Brian Doherty | December 9, 2004
Many big companies doing business in Massachusetts, including Raytheon, the New York Times Corp. and IBM, have decided to phase-out health care benefits for the unmarried same-sex partner of their employees, the Boston Globe reports:
Massachusetts companies, some of which pioneered so-called domestic-partner benefits for unmarried, same-sex partners, said they are now withdrawing them for reasons of fairness: If gays and lesbians can now marry, they should no longer receive special treatment in the form of health benefits that were not made available to unmarried, opposite-sex couples.
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Why not apply a common-law framework to unmarried heterosexual and homosexual couples alike? If both partners have cohabited for, say, five years, then regardless of state sanction, have the company consider them de facto married.
It would be nice if these companies maintained this "special treatment" until society figures out that private decisions made by consenting adults is their own fucking business.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6685653/
Canada's Supreme Court OKs gay marraige (but doesn't mandate
it).
Has the fabric of society been destroyed yet? Various posters on
this forum have assured me for a year now that the fabric of
society is due to unravel any minute now, thanks to gay
marriage.
I wonder how this latest development factors into their end-of-days
itinerary.
thoreau,
It's not an end-of-days itinerary: It's an end-of-Gays
itinerary.
WSDave
Will the destruction of society at least be accompanied by some hot girl-on-girl action?
Whatever these companies do, I don't really care. They can make any policy they want. I just don't want the government to make that policy (any more than acknowledging marriage, taxation, regulation, licensing, etc.....I guess it's too late already).
I will say that the Mass state requirements, combined with DOMA at the federal level, have made benefits in multi state companies a flaming nightmare. Pending some case law, no one knows how to comply with both at the same time, especially if there is any portion of a benefit attributable to insurance.
"Whatever these companies do, I don't really care. They can make
any policy they want. I just don't want the government to make that
policy (any more than acknowledging marriage, taxation, regulation,
licensing, etc.....I guess it's too late already)."
Just because you don't like government interference in business
doesn't mean you can't be appalled by unethical business
practices.
People like you are exactly why most people favor government
intervention in private industry.
Perhaps I should have clarified that I can't stop companies from
making such decisions and that whatever decision is made it should
ethically be fair without regard for race, creed, marital status,
or sex. That being said, I don't have to patronize these companies,
but it's people who can't stop at being appalled, and, through
force of government or lawsuit will impose their will on
others.
So, by my not wanting government to interfere, I am actually
responsible for its interference....? What?
Jim Anderson,
Why not apply a common-law framework to unmarried heterosexual
and homosexual couples alike?
I would imagine Massachusetts already has a common law marriage
provision which presumably applies now to gays. But not all
domestic partners automatically want to marry. Gays who were
getting benefits under domestic partner provisions that are being
rescinded must now decide whether to get married (whatever
procedure they use) or else lose the benefits they had.
andy,
What unethical business practices are you referring to?
fyodor,
Common-law marraige laws are becoming rarer by the decade last time
I looked at the issue.
Gary Gunnels,
What do mean, the laws establishing those provisions are being
voted off the books?
Massachusetts does not recognize common law marriages. Unless, of course, those marriages were established in another state.
Okay, I googled a bit and found that Colorado, where I live, is,
according to one website, one of 12 remaining states that accept
common law marriage, which apparently was a common law thing never
established by statute.
Point taken then.
But my larger point is that it's a separate issue and the new
situation means that gays must face a decision they didn't need to
before, regardless of whether Massachussetts accepts common law
marriages or not.
"That being said, I don't have to patronize these companies, but
it's people who can't stop at being appalled, and, through force of
government or lawsuit will impose their will on others"
My point was just that. You can not patronize them. If you do, then
yes, you are implicit in their actions. The way you made it sound
was that you'd patronize any business regardless of its practices,
you just wouldn't want GOV interference with them. I guess I was
wrong, but make yourself more clear in the future.
Gary : "What unethical business practices are you referring
to?"
I was talking about in general.
fyodor,
Yes. In most states in the United States today, there's no such
thing as common law marriage (as I recall its recognize in a little
over a dozen states and D.C.). Plus the notion that it is automatic
after seven years is a myth; you have to actually act like a
married couple, tell people you are married, etc., for it to kick
in. One state that recently got rid of common law marraige is Ohio
(though common law marraiges created before 2003 are still
recognized).
There was confusion, andy, because it's sometimes difficult portray sarcasm in type. THe whole original comment was meant to be mostly tongue-in-cheek.
The entire rationale for a common law marraige doesn't exist (in the U.S.) anymore anyway. It was a legal doctrine created in England and imported to the U.S. so that the poor, those whole lived in rural areas, etc., who couldn't get access to a J.P. could get married anyway. Interestingly - though the doctrine creates different rights there - something like 15% of Canada's marraiges are common law marraiges.
I apologize. I saw somewhere that this symbol means "tongue and
cheek" :')
I just don't know how many people would understand it. :P
Well, the whole domestic partner thing was created to fill the
(perceived) legal gap left by the lack of gay marriage.
With gay marriage available, the legal gap has been filled, and the
stopgap is no longer needed. How hard is that?
Complaining because they face the exact same choices as straights
and get the exact same benefits is not a good way for gay activists
to convince people that they don't want special treatment.
must now decide whether to get married (whatever procedure
they use) or else lose the benefits they had.
Was that not the expected result of the "overwhelming victory for
human rights" etc. that the SJC decision represented? It would be
unconstitutional to force Massachusetts companies to offer benefits
to non-married couples based solely on their sexual preference,
especially now that the Commonwealth must allow those couples to
obtain the same marriage licenses as straight couples.
