to. all of them focused on the right problem: a sales &
marketing culture that is so rapacious and all-encompassing that
our kids, despite most paretns' best efforts, often spend more time
training to be consumers than learning how to read and write.
politically these stances can serve an important purpose in a
take-back-the-married-families strategy for the Dems. they
highlight that, for the Republicans, your right to protect your kid
from inappropriate media content ends at the cash register. this
speaks directly to one of the things that really troubles a lot of
social conservatives about their abject surrender to the GOP; and
even if the arguemnt fails to win them over, just having the
conversation can serve to water down their enthusiasm, make them
ask more questions, and maybe break the spell a lot of them seem to
be under in which voting republican is just part of the
lifestyle.
At least in the 1970's you did not see President Nixon holding
hands with the king of Saudi Arabia.
I guess he was too busy drinking Mai Tais with Mao to be
bothered.
"...e.g. requiring a la carte pricing for cable TV,
curtailing ads during the saturday morning cartoon block, bringing
back the "family hour" on broadcast TV..."
Does the term "v-chip" mean anything to you?
"...all of them aimed at a reasonable middle ground where free
expression is free, but parents can count on having at least a few
times & places where they don't have to worry about what their
kids might be exposed to..."
They've already got a place they can do that--it's called "home",
and they can control it however they please. It sounds like you
might think that's the problem though--it sounds like you're
worried about what people are letting their kids watch at home. Is
that the case?
Thus, the choice with which we are presented: the party that
imposes morality based on religion, or the party that imposes
morality based on political correctness?
If you want to get more specific, the party that is offended by
anything sexual or anything that can be perceived as religiously
iconoclastic vs. the party that is offended by anything violent vs.
anything that can be perceived as anti-PC.
Thus, Ronald Reagan loved RAMBO while Bill Clinton loved AMERICAN
BEAUTY. Republicans denounced THE LAST TEMPTATION OF CHRIST on the
floor of the senate while Hillary wrote an article in the New York
Times blasting Julia Roberts for smoking in MY BEST FRIEND'S
WEDDING. Or just look at THE PASSION OF THE CHRIST: the GOP loved
it for its "morality" despite the graphic (and most likely
improbable) flaying and shredding, while Dems denounced the largely
exagerrated anti-Semitism.
It's always a cultural trade-off.
Once I became a parent I did find myself questioning what I was
comfortable having my children exposed to, even though I have
always been a die-hard libertarian in this area. As such, I
certainly would not mind having a "family hour" on the TV, but just
as certainly, I would expect there to be an "adult hour" sometime
later at night. What I think screws things up the most is this
effort to force everything to fit one set of rules. You can always
Tivo the OC's and watch them at 8PM the next day!
My approach has been to let my kids decide what to watch, but to
monitor it as I can, but they are still young and not interested in
adult fare. Still, my daughter likes to watch "The Simpsons" with
me and there have been a few episodes that could have led to some
uncomfortable conversations if she had picked up on the context.
Still, it doesn't stop me from watching them with her (I do draw
the line with South Park, though).
What I find particularly difficult for parents today is that there
is so much more stress in kid's lives today, compounded by the ever
growing numbers of rules and lack of tolerance, especially by
schools. Its amazing that there are not more kids "blowing off
steam" by blowing off people's heads.
Consider all the cussing in "Close Encounters" or the mom
and dad smoking dope (!) in "Poltergeist". I know that's why they
came up with "PG-13" but I swear you will not see much cursing or
drugging in a PG-13 movie.
Rhywun,
I'm not too sure of that. I can think of a couple movies off hand,
Major League being one (cripes, this has to be the 10th
thread I mentioned this movie, I swear I've seen more movies, but
this is apropos for this point), where it was rated R for nothing
except the language. I mean what else could it be for? The cutout
of the owner with the stars on the nips? Charlie Sheen's hair?
Seriously, all you concerned parents out there, every hour can
be family hour. Y'all need to learn about the v-chip.
"Using the remote control, parents can program the V-chip to
block certain shows based on their ratings."
http://www.fcc.gov/vchip/
Now you can leave your kids alone with the television and control
what they watch too! ...All without the hassle of going to the
Supreme Court and reinterpeting the Constitution, etc.
How about if the Democrats came up with an altogether new concept(for politics). "The individual is the basic unit of society. Families, and churches are groups. " I'd vote for a candidate who celebrated that view.
...Here's an idea!
Every minister in America should preach on the same topic one
Sunday. The subject of the sermon should be, "What is a V-Chip and
How Does It Work?"
...This could do more to keep smutty violent programming away from
the children of concerned parents than anything that's been done
since the medium was invented.
A couple of points to make about pop culture. First, I can
sympathize with people trying to raise their children in this
society. I don't have children, but if I did, I wouldn't want them
to see 90% of what passes for prime-time entertainment these days.
Yes, I can always turn the TV off or get rid of my TV to keep my
kid from being subject to Howard Stern getting strippers to take
their clothes off for him (BTW, how in the hell is Howard Stern
getting porn stars to get naked exciting on the radio?) but that is
a little extreme. I think people with children ought to be able to
own a TV with cable and not have to put a paddle lock on it to keep
their kids from seeing things they are not old enough to see and
understand. That doesn't mean that we should sensor everything, but
it does mean that broadcasters ought to use some discretion and not
always appeal to the lowest common denominator.
Even from an artistic standpoint, the lack of standards and
censorship has on the whole hurt the quality of television and
film. You list off all of those TV shows from 1970s, notice how
much smarter and better written they were then what we get now.