If you do, then yes, you are implicit in their
actions.
"Where do terrorists get their money? If you buy drugs, some of it
might come from you..."
I what way, exactly, does the equal treatment of gay and straight couples constitute "unintended consequences"? It's pure supposition on Mr. Doherty's part to presume that campaigners for equality intended to maintain the domestic-partner exemption. On the contrary, Andrew Sullivan hails its removal as great news.
"Why not apply a common-law framework to unmarried heterosexual
and homosexual couples alike? If both partners have cohabited for,
say, five years, then regardless of state sanction, have the
company consider them de facto married."
I have a better idea: if they want the rights and obligations of
marriage, why not wait until they express a preference for those
rights and obligations by, oh, I dunno, getting married?
rst (and RC Dean, if you're addressing me)
If you think I'm saying this is a bad thing or unfair, I'm not. I
was merely pointing out to Jim Anderson why commmon law marriage
provisions are a separate issue.
does the equal treatment of gay and straight couples
constitute "unintended consequences"??
Because special interest groups have issues with their successes
chipping away at their status. Even progressives lament the death
of chivalry, no matter how much they want society to reject the
"because she's a woman" line of reasoning.
rst,
I always love how a group one doesn't like - in this case gay
people - become a "special interest group."
"Will the destruction of society at least be accompanied by some
hot girl-on-girl action?"
thoreau,
It will not.
The destruction of society will be accompanied by some hot
under-age girl on ME action, which is why the Rapture crowd can
relax for a good long while.
I always love how a group one doesn't like
That's a baseless claim.
If you think I'm saying this is a bad thing or
unfair
I hear you. I got into it with a lawyer friend over the fact that
the couples have to surrender the benefits they have now.
Apparently this is unfair.
rst,
Also, don't blame me for pointing out that you are using a code
phrase common amongst those who despise gay people.
I recall that a year or so ago, a certain poster (who doesn't
seem to be with us anymore) got desperate and claimed that the
benefits issues associated with gay marriage could send society
over the brink: Either the associated cost would drive companies
bankrupt, or else companies would get out of the benefits business
altogether, destroying the American way of life.
Whatever one might think of the many issues associated with
employer-provided health insurance, it seems pretty clear that
employers are adapting to it just fine.
Any other justifications that the opponents of gay marriage would
like to fall back on?
CORRECTION
employers are adapting to gay marriage just fine
in regard to benefits
thoreau,
Just listening to him and the question popped into my head. I have
a "New Wave" mix CD I made on right now (which just changed to the
ever popular "Der Kommisar" by Falco).
http://www.lyrics007.com/Falco%20Lyrics/Der%20Kommisar%20Lyrics.html
I vaguely recall something about Andrew and Elvis Costello.
Maybe Andrew liked his music or something.
Then again, my memory could easily be inaccurate.
Gary, I don't recall you in many of the old threads where Andrew
and I debated gay marriage. Were you just lurking back then?
Here's a classic thread:
http://reason.com/hitandrun/2004/03/the_x_president.shtml
I have yet to hear a refutation of my argument in that thread.
Well, it's too bad you didn't participate in some of those discussions. We had Jean Bart back then, as well as Shannon Love and Andrew. I know you've enjoyed locking horns with Shannon Love now and then, but he or she (does anybody know?) used to post more frequently. And you would have enjoyed locking horns with andrew as well. And you and Jean Bart probably would have agreed on a lot of things.
As you might expect, Andrew Sullivan sees this as
vindication:
"Amen. My first piece on marriage rights for gays - fifteen years
ago - was written precisely because I was worried that the plethora
of domestic partnerships arrangements, civil unions, etc. was bound
to weaken civil marriage as a social norm. Give 'em marriage! And
once gays have marriage, you can and should then dismantle all
other civil arrangements. At the time, this was theory. But now we
see it happening in practice: clear proof that letting gays marry
can strengthen, rather than undermine, the existing institution.
Gay activists should quit their whining. Religious right activists
should reconsider their opposition. Gay marriage really is the best
option for all of us. "
Sorry to be slightly off topic, but:
Can anyone translate Der Kommisar for me? I love that tune and
alway wondered what he was talking about. Falco was such a cool-ass
freak.
And thoreau, don't you know jean, gary, and mr bourne are all the
same person? :)
Will you settle for the After the Fire version? It's pretty
close.
http://www.80smusiclyrics.com/artists/afterthefire.htm
And yes, "special rights" is code for "gays don't deserve the same rights we have". See: John Derbyshire and NR in general.
If you do, then yes, you are implicit in their actions. The
way you made it sound was that you'd patronize any business
regardless of its practices, you just wouldn't want GOV
interference with them. I guess I was wrong, but make yourself more
clear in the future.
So what's wrong with what they're doing? You're implying that these
businesses are doing something unethical, amoral, or unfair.
They're adapting to the change in the law to provide exactly equal
treatment to gays and straights. If that's unethical in your book,
fine, but if so, I'd like to see you justify that.
db,
As I said to Gary, I was talking about unethical practices in
general, not commenting on this particular practice.
And thoreau, don't you know jean, gary, and mr bourne are
all the same person? :)
While I most definitely have my own opinions on the question "Who
is Jean Bart?" I have agreed to keep those opinions to myself. I
now take people at their word when they say that they aren't Jean
Bart.
And because I'm taking them at their word, I couldn't possibly be
dropping any hints when I start telling somebody about how
interesting Jean Bart was "back in the day." Absolutely not. No
way.
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