Yes, there were standards then and something as tame as All in the
Family were considered controversial. This meant that the writers
actually had to write smart material and not just depend on the
prurient to appeal to audiences. The same is true in film.
Initially after the old system of censorship was lifted, there was
an explosion of creatively in the late 1960s and 1970s (argueably
the high point of American film making). It wasn't long though, the
1980s, until the quality of films began to decline. Film makers no
longer had to be smart and clever to appeal, they could just put in
more violence and sex and be shocking to make a buck. Cartoon
violence was a guaranteed way to have a hit. Its a lot easier to
rely on the FX guys to give a great car chase or shoot out than it
is to write a good script. Thus, movies degenerated into the Summer
Blockbuster we know today. In the 1930s and 40s and 50s, Hollywood
gave us Withering Heights, Olivier's Hamlet, John Ford's Westerns
and Cary Grant's comedies. Today we get XXX, Gigli, and Showgirls.
The same is true in music. In the 1930s and 40s we had Cole Porter
and Count Basie, today we get Marilyn Manson. But the specter of
censorship will destroy art. I do think that there are good movies
and music produced today, its just that the complete lack of
standards of conduct or decency have made artists lazy and lowered
the overall quality of art.
No everyone who wants to enforce some standards of decency is a
religious fanatic who wants to make the US into Plymouth
Plantation.
John, people stayed away from Gigli and
Showgirls as if the theatres had been quarantimed. As for
the smart, non-prurient TV of the 70s, you didn't watch much
Three's Company or Charlie's Angels, did you?
There's a reason they called it "jiggle."
As a kid in the 60s and 70s, I can remember groups like The Legion
of Decency which rated films from unobjectionable for all
to condemned, and the boycott by our parochial
school's parents' association of the local theatre that showed
horror and monster movies on Saturdays. Oh, man, how I wanted to
take in one of those twin bills!
Rock n' roll was going to ruin whatever kids hadn't escaped the
baneful effects of comic books in the 50s, the absence of fathers
was going to destroy the young folks during WWII, poverty was going
to warp the depression babies, jazz was going to lead the youth of
the 20s into moral degredation, and dime novels and pool were going
to spoil River City. Plato complained about the music kids listened
to. People should take all this with a great big helping of "It was
ever thus."
Kevin
Kevrob,
People did flock to the Mummy and any other numbers of bad movies
mad in the last 20 years. Were there bad movies made in the 40s and
50s? Of course their were. There were a lot of good movies made
too. A lot more good movies of higher quality than are made today.
If censorship is so bad for art, why is art today, a world where
censorship is virtually non-existence so bad and why was art so
much better when we had mild censorship?
John,
You're seeing Sturgeon's law in effect. 90%of everything is crap.
There are plenty of good movies and television shows that exist
today. The stuff that you remember from the sixties and early
seventies is what was worth remembering. In that context, it's easy
to think that it was all like that.
A lot of today's "junk entertainment" is the result of "focus
group" and "market research" and other such nonsense where
executives make decisions based on what they think people need to
see.
Lazlo,
Thanks for the link. One mass school killing in 1927 followed by
the next one in 1956 and then escalating from there tends to make
my point about the unease some parents feel. I was obviously
incorrect about the date sequence which apparently began earlier
than I thought, but the escalation of school violence did
occur.
(Lazlo and Dan)
"By all accounts, kids today are much less likely to be involved in
school violence than they were
20-30 years ago."
That is true unless the students attend high schools with large
populations, where risk of violence is much greater. Source:
Reason's Director of Education studies.
Phil:
"Sure they could. You just didn't hear about them when they
happened in East Bumfuck."
I agree with you to a point, but at some point in time it was more
than just a lack of reporting. Lizzie Borden was an anomaly, the
guy in Long Beach who was sentenced the other day to 25 years for
killing his mother and cutting her hands and head off was just
another news story, didn't even make the front page.
A better example, I went to high school in the late 60's with gang
bangers. But if you got into a fight with them the worst that would
happen is the guy might pull a switchblade or his buddies would
catch you behind the band room and beat the shit out of you (5 on
1). But they were not going to drive by the school and shoot you as
you walked up the front steps. That just was not going to
happen.
Rightly or wrongly that anecdotal PERCEPTION illustrates the
mindset of many parents today who compare that sort of experience
with what they see on the news and PERCEIVE as happening
everywhere. That's why I qualified my remarks the way I did by
saying parents who aren't well informed, busy, educated in public
schools, etc.
I may well be wrong on some of this stuff (Mrs TWC is with you guys
on this one for the most part) and I don't entirely disagree her or
you, but I also understand why some parents feel the way they do
about pop culture (which, incidentally I think is great).
And those parents who fear pop culture will, as a rule, still take
from it what they find appealing for their families and disgard the
rest. And that's as it should be.
It's not only revisionist to say there weren't school shootings
in the 70's, but laying the blame on media is also hopelessly
misguided.
The Columbine shootings had nothing to do with popular culture,
though of course that's what the left will want you to believe
since the teachers unions have them in their pocket. The real
reason for the Columbine shootings is that PUBLIC SCHOOLS SUCK.
From about 7th grade onward they are pretty miserable for most
students (just about everyone who's not on Varsity Football or
Cheerleading); it's sheer TORTURE for a smaller percentage who are
endlessly subjected to physical, emotional, and sometimes sexual
abuse by their fellow students, while teachers either ignore the
problem or join in.
dagny,
While I agree with you completely about the wretched environment in
our public schools, that probably wasn't the cause of the Columbine
massacre. See David Cullen's article "The Depressive and the
Psychopath", published last year in Slate.
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